Give up, give up, how can you get it without giving up!

As the saying goes, you can't have your cake and eat it. Nothing in the world can kill two birds with one stone.

A flash in the pan is a good example. Epiphyllum is a beautiful flower, it only blooms at night, and the flowering period is very short. Maybe it will take many years for you to raise a pot of epiphyllum carefully, but it's all worth it, isn't it! Some things will only be rewarded if you pay, and how much you pay is just an unknown number, so you will only be rewarded if you are willing to pay.

Nowadays, learning is a fine art, and it can also be said to be a painful struggle. Nowadays, the society is a very attractive bait to lure high school students to learn entertainment. Some people are obsessed with it, but if you don't let go of the tempting "delicious food", your future will be "endless", so give up those entertainment and you will get a bright future. So if you put something down, the result is that you will definitely get something else. composition

Tony is a clerk in a company. The boss asked him and his colleagues to ask for money from a company that owed money to their company. Colleagues shook their heads and went back to the company. Only Tony will come. This is because when they left, their boss said that as long as you get back the 200,000 yuan they owed our company, how much interest you can get back from the rest100,000 yuan is yours. Greedy colleagues volunteered and went happily, only to talk to each other and give up. Tony gave up 90,000 yuan for 2 1 10,000, and he took 1 10,000 himself, and the company's debt came back. This is Tony's wish.

Only by giving up the trip over mountains and valleys can we examine the present more carefully. Tao Yuanming likes chrysanthemums very much. Once, he pulled out all the morning glory that grew beside the chrysanthemum. His wife was puzzled and asked, why did you pull out the good flowers? "So Tao Yuanming said that it will be early autumn soon, and the morning glory will not grow any longer, and chrysanthemum is the growing season of chrysanthemum at this time. If you don't get rid of the lovely morning glory, then our words won't produce beautiful flowers. " The wife shook her head and left. In autumn, clusters of chrysanthemums compete to open, and passers-by praise them again and again. Imagine if Tao Yuanming didn't get rid of the lovely morning glory, how could he get an unforgettable chrysanthemum! That's why you get what you give. composition

Give up a bright moon and you will get dazzling and beautiful stars.

Give up, give up, and you will get it!

Rule 2: What you give is what you get.

I said: giving up is failure.

You said: If you give up, you can start again.

He said: Give it up-he worships it.

We say: giving up means betrayal.

You said: giving up will make people confused.

They say: Giving up can sometimes make people get permanent exercise. ……

A short story told me the real answer.

In ancient times, a teenager was carrying a casserole on his back, and accidentally the rope broke. The casserole fell to the ground and broke, but the teenager kept walking without looking back. Someone stopped the boy and asked, "Don't you know that your casserole is broken?" Why not look back? The boy replied, "It's broken." What's the use of turning around? "Say, continue on his way.

After listening to this story, I wonder if you have any feelings. The boy is right. Now that the casserole is broken, what's the use of turning back?

This, like many failures in life, is irreparable, and it is useless to regret it again. Instead of wasting time struggling in pain, it is better to find new goals and try again. Let's learn to give up! Like that teenager. Don't blame yourself and sigh unnecessarily because of failure. When we really learn to give up, we will find that it is a real transcendence, a strong gesture to truly overcome ourselves.

One of the most common examples around us: a boy fell in love with a girl, and it was useless for his father to dissuade him. One day, the father gave his son a new walkman and found that his old walkman could not be heard. It turned out that my son thought the old one was too poor in quality and had given it away. Father enlightened: "life is not the most beautiful, only more beautiful." What will you do when one day you find that she is not beautiful, just like today you find that the old walkman is not as good as the new one? Don't send her away, too? It is better to give up early, there will be many good girls in the future. " Since then, my son has awakened and devoted himself to learning. Because he knows that his abandonment is a kind of beauty.

Many colleagues will have this experience, but it is difficult to extricate themselves for a while. Why not learn from that boy? You know, giving up bravely will make the pursuit better.

