A girl who is very embarrassed financially can easily develop a character of inferiority, resentment and suspicion, and has a strong sense of gap in other people's material daily life. When she sees beautiful clothes, she thinks she is showing off, flattered by men's kindness, and tempted by some gifts that can't actually express sincerity.
Such girls are also prone to greed, meanness and lack of self-motivation. Because you can't get material things, you will worry that what you already have will be lost, and it is difficult to be free and easy in life. Inferiority, dare not dress up, can't dress up, have no chance to dress up. The end result is that they underestimate their own value to a great extent. As long as one person shows meticulous care for them and even puts in some tiny material temptations, they are easy to fall. Enriching girls means broadening their horizons materially, enriching their thoughts spiritually, making girls independent, well-informed, elegant and wise, and happy all their lives!
If a boy wants to be poor, he should cultivate the spirit of hard work and not slack off in a well-off life. Mencius said: "Heaven will be a great task to the people of Sri Lanka, and they must first suffer from their minds, work hard on their bones and muscles, starve their bodies and skin, and mess with their actions. Therefore, patience has benefited them a lot. " Only those who have experienced ups and downs and have perseverance can take on great responsibilities. Only boys who have been "poor" can understand the value of a rich life, create wealth and cherish a hard-won happy life. The responsibility given to boys by society is to take responsibility. As parents, it is the responsibility to educate boys to be independent. Only when boys are independent can they prop up their own sky and become useful people to society. The so-called independence means independence in personality, ideology, economy and, more importantly, economy. In order to achieve this goal, parents need to cultivate boys' various survival skills and planning ability for the future.
Why do old people in China like to let their sons live a hard life and their daughters have rich materials? A girl is so embarrassed financially that she can easily form a character of inferiority, resentment and jealousy, which has a strong sense of gap in the material wealth of others' daily life. Seeing people wearing beautiful clothes think that she is showing off, she will be flattered by men's kindness and attracted by some facts and sincere gifts that cannot be expressed.
This kind of girl is also easy to be greedy, stingy and lacking in ambition. Because you can't get material things, you will worry about losing them, but it is difficult to be free and easy in life. Inferiority, dare not dress up, can't dress up, have no chance to dress up. In the end, they underestimate their own value to a great extent. As long as they show a little meticulous concern for them, even some small material temptations, they will easily fall. A girl with rich nutrition is to broaden her horizons materially and enrich her spirit ideologically, so that she can be independent, well-informed, elegant and wise, and live a happy life!
The boy raised the poor in order to cultivate the spirit of hard work and avoid the heart of slack life. Mencius said: "Heaven will descend to people, and there will be sufferings. It will be useless to strain their bones and muscles, starve their skin and consume their physique, and brush them in chaos and make them lingering." Only those who have experienced ups and downs can take responsibility. Only "poor" boys know that a rich life is precious, and they know how to create wealth and cherish hard-won happiness. The responsibility of society to boys is to have a sense of responsibility. As parents, it is compulsory to educate boys. Boys are independent, and only when they can ascend to heaven can they be useful to society. The so-called independence means independence in personality, ideology, economy and economy. In order to achieve this goal, parents need to cultivate various survival skills and the ability to plan for the boy's future.