People always change. Will change from lively to taciturn, from naughty to sensible, and will learn how to grasp life. ? The road of life is bumpy. At the age of twelve, I had a profound understanding. I can't forget the embarrassment of mispronouncing when answering questions in class; I can't forget my worries when I was confused by a series of math problems; I can't forget my plummeting performance. At that time, I was worried that I wouldn't get the attention of my teachers. As a result, I was scolded by my parents and laughed at by my classmates. So, in countless nights, listening to cicadas, accompanied by the rhythm of crickets, learning under the illumination of lights. After a while, my study didn't improve. Therefore, when you sleep at night, you can only cry at the full moon. Over time, I have an evaluation of life and the future: life is like a play, and the future is like a dream. Until one day, I heard such a song: "I know my future is not a dream, and I live every minute carefully." My future is not a dream, my heart is moved by hope. "The loud song is like a handful of hay, which lit the dying Mars in my heart; Like a compass, it points out my direction; It is like a piano, which plays my dream to the fullest. After listening to this song, I thought of Haiyan fighting in the waves and the boat sailing against the current. I thought of the determined Helen Keller. Aren't they all stubborn? Isn't everyone working hard? Didn't it all work? I deeply remember a writer's saying that "the past belongs to death, and the future belongs to myself". So I said to myself, "Yes, that was the past. What about now? "My confidence has greatly increased, which has put the decadent soul back on track and learned a truth: we can't predict the future, but we can grasp the present. With this accidental epiphany, I am convinced that I will succeed. Since then, I have full confidence in my future. At any time and any place, there are only two words in my mind-knowledge. Listen carefully in class, ask what you don't understand after class, go home and finish your homework carefully, think about what you learned that day before going to bed every night, and get up the next morning and start reading. This day-to-day learning cycle has finally brought back the fruits of labor. Now whenever I feel at a loss and lose confidence in life and the future, I can always think of that understanding of grasping life. We can't control the weather, but we can put my mood; Maybe we can't choose our looks, but we can show our smiles. Maybe we can't command others, but we can also command ourselves; Maybe we can't predict the future, but we can grasp ourselves. Grasp yourself, and you can make your future colorful! Grasping life can make the temporary confusion become history and permanent glory! In real life, some people just wait for the opportunity to come; And some people, mediocre life also can't wait for any opportunity. In fact, opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared, and only those who are prepared can effectively seize opportunities and move towards the other side of success. Since ancient times, many people have succeeded because they seized an opportunity, and many people have been mediocre because they lost an opportunity. Opportunity is like a rainbow after rain, which will never appear in our life often, but it is rare. Seize the opportunity and you will seize happiness; And losing an important opportunity can sometimes lead to your life. As the saying goes, "It's now or never. "Opportunity will never wait for someone's arrival, nor will it come for someone. Opportunities are equal in front of everyone. As long as you can grasp them, you will have a bright future. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, was defeated and forced to be a slave in the State of Wu. In the state of Wu, Gou Jian was humiliated, but in the face of many humiliations, he didn't give up on himself, and he didn't stand up. He just endured it silently. Finally, one day, the king of Wu saw Gou Jian's loyalty and put him back in Yue. After being released, Gou Jian made up his mind to regroup and recapture the past rivers and mountains. He seized the rare opportunity to return to Yue for ten years, expanding the population, enriching and strengthening the army, and finally destroying Wu. It was precisely because Gou Jian seized this opportunity that he got revenge and destroyed the State of Wu. In real life, some people fail to grasp the opportunity before them and easily lose it. In an interview in a big company, the staff specially put a plastic bag at the door. After the first interviewer came in, he gently kicked the plastic bag aside and began to introduce himself to the staff, ignoring the discarded plastic bag when he went out. The second interviewer also ignored the flying plastic bags when he came in; The next third and fourth ... until the last person finished the interview, the plastic bag was still there, and I don't know how many times I stepped on it, but no one threw him into the trash can. In the end, this big company didn't admit any interviewees. This real-life story makes us realize that they didn't seize the opportunity, but they lost a promising job because of a small mistake. Grasping the opportunity is not empty talk, it needs a lot of hard-working people to make efforts for it, so that when the opportunity is in front of you, you will not easily lose it. Grasp life, grasp the future, have happiness and move towards success.