After reading the Analects of Confucius 1000-word model essay-there are still many places worth discussing in the Analects of Confucius, but there seems to be nothing about how to deal with the relationship between a group of friends. Just a few people are friends with each other, in groups of three or five. It is not only a simple two-to-two communication problem, but also a more complicated one-to-many and many-to-many problem.
Having said so much about the idea of making friends in The Analects, I became interested in Confucius' friends, because The Analects mainly recorded Confucius' thoughts. I think Confucius should have many friends. Looking at the Analects of Confucius alone, I can only find two places. One place is? The original soil has been destroyed. Confucius said:? Young without grandchildren, long without sound, old without death, is a thief. ? Pat him on the shin with a stick. A boy will die if he is absent. Or ask:? The beneficiary and Confucius said:? I saw him in a position where he was parallel to his husband. Those who don't seek profit are eager for quick success. Another place is mentioned above? When a friend died, he never came back and said, At my funeral? . ? The latter does not know where to research, and the former seems to be only Confucius. And then what? People, not by? Same? People. Does Confucius have pure value identification? Confidante? And then what? Just look at the Analects of Confucius, it seems that there is none. Confucius said: I know, Ye Fu! ? Zi Gong said:? What does it mean to know such a son? Don't complain about the sky, don't be rude to others, go to school. Heaven is the one who knows me! ? Second best, can any of Confucius' students play this role? Sometimes, the teacher-student relationship can also reach a kind of friend relationship. I can't help but notice Yan Hui and Zeng Shen.
Once upon a time, I read a book because it was in my hand, and the owner of the book had the patience to wait for me to finish it in a breath or a few days. Later, I learned that there was a good place to study, such as the public library, so I didn't bother to turn over the bibliographic cards. I just grabbed a book on the shelf in the open reading room. Later, through the internet, I also know which books are worth reading recently, but I often only pay attention to what I am interested in. Occasionally I come across one or two good books on the browsed web pages, so I have little time and mood to calm down and read them. It is luck to meet or meet them. So I only read The Analects, because I chose Selected Reading of Chinese and Western Classics, so I borrowed this book from the library.
People often talk about it, but I didn't know it came from The Analects. Like what? My parents are here, so I don't travel far. An upright man is open and poised, the villain is always off, not in his place, not seeking his own government. All roads lead to the same goal, there is no common goal, and there is a long way to go. I would rather die than surrender. Standing at thirty?
I read the Analects of Confucius, of course, not to find the Secret Biography of Confucius, but to cultivate my self-cultivation and put family first. It is only in this book that I know a pedantic Confucius, a versatile and tireless Confucius, a Confucius who never tires of eating refined food and knows the joy of life. Scholars who are proficient in Chinese and western cultures often compare Confucius with Socrates, an ancient Greek philosopher. Socrates was executed by the democratic regime in Athens. It is said that the spirit of freedom prevented him from escaping. But I prefer Confucius' outspoken:? If you can't do it, can you float in the sea? This is also a spirit of freedom. Reading The Analects of Confucius is like traveling through a thousand years, and seeing the Spring and Autumn Period of hegemony over the world. Confucius was a great thinker and educator. His words and deeds on filial piety, learning, governing and governing the country were highly respected by kings of all dynasties. Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty deposed hundreds of schools and respected Confucianism alone. Confucianism-the golden mean. His thoughts and remarks may not be in line with the times we live in today, but it is necessary to read the classics that have influenced China culture for thousands of years.
When it comes to understanding the Analects of Confucius, I only learned six aspects of the Analects in middle school before I got some preliminary knowledge. I am really interested in the Analects. That's after my daughter attended the Confucius Temple reading class. In order to encourage her children to study, I also borrowed books about The Analects, but I can't stop reading them. I really feel memorable and benefited a lot. Like what? Parents are here, not traveling far? 、? Not in its place, not for its politics? 、? Different ways, no common goals? 、? It's a long way to go. Xiu Yuan? 、? You can't carve rotten wood. These people often say familiar words that I didn't know were from The Analects. After reading The Analects of Confucius, I got to know a pedantic Confucius, a versatile and tireless Confucius, a Confucius who never tires of eating, and a Confucius who knows how to enjoy life. His words and deeds discussed filial piety, learning, governing the country and politics, as well as his Confucian doctrine of the mean, which was highly praised by kings of past dynasties. Although some of his thoughts and remarks are not necessarily in line with the times we live in today, they are certainly worthy of something that has influenced China's culture for thousands of years.
Confucius pays attention to filial piety. Father was there, watching his ambition; Father didn't, observe his actions; Is it filial to not change your father's ways for three years? 、? Can parents do their best? And so on can reflect Confucius' filial piety thought. Now it seems that as a son of man, we should be filial to our parents, which is a matter of course and a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. However, there are also behaviors of not supporting parents and abusing the elderly in the world. Even the most basic social morality has been lost, let alone filial piety, which can only be used as a negative teaching material and condemned by people.
