In society, people should strive for their own living space. If there is no living space in society, individuals will be abandoned by more talented people. However, if people want to survive in society, change is essential. People in society can't handle things in one way all their lives. Just like an animal always wants to run forward, there is a cliff in front, and it also sees it, but it doesn't know how to be flexible, so it keeps running forward.
There are two kinds of flexible people, one is from bad to good, just like a thing that is about to fail. If flexibility can change the situation, why not? Change can be divided into two types, one is to change immediately when encountering difficulties, regardless of any consequences, and the other is to change regularly and orderly through detailed thinking and planning. If I have to choose a different method, I will choose the latter, because the chances of success will be greatly increased after consideration, just like the three little mice in Who Moved My Cheese. They look for cheese in the same place every day, but there are some. When the three little mice grow old in this place again, the cheese is no longer here. Little mouse A turned and ran to find food without thinking, while little mouse B thought for a while and then turned and left the place to find food, except little mouse C. Finally, mouse C starved to death, and mice A and B survived because they knew how to be flexible, but if they wanted to go deeper, mouse B thought about it and went to find food. The probability of finding food is obviously greater than that of mouse A. Mouse A found food by luck. Imagine that if mouse A blindly looks for food, but still can't find it, it will starve to death like mouse C, so it is obviously better to change after thinking than to change blindly.
There is another kind of people who know how to be flexible, that is, those good people, because they can't stand the temptation of money or rights, unconsciously become bad people, get the rights and money, add gold and silver for themselves, and don't attack the people. Others are tempted by money to gamble and want to make money in these areas, but the deeper they gamble, the more they have to get it through crime.
Therefore, if you want to survive in society, you must be flexible, you must think twice before you act, and you must distinguish between good and bad before you can change!
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Return to a slow-paced life
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