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"The mud is not sticky, clear but not demon." "Close to Zhu Zhechi, close to Mexico is black" seems to have become an eternal motto. However, as long as we think about it carefully, it is not difficult to find that it is not necessarily black people who approach Mexico.
The topic of black ink has been discussed by countless people. Most people think it is black, and some people find another way to get a truth that is not necessarily black.
Black and not necessarily black, I think the key lies in a close word.
Some people's so-called close, is close from beginning to end. Long-term communication will inevitably have the influence of learning from each other, which is almost an instinct that people dare not come. Of course, there are two people who get along well, but there are great differences in all aspects, but it does not affect each other's situation. Then one of them must be very persistent about the principle and unwilling to impose it on others with his own will. Generally, this relationship will not last long, because there is no spiritual communication between individuals, and the final result is to go their separate ways. Some people will say that this relationship has lasted for a long time, but it is mostly caused by material needs and there is no spiritual communication. How can we talk about it?
There is another ridiculous situation. In order to prove that people who are close to the ink are not necessarily black, someone deliberately touches another person with obvious differences. After a certain period of time, no one will affect anyone, so someone shouted that those who are close to ink are not black. This is like washing dishes with rubber gloves. Of course it won't hurt your hands, and even your hands won't get wet.
The so-called closeness should be spiritual communication. Proximity does not refer to physical distance, but to the interweaving of ideas between individuals. There is only a moment of thought collision. If the thoughts are inconsistent, they will separate and go their separate ways. This is not close. If there is a * * * sound between thoughts, then communication will certainly produce new thinking, which is close. The near must evolve.
There is also a situation where the closeness between individuals only exists at a certain level, and only at this level can ideas be exchanged. In this way, although the ink is not red, it is close to ink but not black. Throughout the ages, there are many allusions to prove it. Again, the exchange of ideas will inevitably lead to evolution.
The so-called proximity in those allusions only exists unilaterally, or both sides seek proximity for some purpose. To give a simple example, some released prisoners have turned over a new leaf and stopped doing evil; Some are still stubborn. To put it simply, those prodigals who turn back are all good-hearted, so they can accept those good things and integrate with their own ideas.
And those who don't repent, they put those exhortations in their hearts and even pretend to accept them, but their hearts have not changed at all. Others may accept it calmly and finally make mistakes because of poor self-control. This is typical. Contact the good, accept the good, and change for it. After getting out of prison, those who have bad contact will be changed again.
Jin Fuxuan's "Prince Zhen of Shaofu": "So close to Zhu Zhechi, those who are close to Mexico are black; Sound and harmony are distinct, and the shape is regular and straight. " The ancients didn't cheat me. Near Zhu Zhechi, near the jet black. This is a famous saying of Confucius, a great scholar, which has been regarded as truth for thousands of years. I don't think so. I think "pro-Zhu may not be red, pro-ink may not be black." "
Mr. Lu Xun, a world famous writer, is a good example. Mr. Lu Xun was born in a feudal landlord family, but he was very sympathetic to the working people when he was a teenager, instead of oppressing the people like other rich people. As an adult, he profoundly exposed the ugly face of feudal society with a pen instead of a gun. In fact, there are many people like Lu Xun in the world.
Lotus flowers don't stick to mud, and those who are near ink are not necessarily black! People are hard to change. Even if everyone around you is Zhu Zhe, but you don't learn from them, the worse you learn, so what's the use of Zhu Zhe to you? After hearing this, do you still believe that "everything near Zhu Zhechi is black"?