Senior two | 800 words | argumentative essay
"Give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand" is a phrase we often hear in our lives. However, it is true in life, but when we help others, tolerate others and treat others well, we are also treating ourselves well in turn.
It can be seen that being kind to others is a basic principle that people should follow in the process of seeking success. In today's society that needs cooperation, people are more interactive. Only by being kind to others and sincerely helping others can we handle interpersonal relationships and get happy cooperation from others.
Mencius once said, "A gentleman is nothing more than being kind to others." Those who give generously and ask for nothing in return are often easy to succeed; Those who are selfish, stingy and haggle over every ounce can not only find a partner, but may even become lonely. Some friends will ask: how to be kind to others? Being kind to others is easy to say, but not easy to do. It covers a wide range of contents. Such as: caring for others and extending a hand of friendship when friends are in trouble; Respect others, don't explore their privacy, and don't talk about others behind their backs; Good at communicating and communicating with people, good at interacting with people with different interests and personalities; Admit the value of others and be responsible for yourself ... Generally speaking, the most important principle of being kind to others is "don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you". Everything should be considered from each other's point of view. If you follow this principle, you will get many good friends and partners.
Send a rose, but leave a lingering fragrance in your hand. Some people say that good interpersonal relationships are not only made by actions, but also "flowing" from the bottom of my heart. This sentence is very philosophical, it tells us; Interpersonal communication should treat people with sincerity and communicate with people with "heart". Some people are eager for friendship, but refuse to open their hearts to each other. A female classmate of a key university in Shanghai once wrote to me and told me that she was troubled by the lack of friends. She said: "After going to college, it may be because everyone has grown up, and everyone has become intrigued and used each other." I hate this situation, so I become deep and indifferent, and I am determined to wrap myself in loneliness and temper myself in inner pain. I am indifferent to the team's affairs and take' going my own way' as my motto. Don't talk to classmates after class, don't joke, don't talk in class ... "This classmate's practice is not appropriate. She is eager for friendship, but she doesn't want to open her heart to communicate with her classmates first. Instead of liberating yourself, it is easier to add pain and loneliness to yourself. I often encountered this situation in a large number of consultation letters I received in the past. Some college students often treat people with the psychology of "I won't talk to you if you don't talk to me" and "I don't want to make friends with you if you don't make friends with me". How can you get the friendship and help of others?
Give someone a rose, leave a lingering fragrance in your hand. We must understand that only by being kind to others can we be treated well by others. Only by treating others sincerely can we get their sincerity. Please remember: be kind to others, be kind to yourself; Send a rose, but leave a lingering fragrance in your hand.