Winning or losing is very common in our real society. We all have the same opponent-life. Not so-called social competitors, nor what we call life and death. Why? Think about it, life no longer exists, where is the so-called competition? Where is the opponent? Where did you win and where did you lose? At that time, life and death will not matter. Some people say with a light attitude, don't take winning or losing too seriously. Some people attach great importance to winning or losing, saying that if they don't lose, they won't win, and they should cultivate the will to lose. I combined many life examples and found that both statements were inaccurate. The former pays too little attention to the challenges of life. The person who said this must have a frivolous life, giving people a sense of carelessness, lacking the competitive values of life and a wonderful sense of tension, and living a "stable" life is dull. I don't like it anyway. My life must be choppy, or ups and downs. I like competition, competition can make life more exciting, and winning will give me a sense of accomplishment. The latter said that if you don't lose, you won't win, but in fact winning or losing means the same thing. You can't compare with winning or losing in the same thing, you should compare in many ways. For example, A and B meet to compete for an exam. Party A, relax. Compared with grades, he is more about experiencing life and insisting on exercise. He only got 65 points in this exam. B attaches great importance to this duel. He studies hard day and night and seldom exercises. Finally, he dragged his sick body to get full marks. From the beginning, B was the winner, but in fact, the word "win" belongs to both of them. Losing is winning, but there is no real victory. Like Party B, Party A won the physical victory and enjoyed the duel. Although the result was not satisfactory, he did feel life, satisfied himself and achieved his original purpose, so he didn't regret it. He cares about the process. B succeeded in the result, but gradually lost his good health in the process, but he didn't regret it because he cared about the result. Therefore, there is no real complete victory, and there is no real complete failure, because everyone has paid, lost and gained. But some people care so much about loss that they can only immerse themselves in the pain of failure and live in the past, not to mention further progress. They never realized that they had got it. People who can only live in the past are doomed to have no future, and past experiences will not affect the future. Whether you are strong in the future depends on what you are doing now, your world outlook and your attitude towards winning or losing, which has nothing to do with the past! Losing is a thing of the past for me. For me, the past experience, whether happy or sad, is my present wealth and the driving force for my progress now. But some people even say that the past is painful, so since the past is painful, why should we remember it? Why should we consider it? Why let your painful past affect your present and even your future? Why let yourself lose more? Why let yourself lose more? The painful past, too many failures and gains and losses are all life! This is inevitable, and escape is the weak. What was the past? The so-called past is an excuse and reason for the weak to escape failure and win or lose! The so-called winning or losing only exists to defeat the weak. You lost because you were not strong enough. What is loss? Losing is when you want to give up, when you feel that you can't do it. This is called losing. If you can't fight, you don't lose. If you don't fight, you lose. Winning or losing is life, and life is winning or losing!