Going to Lele Kindergarten to hold a parent-teacher meeting, the words of the director aroused everyone's curiosity. "What are your children's living habits? Do you go to bed early and get up early? Can you do housework? " Can you pack your own toys? "A parent raised his hand high." Congratulations, children can go to primary school with less trouble. "We are all wondering, this is not the same as learning, how can it be linked?
Later, the director explained that this statement was actually put forward by Qian Zhiliang, a famous education expert. Professor Qian said that children in kindergartens can be internalized into study habits if their living habits are well cultivated. In this way, children can quickly adapt to the school environment and learning rhythm after entering primary school, and parents can worry less. After all, the cultivation of study habits in primary school is the most important, and grades are the second.
Why can living habits be internalized into study habits?
I believe everyone has heard of the phrase "behavior forms habits, habits form character, and character determines fate". Why is the education of children before the age of six important, and even determines their life? It is precisely because the child at this stage is still a blank sheet of paper that parents play a great role in his behavior.
Children's living habits, such as regular life and housework, imply children's long-term "going to bed" and active behavior. These long-term behaviors can cultivate children's self-discipline and initiative. And these qualities can be transferred, not only in life, but also in study. A self-disciplined child will also take the initiative to finish his homework before playing. Thereby completing the internalization from living habits to study habits.
What kind of living habits can be internalized into study habits?
Parents must be curious. If living habits can really be internalized into study habits, which living habits should I focus on? In fact, there are many living habits that are conducive to learning.
Early to bed, early to rise, regular life. After children go to primary school, they have breakfast at home and get up at about 7 o'clock. Get up at a fixed time and go to bed to earn more sleep time. Therefore, children who have the habit of going to bed early in kindergarten can win at the starting line in sleep time when they arrive at primary school. The children who sleep at 9 o'clock in the evening and the children who sleep at 10 in the evening have a time difference of only one hour, but with the passage of time, the mental state of the two children is quite different. Children with adequate sleep have more flexible brains, are full of energy during the day, and naturally have high learning efficiency.
Do your own things, including dressing, eating and washing. Many parents always think that their children eat, drink and dress too slowly when they first enter primary school, so they don't scold their children less. This is because the child's self-care ability has not been cultivated well. Self-care ability is improved, children's initiative is enhanced, they will finish their homework consciously and actively, and parents will be less worried.
Receiving and organizing. The children who pack their own clothes and toys in kindergarten are well organized. After all, packaging toys is an exercise of induction and classification. With this ability, children have a good foundation of mathematical thinking in school, and at the same time, they are not easy to forget their schoolbags and stationery, and they will not forget their Chinese homework when doing homework, so as to better adapt to primary school life.
Does your child have good living habits?
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