Time: 2022,65438+1October 29th.

First of all, the goal is the beacon of life.

Having a goal in mind will make you pay less attention to troubles that have nothing to do with it. Don't care about ordinary irrelevant little troubles, which will make you open-minded and cheerful.

The reason why a person is great is that he has a great goal first.

Someone has a goal, how can he make up his mind to capture the career highland? With the internal strength of target production, we will find a place to use it. If there is no goal and no real practical action, there is naturally no chance of success.

Goals inspire people and generate energy for action.

Goals are the cornerstone of success and a milestone on the road to success. The goal is a persistent desire, a subconscious mind generated in the bottom of my heart, which can mobilize your creative passion and your heart for a long time.

The goal is the concretization of beliefs and ambitions.

It can be said that the reason why a person is great is that he has a great goal.

Wu: I understand that the goal mentioned here is willingness. Will determines everything, because we say that the goal is actually a little extroverted and the will is introverted. Yes, it is the subconscious from the bottom of my heart. But it is more appropriate to use the expression of will instead of the goal feeling.

Second, establish your starting point in life.

The whole process of life is comprehensively considered according to the physiological age, the mature development process of people and the replacement of main contents. It is scientific to divide it into four stages:

The first stage, from birth to 18 years old, is called the catch-up period of life process. No one can choose their own genetic factors and maternal conditions. After birth, the social environment began to exert its influence and cultivate his social adaptability. Only in this way can he improve his adaptability to society.

The second stage is the mature stage, the age is 18~25, and it is a youth full of ideal romance and passion. Try to sum up all the knowledge, social experience and practical experience I learned during my makeup. The central task is to make oneself mature initially. Initially form a world outlook and obtain a harmonious unity of social outlook, life values and cognitive style. Form an overall understanding of the objective world. The second is to basically choose the goal of life and career.

The third stage is to create 7-year-olds and 25-55-year-olds. This is the golden time of a lifetime. No matter what kind of work people are engaged in, this stage is the best time to carry out creative work.

Not only are people of this age young and strong, but they have accumulated rich experience. After training, their mood is stable and their endurance is lasting.

The fourth stage is to summarize the psychological changes that have taken place during the period from 7 to 55 years old. As well as the decline of physical strength and energy, people have to leave the front line and do some work to sum up personal experience.

Third, draw a blueprint of your life.

The difference between successful people and mediocre people is that the former determines the direction of life for life planning. So I know what I need, and you can achieve your goal with greater confidence.

Life needs blueprints more than building a house. However, many people have never planned their own lives, and they just live a drunken life every day.

Draw an outline for your life. What are you going to do with your life? We can only make a rough estimate. But you can choose what you like to do.

A 20-year plan, with the general direction of life, can draw up the details.

Ten-year goals and twenty-year plans must be completed in twenty years? Not necessarily.

The five-year plan only needs a computer, and in a few seconds, you will know how much money you will earn in five years.

Three-year planning, three years is an important part, and life planning is usually just a simple direction. The three-year plan is the most important decision point.

Next year's plan, this is the budget table and work plan that you should check at least once a week. /kloc-The 0/2-month plan is not a dead letter, but an action plan.

Next month's plan, seriously implement next month's plan, starting from 15 every month, which is the most suitable day.

Planning for next week is the key to time planning for most people.

Planning for tomorrow is the most concrete life plan.

Don't be intimidated by the 20-year plan. Write it down well. Modification is inevitable. Making plans is a pleasure, not a task.

Only by knowing what you need can you achieve your goals with greater confidence.

Wu: At first, I thought the goal of life was too ambitious and too long ago. Now it seems that I really don't want to be scared. The root of it is to break through the crux of thinking and cognition. Business thinking is a very comprehensive thinking. It is really useful for Lao Wang to put forward his point of view and help him draw up his life plan with business thinking.

Because other thinking can only help in one direction, but can't have a global view. And business thinking, it just opened our whole vision.

Fourth, the decision to change your life.

As long as a person loves his job infinitely, he is likely to succeed.

After 18, two major decisions may make or break you.

First of all, how will you make a living? So what do you do?

2. What kind of life partner would you choose?

Carnegie gave us the following suggestions, some of which are warnings for your reference when choosing a job:

1, don't listen to people who say they can give you a test and then point out which career you should choose. Such people simply think that they have been taught the basic principles of professional psychological counselors, and professional psychological counselors must consider the health, society and economy of the clients. At the same time, he should also provide specific information about employment opportunities.

2, avoid choosing those already crowded occupations and careers.

3. Avoid choosing industries with only110 survival opportunities. It means that if you choose this industry and give up within one year, the probability of quitting is 90%. The chance of staying is only 10%. Even if you stay, the chance of success is only 10%. Otherwise, you can barely make a living.

Before you decide to devote yourself to a career, take a few weeks to have a comprehensive understanding of the work. How can we achieve this goal? You can interview people who have worked in this industry for ten, twenty or thirty years.

