All creatures in the world will go through all kinds of tempering, but after tempering, they will become mature and perfect, and their confidence in a better future will be more firm.
A person's life often goes through many tests, which are painful, lonely and cruel. Maybe it will make you lose friends or even relatives. Just like an earthquake, it ruthlessly destroys people's homes, takes the lives of relatives and makes the living homeless. Who knows the pain of losing a loved one? Maybe it will make you lonely all day, with people you can't trust and rely on, people you don't know how to talk to, and horses you can't meet with Bole. Maybe it will make you love music like Beethoven but deaf, and love science like Hawking but paralyzed. However, after tempering, which one of them has not moved towards his ideal realm?
In real life, such things are rare. Maybe they didn't achieve as much as great men, but they also realized their dreams.
Deng Yaping, the champion of table tennis women's singles, is such a person. Everyone is familiar with it and admires it. She is also a living example in life.
At first, the little girl had the experience of being rejected by the sports school, because her father was a coach and she had the opportunity to exercise. However, she is not favored by the coach, nor by everyone. Her training life is boring. Unlike some athletes, she is not watched by the coach all day, and her existence seems to be ignored by many people. But she refused to admit defeat. Her childhood dream is to become a world champion, so she must sprint to her dream. Although the distance between reality and dreams is too far, she firmly believes that time will change everything as long as she works hard.
Through her efforts, at the age of 13, the little girl created a miracle to beat the world women's champion. Generally speaking, this kind of situation can naturally enter the national team, but Deng Yaping is an exception here. She only entered the second national team-China Youth Team. Coaches are all from the national team, so their eyes are naturally different. Her height has caused her too much trouble. Although she has created such a miracle, no one is optimistic about her, especially the members of the inner team. But she wants to prove that she can do it with strength! In the following year, she won four championships in five national top player competitions, and won the second place with 1 time, before she entered the national team with twists and turns.
Today, this woman, who is only 1.5 meters tall, has won 14 world championships and 4 Olympic championships, becoming the world table tennis queen. She told us: in life, there will be no success without tempering!
Eagles can fly high after being honed by life and death, buds can open unexpectedly after being honed by wind and rain, wicker can sprout new buds after being honed by cold winter, and life is more exciting because of being honed!
(2) "After the storm, there are the most beautiful rainbows, the most dazzling diamonds in the cooled lava, and the most mellow wine in the jar that has been dusty for thousands of years." "The sun is always after the storm ..."
Jade does not polish beauty, and people do not polish it. Hone yourself, cultivate yourself in tempering, reshape yourself in tempering, and maximize the value of life. Life is tempered everywhere. What we have to do is not to decide to give up in tempering, but to learn to be self-reliant in tempering.
These two days, I helped my mother sort out the old newspaper, and I came across a news story: 1 1 years ago, a rural family in Henan suffered a major change: her father suddenly suffered from intermittent mental illness, and her grief-stricken mother left without saying goodbye. There is also a younger brother and an abandoned baby who was picked up by his father after illness. The burden of this family fell on the eldest son, Hong Zhanhui, who was only 12 years old.
So, 1 1 year after year, while studying, Hong Zhanhui overcame unimaginable difficulties, took care of his father who was often ill, and raised his sister ... During this period, he also wavered and tried to escape, but a responsibility finally made him "just walk silently and unwilling to give up". He started to work, started a small business, saved money for the whole family, refused donations from others many times, and insisted on supporting his family with the money he earned ... Isn't this Hong Zhanhui's constant self-improvement? This is a good example of learning to stand on your own feet through tempering.
Self-improvement is the mother of luck. If life is a play, then tempering is the soul of the play. What you temper is all kinds of disappointments in life, such as study, work and so on. For some people who can't stand the test, without the tempering of life, they will be very helpless and depressed when they encounter these things; On the contrary, for a person who often hons himself and has a strong will, he will stand up from adversity and rush out in prosperity!
"It takes time and patience to hone yourself. To hone yourself, you need to be able to withstand loneliness and loneliness. Hone yourself and be fearless of the difficulties in life. Hone yourself and overcome your inertia and selfishness. " Indeed, even an eagle will only be vigorous after the baptism of the storm; No matter how big the tree is, it will go through the sun and rain, and people will thrive when they are trampled. In today's world, that kind of famous great man is not tempered, difficult to get along with, or in adversity? Napoleon once said: Self-improvement, like honor, is an island without a beach.
Honing is not only a sentence, but also a journey that everyone must take on the road of life. But who can go on after this journey depends on your one percent luck and ninety-nine percent luck.
The more the brain is honed, the more flexible it is, and the more thoroughly it is honed; The more honed and developed the limbs, the more determined the will. Only a tempered life can lead a full life, and only a tempered youth can be more brilliant.
Exercise is neither too easy nor too painful. It is up to you to decide whether to give up or learn to stand on your own feet in the process of tempering. But you have to remember: although one success does not mean eternal success, a good beginning is half the battle; On the contrary, if you can't stand the blow and lose to yourself once, you may lose to yourself forever. You know: it is difficult for smooth sailing people to achieve extraordinary results; There is no skill to beat others except self-reproach, and there is no skill to beat others except self-improvement.
Honing is a precious wealth of life, and self-improvement is a witness to this precious life course. Life is training ―― everyone should strive for self-improvement!
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