"Where is happiness, my friend? I'm telling you, it's not in Liu Yin or the greenhouse. That's hard work, that's crystal sweat ... "This song tells us that there is happiness in labor and happiness in giving. However, people often lament that life is unhappy. The main reason is that they haven't really understood and understood happiness.
Life is not a lack of happiness, but a lack of feelings for happiness. In Zhu Ziqing's eyes, his father is a pedantic and untimely old man, and walking with him seems to hurt his face. However, when my father staggered across the platform to buy himself some oranges, the chubby figure in a black cotton robe made him suddenly understand the profundity and greatness of his father's love, and tears of happiness came to his eyes. Shi Tiesheng, who suffered for fifteen years, looked back sadly when his mother left him, and suddenly realized. The son's pain was infinitely doubled by his mother, who silently cared for more than ten years and was alone with tears. This broad and selfless maternal love should be a great happiness for a son. So the teacher's exhortation, parents' nagging and classmates' friendliness in life ... isn't this a kind of happiness? Find it, have it, and you will live happily every day.
Happiness is not only to get, but also to pay sincerely. Lei Feng did a good deed all his life, but he was cheerful despite sweating. He said, "People say I am a fool, but I am willing to be such a fool." Can you say that he is unhappy? Li Suli, a bus conductor, guards the square every day, but his enthusiasm and smile remain in the hearts of passengers forever. Can you say that he is unhappy? Xu Benyu, a college graduate, took root in a poor ravine, watched the mountains and let the children's hopes fly. Can you say that he is unhappy? Ren Changxia left, leaving only the golden emblem, and Niu Yuru left, leaving only the abundance. Can you say that they are unhappy? Happiness is like a flower, which needs our sincere dedication and watering. As long as each of us can contribute a passion and care, the flowers of happiness will bloom everywhere.
Happiness is not only giving, but also the joy of success after giving. Successful Olympic bid, China's entry into WTO, and the national football team's qualification. For this day, we have made endless efforts and waited for many years. Today, we got it. How can I not laugh tears? With the return of Hong Kong, the Pearl of the Orient no longer falls, Macao returns to its hometown, and the singing of Song of Seven Sons is no longer melancholy. All this is the sweat of countless people in China in the past 50 years. Chris Lee, BiBi Zhou, and He Jie, after many difficulties and hard work, finally stood out from hundreds of thousands of people and became super girls who were full of stars. They are happy; Guo Jingjing and Tian Liang began to practice diving from how old they were, and finally won the championship in Athens. They are happy; What about us? I have struggled silently for more than ten years, enriched my knowledge, learned to be a man and entered my ideal university. Isn't it also a kind of happiness for ordinary people?
Where is happiness? Feel it yourself, pursue it yourself, and get it yourself.
(2) What is happiness?
Happiness-everyone can't see, touch or guess. So, what is happiness? Where is happiness? Lost happiness, will there be a chance to reappear? In fact, happiness is everywhere, not the lack of happiness, but the lack of intention to find happiness.
The child said, "Happiness means not worrying about food and clothing, and not worrying about what you want." Children are like flowers in a greenhouse, they don't know the outside world, and they jump to conclusions with childish ideas, just like the monkeys in The Monkey Catch the Moon. The question is, if you get what you want, are you really happy? I remember when I was a child, if someone did something good and held a banquet, they would be very happy because they had their favorite foods, such as jiaozi, eggs and glutinous rice balls. Now that I think about it, it's really funny.
With the growth of my age, I embarked on the road of studying. In the process of studying, I made many intimate friends. They say, "Happiness is time spent with friends." Friends are like bright sunshine, which makes everything flourish. Friends are here to help us. Their arrival makes our life full of happiness and hope all the time. When you are upset, they will enthusiastically help you and comfort you. When you are hesitant, they will support you and encourage you. When you are happy, they will share the fruits of your labor with you and make you happier. In that case, isn't it a very happy thing to have intimate friends?
The young man said, "Happiness means that now you can finally temper yourself, finally find yourself and finally make contributions to the motherland." As the people of the motherland, we all know that today's happy life was bought by the older generation of revolutionary martyrs with their blood and lives. Today is because they are fighting. What about tomorrow? Tomorrow, we need 2 1 century successors to start a new life. It is a kind of happiness to be able to contribute to safeguarding the dignity of the motherland in society and have the opportunity to exercise yourself.
Middle-aged people say: "Happiness is the privilege of having a good rest, enjoying picturesque nature, recalling the past and savoring the ups and downs of life. Middle-aged people have worked hard for half their lives and accumulated a lot of life experience. Maybe they really should take a break. For them, what is more important now is not to find a "paradise" of their own.
Old people say: Happiness is a filial piety, a reminder and a concern for children. "The elderly can be said to be close to the end of life. Because time is limited, what they want most is the care of their children.
So, what is happiness? It's about food and clothing, about friends, about stepping into society, about recalling the past, about taking care of children, about parents' nagging, about teachers' trust ... For me, happiness is always a mystery.
(3) What is happiness?
In the morning, I hold my chin up and look up at the blue sky outside the window. Birds are playing happily in the air. Looking at their free and happy figures, I can't help sighing in my heart: how happy they are! Thinking of this, a question suddenly popped up in my heart: What is happiness? I meditated slowly.
I remember, a dictionary said, "Happiness is a kind of satisfaction different from happiness!" " But what is happiness? I remember the teacher said, ask others questions you don't understand. Thinking of this, I immediately rushed to the living room to pick up the phone, dialed the phones of several good friends and asked them, "What do you think happiness is?" Some of them said, "Happiness is the feeling of lying on the lawn and drinking after winning a ball game." Someone said, "Happiness is waking up one morning to find a long-awaited gift on my pillow, and there is a note written by my father:' Happy birthday to you!'" ""So, in fact, happiness is in the life around us.
However, people often associate happiness with money without realizing it, which reminds me of a story: there was a little boy whose family was very rich, but his parents were gambling, so they didn't care to manage him. They just throw him a lot of money and often leave him alone at home. Finally, he said from the bottom of his heart, "I am as poor as money now!" " This news triggered a thought-provoking question: Can money bring happiness to people? A book says, "Happiness can't be bought with money and can't be given by others." . What money buys is called commodity, and what others give is called sympathy. And happiness should be a feeling from the heart. It is like happiness, but it is not the same as happiness. The feeling of happiness needs a certain material foundation, but more depends on one's own understanding of happiness. If we define happiness as a luxurious life, then such happiness is like a fish out of water without money. However, if we think that happiness is a harmonious interpersonal relationship and the dependence and care between relatives, then money is not important here. "I remember Cervantes famously said," Wealth will not bring happiness, but it is the use of wealth that makes people happy. "
In my opinion, happiness is the most precious wealth in everyone's life. Money is a necessary condition, which can make people have wealth that money can't buy. In this way, I have a new understanding of happiness. I think happiness is to enjoy the feeling of success after my own efforts; In other words, happiness is like a flower. Different flowers have different colors and smells, and happiness also has different forms of expression. Sometimes we don't seem to feel happy, but it doesn't mean that happiness doesn't exist, but that happiness is in the process of gestation; Happiness is also the feeling of success after countless failures, which includes excitement and joy; Happiness is the warmth that friends come to comfort themselves and stay in their hearts when they are sad; Or when I failed in the exam, I was not despised, but a friendly smile. At that time, I was the happiest person!