Not giving up and being uneasy about the status quo is a kind of realm, strength and tenacity from a certain angle, but it is not necessarily the only correct choice for success.
In life, we often have to give up what we love. "You can't have your cake and eat it", but the purpose of giving up is to make a better choice and get a longer-term harvest.
Butterflies can only fly in fragrance if they give up their cocoon houses, and flowers can only bloom in the sun if they give up their greenhouses. Sailing in the sea, only by giving up the mirage confusion can we reach our destination smoothly. Only by giving up heavy luggage can we climb higher and go further. If you want to climb high and see far, you must give up the comfort of home. If you want to achieve the greatest success, you must give up your immediate comfort. Everyone has his own pursuit, and it is possible to achieve a realistic and correct goal, even if the process is hard. However, clinging to a goal that runs counter to the objective reality will be as ridiculous as "the art of killing dragons". Shakespeare said: the greatest boredom is to work hard for boredom. In history, many people are keen on the manufacture of perpetual motion machines, and some even spend their whole lives, but no one has succeeded. Leonardo da Vinci was once one of the fanatical pursuers, but once he had an experiment, he gave up flatly and came to the conclusion that perpetual motion was impossible. He believes that such a pursuit is stupid, and the pursuit of "nothing in the mirror" can only be futile.
Greed is the nature of most people. Sometimes we cling to what we want and refuse to give up, which will bring us pain, stress and even destruction. At present, cases of losing a bright future or even life because of greed for fame, money and sex are often staged in society. I once read a story in which a child reached into a bottle full of hazelnuts and caught as many hazelnuts as possible. When he tried to withdraw his hand, he was stuck in the bottle mouth. He didn't want to give up the hazelnut, but he couldn't take it out and couldn't help crying sadly.
If a person insists on pursuing and obtaining, and insists on not losing what he once had, then it is difficult to get out of himself and get out of the misunderstanding of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and he will do whatever it takes to achieve his goal, even go to extremes. Tiredness of things will become a lifelong fetter. "Perseverance will lead to success" was once my inspirational quote. Yes, I have endured this persistence in the vicissitudes of years. I have had successes and failures, but despite being exhausted and scarred, I never gave up. It was not until the years lingered in difficulties and passed away that we suddenly discovered that the cruelty of reality did not allow us to expect too much. The so-called persistence was just stupid persistence after hitting a wall. I am rethinking that one is doomed to fail to make achievements in too many fields. To apply what you have learned, we must base ourselves on our own reality, and we must not be hot-headed and act rashly regardless of external factors and our own conditions. What is the purpose of his pursuit? For the sake of the highest mountain in my heart, I chose to give up at the right time, give up those illusions that are beyond my ability and energy, give up those unrealistic goals, and get the greatest relief while regretting. At the same time, I found that childish passion has been replaced by maturity and stability, and my life is getting richer every day. Who says giving up like this is not a wise thing?
Giving up in time is a kind of wisdom, which will make you more aware of your internal potential and external factors, adjust your tired body and mind, start a new pursuit, and become a happy and intelligent person. Some people don't want to give up because they can't know themselves correctly, can't know objective things, and can't judge the situation correctly. Giving up should not be a random act on a whim, nor should it be a helpless retreat strategy, but a serious analysis of the objective situation, which is the result and embodiment of calm and strong will. Giving up correctly is a successful choice.
People's persistence is often encouraged by extravagant hopes. Too many beautiful things in the world have become our bitter pursuit and yearning, and have become a major purpose of living. I didn't know that we were losing them while we kept having them. Tired of money, tired of fame and fortune, will eventually pay the price of health and even life.
Giving up at the right time is the care for life. The brutal competition in today's society brings heavy pressure and unspeakable load. Not long ago, Fu Biao and Guo Xiumin died suddenly. Recently, I was shocked to hear that Sun Dedi, the acting CEO of Netease, was only 38 years old and died of overwork, which made people feel deeply. These young people died prematurely because of long-term overload. Maybe they realized at the moment they fell down that health is the greatest wealth in life, and money, commodities and cash can't protect their lives. Life is short, so the wear and tear at the cost of life is heavy and nothing can make up for it. For the sake of the future and the long term, why don't we give up the pursuit of wealth, the struggle for fame and the struggle for power as soon as possible?
Life is a pity, things are not perfect, and giving up is not a helpless choice. Giving up the beauty in your heart will become a precious landscape in the depths of your soul. When love is gone, only letting go can make the past a beautiful memory, and this incomplete regret will be even better because of sleepless nights; Give up a missed love, give up what you can't reach, and the sad plot of letting go because you can't bear it will fade with the passage of time and become a different kind of scenery in your heart. It is necessary to pursue something in life, but we should have realistic goals and not blindly. Give up the ups and downs on the road to growth, give up the hopeless waiting, give up the block in your heart, and give up all the loads, so that you can easily go on the road with an open-minded and wise heart and get a new belonging.
Giving up temporarily is a kind of wisdom, which will make you know yourself more clearly, reflect on yourself, get rid of your troubles and adjust your tired body and mind. Imagine, what are the benefits of smokers' obsession with nicotine? What are the benefits of puppy love to life? All these make us firmly believe that it is wise to give up!
Learning to give up will make you more rational, know how to think about life with your brain and understand the truth of life. Giving up may have regrets and sorrows, but it will make the inside story of life more meaningful and longer.
Giving up safely makes our life calmer, our hearts calmer and quieter, floating like a faint fragrance, warming the years like songs in the future.