Gu Wei's life: monotonous and rational, lacking the impulse to love and be loved. Gu Wei's life path is relatively flat but extremely monotonous, because his parents are both doctors, and his usual work is very busy. Coupled with a healthy life concept, I received rational education from an early age and cultivated an independent personality. The busy parents' work and the family environment where they only communicate in an emergency also make Gu Wei lack the warmth of ordinary people.
Don't eat unhealthy things, and don't do things that have hidden harm to the human body. Under the guidance of parents, plus his own talent and hard work, Gu Wei also successfully entered the First Affiliated Hospital of Huaqing University and became a doctor. The definition of "home" seems relatively cold and powerless to him. This can be seen from what he said when he bought necessities after renting a house. His home is a private "duty room" and has no quality of life.
Busy work on weekdays is basically a two-point and one-line life, and most of the time at home is a rest place without temperature. Sometimes parents will invite Gao Yang to go, but Gu Wei's attitude towards Gao Yang has always been deliberately alienated. Good upbringing made him say nothing, which led to a helpless situation, but the meaning was obvious every time.
I'm used to Dr. Gu's where are you going? I have seen too many family changes and too many fragile emotions in the hospital, but I firmly believe that the warm scene is not only seen by the school, but in his heart, I look forward to being so attached to him and having love and being loved as never before. Therefore, even if there is no school, according to Gu Wei's personality, I don't want to follow the old path of my parents and find someone who only talks about work all my life.
Life in Gao Yang: I followed it all the way, and I was only familiar with another person's habits. There is not much description of Gao Yang's family in the play. Everyone only knows that her father is the vice president of the First Affiliated Hospital of Huaqing University, and she and Gu Wei have been classmates and colleagues for more than ten years.
In the eyes of Gu Wei's parents, Gao Yang is broad-minded, obedient and polite, and has deep feelings for Gu Wei. Both of them are the best candidates for daughter-in-law, regardless of their living habits, work nature, family conditions or emotional foundation. And in the hospital, everyone is also very interested in their love. After all, Gu Wei is cold and busy on weekdays, taking his job as his responsibility, and rarely even goes home. And Gao Yang is also a "cold beauty", only when dealing with Gu Wei will be gentle.
I am a heart-to-heart partner at work, and I am familiar with my life. Even my living habits are * * *. They are similar to other people's parents, and there are no lovers outside here, so in the eyes of colleagues, it is only a matter of time before Gu Wei and Gao Yang get married ~
In fact, the situation in Gao Yang is very good. He is not only beautiful, but also good at medicine. Besides, he has a vice president's father, and his family conditions, job prospects, resources and other aspects are excellent. She thinks that she will wait carefully, integrate into life, master habits, and have a heart in her heart, which will eventually move Gu Wei and make him accept himself.
However, Gu Wei is a man of his own mind. Along the way, he mostly politely refused and deliberately kept his distance. Even if Gao Yi pretends not to understand his advantages and follows and applies his decision more actively, it will not change all this. More sensitively, I found that Gu Wei attached too much importance to the school, but I was still unable to stop them from going further.
"Why is it a school in the forest?" This is her last reluctance, because in her view, Gu Wei, who has always been calm, is very "out of place" with the school in all aspects. How can people belonging to two worlds be together?
How did the man who pursued his pace, mastered his overall situation and habits, and let himself blend in and change suddenly changed his original movement track and would rather change his original living habits for another person? This kind of Gu Wei is a bit like herself, and a bit unacceptable to her.
Gao Yang has his own pride. Instead of being stubborn, he adjusted himself while going abroad. When his mind was calm, he went home again and slowly found himself who had been lost for a long time. Although I had to be emotionally integrated as a "colleague", I also realized that I had never entered Gu Wei's heart during the loss. Help is a noble justice, and blessing is a noble tolerance. I firmly believe that after really learning to let go, she will also see and find the care of others that she neglected before and find her own happiness!
Gu Wei's parents are objective and rational, and respect each other as guests. Their educational methods have many unique features, and they have educated Gu Wei well. But it also makes Gu Wei feel that such a couple lacks the original warmth of the family, making life dull and without temperature. He expects to be ignited by the impulse to love and be loved, making life and work more three-dimensional. That person is obviously not tall!