Giving up is to go further. If you can't master that elusive thing, you might as well give it up and forget it, then you will go further and be more chic.

"Don't pay too high a price for a whistle," Franklin said. Indeed, in our life, sometimes we need to give up decisively. A loaded eagle can't flap its wings; A swan is doomed to be unable to associate with the plane; The cruelty of reality does not allow us to expect too much. For the sake of the highest mountain in our hearts, we must give up and give up unrealistic dreams; Give up the ups and downs on the road to growth; Give up narcissism on the way to the mountain … Only in this way can you proudly say: I made the right choice when you reached the top of the mountain.

Rule 3: What you give is what you get.

When I was a child, I liked to listen to the story of monkeys harvesting corn: a little monkey went to the corn field to harvest corn. One under his arm is enough, but he is greedy. Seeing so much corn around him, he reaches for it. As a result, the corn fell under his arm. Finally, the little monkey was exhausted and only got two corn cobs.

Now, this story sounds a little childish, but I still like it. It is always so appropriate to explain human beings with monkeys!

Although the society is great, it is always greater than people's desires. People always want to have both, so with the fisherman's wife, she can only break the wooden basin for life, and with Shylock, she gets nothing. ...

However, standing on the long embankment of life, you can never occupy both sides at the same time. Joining the other side means giving up this shore. This contradiction is as profound and thrilling as the contradiction between life and death.

I was moved by a scene in the history books: Brandt, a former anti-fascist fighter and Federal Chancellor of Germany, visited Poland in 1970s. He came to a monument and fell to his knees with a plop in the face of the 6 million Polish people who died in Nazi Germany's atrocities. This shocking move surprised everyone present. He doesn't have to do this. He knelt down for all those who had to kneel. This kneeling caused the barrier of hatred between countries to collapse. In order to get the stability and unity of the whole nation, Brandt gave up his majesty.

This is exactly what Sanmao said: Give up if you give up, and only give up can you "gain".

However, not many people are really good at giving up. People often give up when they should pursue it persistently, but when they should give up, they try to pursue it again. Life is always full of broken nets and tears, and it is always full of joy and glory. When we have ups and downs at some point in our lives, give up and give up the frustration after failure, "now take a step forward from the beginning"! When we are immersed in the temporary scenery given by life, we give up and give up the comfort after success. "Tomorrow is another day."

In fact, everyone just plays life on their own stage, and there are many things that can't be obtained at all. For example, a naturally ugly person can never change his appearance (plastic surgery is not counted, after all, there is no factor to change himself), but he can give up trying to dress up his mind and cultivate his excellent personal accomplishment. For example, an excellent scientist was hired by a foreign university with a high salary, but in the face of the motherland and money, he resolutely gave up material interests and chose a sincere attitude towards the motherland.

Giving up is a cowardly and pathetic behavior for ordinary people. However, if we pay a little attention to and think about our life, we will find that giving up is actually a kind of tolerance, a philosophy and a strategy of retreating. A person who is good at giving up is often a successful and calm person, because he knows how to choose, cherish and grasp the mainstream of life.

Article 4: Giving is gaining.

Once, Lin Xiangru put down his identity and "led a car to avoid hiding", leaving a story of "reconciliation" in history; Once, Zhuangzi gave up the society that succumbed to power and became a tree that watched the moon alone; Once, Mr. Wu Liu gave up his official career and gained the tranquility and stability of "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and seeing Nanshan leisurely"

So, we know that what you give up is what you get.

Learn to give up and make our life happier.

Everyone must have heard the story of Tony. Three-year-old Tony didn't want to let go. When his little hand holding the candy got stuck in the bottle, he cried. Fifty-eight-year-old Tony learned to let go and let the debtor pay back only 200 thousand yuan, so he won a bonus of 10 thousand yuan. I believe that Tony's abandonment brought him not only a material reward of 10,000 yuan, but also a feeling of learning to give up while being indifferent and contented. He learned to give up, not taking pleasure in things or feeling sorry for himself, and he gained a happy attitude towards life.