Confucius talked a lot about scholarship. Like what? Never tire of learning and never tire of teaching? 、? Knowing means not knowing, knowing means not knowing? 、? Sensitive and eager to learn, not ashamed to ask questions? 、? A threesome must have my teacher? Aren't these famous sentences, which are still catchy in my memory, a modest, rigorous, realistic and persistent learning attitude? Among them? A threesome requires a teacher. ? This sentence contains a broad truth: capable people are teachers. In our daily life, there are many people to contact every day, and everyone has certain advantages, which are worth learning and can also be our mentor. Let's talk about people around us, such as basketball players, highly skilled painters, calligraphers and chess masters. Some are familiar with astronomy, some are familiar with geography, some are proficient in mathematics, and some are full of poems and songs; Others can sing and dance and learn from ordinary people around them, just like seedlings in evergreen trees are absorbing rich nutrients. The mountain is so majestic, it is high because it never rejects every pebble; The sea is so magnificent and boundless. The sea is wide because it actively gathers little by little water. If you want to have the feelings of mountains and the depth of the sea, you must be good at learning from ordinary people? There must be a teacher in a threesome. .
At the same time, Confucius thought? Kindness is not easy to learn, and its cover is also stupid; If you know well and don't learn well, your cover will waver; Honesty is hard to learn, but its cover is also a thief? It can also be seen that learning is the foundation of benevolence and faith, which embodies the importance of learning, points out the direction and provides methods for our study today, and is worth learning and developing.
The Analects pays attention to filial piety, which has become the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Today, when people are dying, it is very necessary to tell them that filial piety is the foundation of being a man. Confucius said:? Father was there, watching his ambition; Father didn't, observe his actions; Three years without changing your father's ways can be described as filial piety. ?
? Parents can do their best; ? Wait a minute. Namely, Confucius said; ? Observe his ambition when his father is alive; After his father's death, we should examine his behavior; If he doesn't change his father's teaching for a long time, such a person can be said to have done his duty. ? What is filial piety here, Tong? Can parents do their best? A little different. Although parents can do their best, it is unfilial to do things in society, or to commit corruption or robbery, which makes parents very worried and worried. Parents want their children to be better than themselves and have good moral character, which is the starting point for parents to educate their children. Therefore, providing rich materials for parents is not the foundation of filial piety. If you can act according to your parents' wishes and teachings, it is true filial piety to be worthy of your parents.
As far as learning is concerned, Confucius? Never tire of learning, never tire of teaching, never know what you know, never know what you don't know, never be ashamed to ask questions if you are thirsty for knowledge. There must be a teacher in a threesome, knowledgeable and determined, thirsty for knowledge and thoughtful? . Isn't it a modest, rigorous, realistic and persistent learning attitude? Does he pay attention to the method of study? Therefore, it is useless to know the new, to learn without thinking, and to think without learning is dangerous. He thinks his study and internship are not bad. ? At the same time, Confucius thought? Kindness is not easy to learn, its cover is also stupid, and good knowledge is not easy to learn, and its cover is also swaying. Honesty is hard to learn, but its cover is also a thief? It can be seen that learning is important, and learning is the foundation of benevolence.
? A threesome requires a teacher. 、? He is quick-thinking and eager for knowledge, and he is never shy to ask his subordinates for advice. ? These are two of the six articles in The Analects that impressed me the most. The first is that several people go together, so there must be someone who can be a teacher; The latter tells us to study hard quickly and don't be shy to ask people who are not as good as ourselves. Although these two sentences came from Confucius more than two thousand years ago, they are still wise sayings and of great significance. ? A threesome requires a teacher. ? This sentence contains a broad truth: capable people are teachers. In our daily life, there are many people to contact every day, and everyone has certain advantages, which are worth learning and can also be our mentor. Suppose it belongs to our class. In this class group of nearly 80 people, some are fierce in basketball, some are good at painting, some are good at calligraphy, and some are good at chess. Some are astronomy, some are geography; Some are all numbers; Some people can sing and dance and learn from the ordinary people around us, just like the seedlings in the evergreen bushes absorb rich nutrients. The mountains are so majestic and continuous; The sea is so vast and boundless, and the mountain is high because it never rejects every pebble; The sea is wide because it actively gathers little by little water. If you want to have the feelings of mountains and the depth of the sea, you must be good at learning from ordinary people? There must be a teacher in a threesome. . Children of a few years old are certainly not as good as educators in their forties; Ordinary people are not as knowledgeable as historians, but that's right? Not ashamed to ask? Created many great men.