5. Overcome the misconception that you are only suitable for one occupation and everyone is normal. Can be successful in many occupations, relatively, every normal person may also fail in many occupations.

When making the most important decision in life, you must know what you really want to do.

Wu: The first decision is how you make a living. In Miss Susie's words, it is "I make money". What do I make money from? Is it labor, products, or your own skills? This is the most fundamental thing of closed-loop business! I deeply understand the essence and cause and effect of this.

The second decision, I think multiple latitudes will give us a warning. Can help us better judge whether we are suitable or not. Which is the best choice.

Fifth, we should have our own plans.

A famous diplomat once said, "Everyday events come to us one after another. If we don't have plans to check them, then we will encounter many difficulties. "

There are two things that affect our lives. One is everyday things, which is the opposition constantly imposed on us by our society. The second is to have a plan and judge whether the daily things are beneficial to you according to the plan. Whether we have the ability to handle these things well.

Having a long-term plan is like building a safety net. When we encounter difficulties in our daily life, he will give us timely protection, just like a trapeze artist performing distress and being caught by a safety net.

Revelation: It strengthens the necessity of making a life plan.

Sixth, we should always evaluate ourselves.

I listed 22 questions for my self-investigation:

1, do you have a clear goal? Are you passive or active?

2. Is your clear goal a strong desire? How often do you arouse this desire?

3. What did you do to achieve your goal? Do you pay?

4. What steps have you taken to organize a think tank? Have you been in contact with members of Takuwa? How many members do you chat with every month, week and day?

5. Do you accept some small setbacks as a habit to urge yourself to make greater efforts to challenge?

6. Do you spend your time implementing the plan, or have you been thinking about the obstacles?

7. Do you often sacrifice entertainment to spend more time implementing the plan? vice versa

8. Have you seized every minute?

9. Do you think your life is the result of the way you used your time in the past? Are you satisfied with your present life? Do you regard every second in the past as an opportunity to make progress in your life?

10, have you always maintained a positive attitude? Do you keep a positive attitude most of the time or sometimes?

1 1, when you take concrete actions, do you often show your personal initiative?

12, do you believe that you will succeed because of your luck and accident?

13, have you ever been inspired by the enterprising spirit of others?

14, when did it show a little more? Do you give every day, or do you just show more when others pay attention? Is your attitude correct when you show a little more effort?

15, is your personality attractive? Do you look in the mirror every morning to improve your smile and facial expression? Or just wash your face and brush your teeth?

16, how to apply confidence? When to pursue inspiration from infinite wisdom? Do you often ignore these forces?

17, have you cultivated your self-discipline ability? Do your out-of-control emotions often make you do things that you will regret soon?

18, can you control your fears? Do you often show fear? When will you replace fear with confidence?

19, always take other people's opinions as facts. Do you doubt every time you hear other people's opinions? Do you often use the right thinking to solve the problems you face?

20. Do you often try to win the cooperation of others by showing cooperation? At home, in the office or in your think tank?

2 1, can you give full play to your imagination? You use creativity to solve problems. Do you have any problems that need to be solved by creativity?

22. Will you relax yourself and pay attention to your health? Do you plan to start next year? Why not start now?

The way you use things fully reflects the degree to which you make success a part of your life.

Wu: These questions are simply soul torture. I will probably print them out and ask myself a question from them every day when I copy them. The purpose is to improve the shortcomings through personal inventory.

Constantly revise your life plan.

Persistent pursuit should be commended and praised, but it is not advisable to throw an alley into the darkness knowing that it is impossible, or to stick to a dead end knowing that the obstacles caused by objective conditions are insurmountable.

The adjustment of goals and aspirations is actually a dynamic adjustment and a random transfer. If you find that the original goal is not suitable for your own conditions, that is, external factors, you must change your course and choose another road.

The first is the adjustment of the main attack direction. If the original goal is obviously contrary to one's own personality, ability and interest, and the probability of achieving the goal is inclined to Lin, it is necessary to adjust the goal horizontally in time, capture new information in time, and determine a new main attack goal that is easy to succeed.

The second is the adjustment on the basis of the original goal.

Getting overall success is not the goal, well, it's just the beginning of climbing to a higher level.

The third is to get information feedback and adjustment. Frustrated at the initial goal, I suddenly woke up, readjusted the channel, and targeted myself in my own field.

The fourth is to adjust from forecasting the future. Social needs and personal interests, talent, personality, etc. Change it often. We should be good at being ahead of the curve and be good at forecasting.

The fifth is to adjust the specific stage, and the goal is the situation.

We should adjust when there are major changes, and adjust at the moment of success or failure in talent competition. In the general process of life, the time between two stages should be adjusted.

Enlightenment: establish the general direction of the goal, and then adjust it in time in this process. This is to test yourself and have a strong perception of the social environment.