Knowing how to give up makes us live more ourselves.

Wang Wei, in the secular officialdom, chose to give up. He knows the life he wants. Life is short, it is better to enjoy life than to cheat. Therefore, Wang said, "An egret flies over a quiet wetland, and a mango bird sings in a tree in midsummer" and "I learned to watch the morning glory on the mountain calmly and eat sunflower seeds with dew under the pine branches." Feel at ease. Knowing how to give up, Wang Weicai was able to live a more self-centered and leisurely pastoral life he loved.

Giving up is an excellent attitude towards life. Only by learning to give up and knowing how to give up can a person have a wonderful life. The beauty around us is like a handful of sand. The tighter you hold it, the less you can get it. All we have to do is give up the excess, so that we can get your share easily.

In our life, there are also many examples that we can't get because we don't know how to give up. Many people only pay attention to immediate interests and lose long-term interests, and some even embark on the road of crime. They ruined their lives because they didn't understand.

When we were students, we used to complain that our youth should not be the mileage of books and papers. However, we should know that what we give up now is the foundation of our happy life in the future.

The community is lively and prosperous, and what we get is spiritual peace and security; Give up the immediate petty profits, and we will get a longer-term interest protection; What we can't catch in the club is a relaxed and happy heart, which is our own beautiful life.

Life is always willing to accompany, just like a beautiful sky. Washing away the lead dust, we see colorful splendor.

Chapter 5: What you give up is what you get.

The Sea of Galilee abandoned the extravagant hope of protecting every drop of the Jordan River and made it fresh and beautiful, which was favored by people.

Fruit trees abandon beautiful and fragrant flowers, and only in autumn do they grow fruitful branches.

Mencius just knew that "you can't have your cake and eat it" and warned people to "sacrifice their lives for righteousness".

But look at the Dead Sea. It is insatiable and unwilling to let any drop of Jordan escape, but it gradually becomes lifeless and lifeless and abandoned by people!

So we learned that "there will be no pie in the sky", and life can only be gained if it is lost. What a person wants, he must lose first.

Cong Fei gave up his wish to live a happy life and donated his money to 100 children for free. His behavior touched the whole of China and made him live in people's hearts forever.

Xu Benyu gave up the opportunity to stay in school and live in a big city, gave up love, and resolutely went to the poor mountainous areas that needed him more, to help those children who were eager for knowledge and gave up their homes to get argumentative papers, so that their lives could be sublimated through dedication!

Diana, a "civilian princess", gave up her noble position and glory, bowed to the lower class, went deep into refugees and civilians, sent them warmth and happiness, and she also got happiness and love. Her smiling face will be remembered by people all over the world forever.

They are all smart people. Although they gave up almost all the most precious things, they got something more important, which made their lives more valuable and made their names engraved in people's hearts forever. However, in reality, more and more people don't know how to give up, just want to get it, and go further and further in the pursuit of money, status and fame, which makes the world despise!

Liu Xiaoqing, who is rich in furniture, is unwilling to give up a little income and do his duty as a citizen, which not only makes him lose the honor of being an excellent actor, but also makes his career decline day by day and become notorious for thousands of years!

There are many rich people in China. Why can't people respect them? Look at Bill Gates, the richest man in the world, and you will know how small they live! In fact, no amount of wealth will rot in the "earth steamed bread" after death!

As a senior leader of the country, Hu Changqing is unwilling to give up his selfishness. Faced with the temptation of money and luxury life, he lost himself. He not only lost his meaningless life, but even became a pile of stinky excrement despised by human beings and was nailed to the shame column of history forever.

In fact, it is also true among our students. Some students don't want to pay. They always want to get something for nothing and get good grades in their leisure time, but they don't want to pay hard mental work. In the end, they just drew water with a sieve. Remember: only after we lose a lot of time to relax and play can we get the beautiful ideal we want!

Then, let's calm down and understand a human truth: when we get it, don't forget to give it.