In social life, people often regard etiquette as the embodiment of a nation's mental outlook and cohesion, and regard the degree of civilization and politeness as one of the signs to measure whether a country or a nation is developed. For individuals, it is a standard to measure moral standards and education. A person's elegant appearance, perfect language art and good personal image will be the basis for his life and career to successfully show his temperament and win respect. At the same time, etiquette, as a culture, is a symbol used to express friendship and feelings for others when people deal with interpersonal relationships in social life. Etiquette can make a person moral, shape an ideal personal image, make your career successful and make society more stable. Etiquette is an important part of the quality of individuals and even a nation. Social etiquette has become an indispensable part of us, and mastering social etiquette knowledge is a necessary paving stone for our success.
Etiquette, as a culture, is a symbol used to express friendship and feelings for others when people deal with interpersonal relationships in social life. Etiquette can make a person moral, shape an ideal personal image, make your career successful and make society more stable. Etiquette is an important part of the quality of individuals and even a nation.
Learning etiquette is first and foremost a personal need, because etiquette is an indispensable personal quality. If everyone comes to learn etiquette, master etiquette and consciously implement etiquette norms, it will be easy to communicate feelings, make interpersonal communication successful, and then help people develop smoothly and succeed in various undertakings. Secondly, learning etiquette is a social need, and a civilized society is a stable and harmonious society. Everyone pays attention to etiquette, abides by social morality and pays attention to the basic politeness principles of interpersonal communication, and the society will be more harmonious and stable. So it is necessary for us college students to learn social etiquette.
After studying social etiquette for a semester, I learned a lot and felt a lot. Through learning, I learned that etiquette is a routine that must be observed in interpersonal communication, and it is a conventional form, that is, a conventional practice in interpersonal communication. Etiquette plays a positive role in regulating people's social behavior, coordinating interpersonal relationships and promoting the development of human society. Generally speaking, there are three common words related to etiquette, namely politeness, etiquette and etiquette. Politeness means that in the process of communication, people show modesty and respect to their associates through language and behavior. Politeness focuses on expressing people's quality and accomplishment. Etiquette refers to the customary form of mutual respect and friendship in communication occasions, and is a concrete manifestation of politeness. The relationship with politeness is that there is no manners without manners. Politeness is bound to be accompanied by specific etiquette behavior. Etiquette is the general name of etiquette and politeness. Etiquette is based on people's life and social interaction. People can correctly grasp the scale of interpersonal communication with the outside world and reasonably handle the relationship between good people and good people according to various etiquette norms. Without these etiquette norms, people will often be at a loss in communication, and even be rude to others and make jokes. Therefore, if you are familiar with and master the etiquette, you can draw inferences from others and treat people just right.
Etiquette is a bridge to coordinate relations. Etiquette shows the spirit of respect, equality, sincerity and trustworthiness, as well as various comprehensive forms of etiquette, which will certainly win the goodwill and trust of the other party and satisfy their psychological needs, thus resolving contradictions, making friends and reaching an agreement on cooperation. Etiquette is a "bond", a "bridge" and an "adhesive". It can make people understand, trust, care, love and help each other, create a good harmonious atmosphere, and maintain the stability and development of relations.
Social etiquette is of great significance to contemporary college students. First, learning social etiquette is conducive to establishing harmonious interpersonal relationships; Social etiquette is conducive to promoting the socialization of college students and improving their social and psychological endurance. Second, it is conducive to affecting people's emotional state, influencing and changing people's values, outlook on life and personality. Third, it is conducive to strengthening the civilized behavior of college students, improving the quality of civilization and promoting the construction of socialist civilization. At the same time, it is also conducive to ideological and moral education. With the examples around us, we can find that etiquette is very important for the growth of the same person. For a long time, student education has not got rid of the exam-oriented education model. Many students are preoccupied with mathematics, physics and ABC, and lack understanding of many etiquette knowledge. In the process of communication with classmates and teachers, they often lack confidence in dealing with the situations and problems they encounter and lack social etiquette education. Secondly, most students are only children, and now the only child is regarded as a prince and princess in the family. Individuals are almost the center of the family, lacking the environment of collective cooperation and etiquette education. Therefore, etiquette education plays an important role in the healthy growth of teenagers. At the same time, in the Internet age, people are abrupt, closed and unwilling to associate with others, which seriously affects their psychological orientation.
Social etiquette also has an inevitable connection in students' quality education. Social etiquette education helps college students to establish good interpersonal relationships with others, form a harmonious psychological atmosphere and promote physical and mental health. At the same time, it is also the need for college students to strengthen the construction of socialist civilization. Through social etiquette education, we can further improve college students' etiquette literacy, cultivate their social skills, develop good social etiquette habits, and let the flowers of civilization bloom on campus. If everyone speaks etiquette, our society will be full of harmony and warmth.
Through the study of social etiquette, I learned how to pay attention to my appearance and performance in social occasions and improve my performance level in social etiquette.
Because only through theoretical study, there is no practical practice, so it is impossible to imagine the actual situation of every etiquette. There are still many places in social etiquette that we need to learn. We should constantly improve ourselves and enrich ourselves.