The relationship between etiquette and personal accomplishment. Good cultivation is the foundation of civilized etiquette. At the same time, a person's etiquette norms can also reflect a person's moral cultivation.
From the perspective of personal cultivation, etiquette can be said to be the external expression of a person's inner cultivation and quality. From the perspective of communication, etiquette can be said to be an art, a communicative way or method applicable in interpersonal communication, and a customary practice of showing respect and friendliness in interpersonal communication. From the perspective of communication, etiquette can be said to be a skill of mutual communication in interpersonal communication.
Self-cultivation refers to people's self-cultivation and self-cultivation, which is closely related to people's personality, psychology, morality and culture, and is the expression of people's comprehensive quality.
Lack of self-cultivation is an important reason for etiquette anomie. Today's society is an era that attaches great importance to image. Contemporary college students are very concerned about their image. They strengthen the cultivation of various abilities and pursue fashionable and decent clothes, but they don't realize that it is more important to express themselves in a way that meets the etiquette requirements, so they relax the cultivation of etiquette. Although some college students realize the importance of etiquette, or have a certain or even higher understanding of etiquette knowledge, they lack standardized training and persistent training in practice, which makes it a personal etiquette habit, so rude words and deeds often appear. There are even some misunderstandings: thinking that wearing strange clothes is the pursuit? Is it cool? Do you think it's enough to swear at ordinary times? Is it cool? Think of politeness as? Pediatric behavior? Do something for friends? Hero? Style and so on.
Etiquette and personal accomplishment (1) What is accomplishment? Literacy refers to a certain quality and ability that a person gradually possesses through hard study, hard training and training in morality, knowledge and skills. Politeness refers to the quality and ability of a person to communicate with others. Will directly affect the activity.
(2) The relationship between etiquette and moral cultivation: mutual penetration and complementary. As the saying goes: sincerity is outward? Being polite to others is definitely not a simple study and imitation, nor is it a formality. ? Politeness comes from the heart? Etiquette is the external expression of a person's inner world and the natural expression of true feelings. That kind of generous, well-spoken, gentle and polite demeanor is by no means fake. It must be based on good personal cultivation. A person who lacks self-cultivation, anyway. Packaging? After all, I can only give people a vulgar and superficial feeling and impression. Therefore, paying attention to etiquette is not only a code of conduct to enhance friendship and contact feelings in interpersonal communication, but also an external manifestation of one's inner cultivation. If we want to improve our own quality in an all-round way, we must strengthen the study of etiquette knowledge and constantly improve our own moral cultivation.
(3) rules of interpersonal etiquette cultivation: 1, strictly abide by social morality; 2. Abide by time, order and credit; 3. Treat others sincerely, as if you are the same; 4, modest, not self-righteous; Easy-going, not stubborn; 5. Be strict with yourself and be generous to others; 6. Treat people with enthusiasm and prudence, and be neither humble nor humble; 7, enthusiastic to help others, protect the weak, not because of trivial matters.
(4) Ways to cultivate personal good manners: 1, Xiu De, to strengthen their own moral awareness and professional ethics; 2. Strengthen the study of etiquette knowledge, especially the study of social etiquette common sense and professional etiquette norms; 3. Improve your cultural knowledge in an all-round way, so that you can have rich cultural accumulation; 4. Enrich and improve your personality to meet the requirements of professional quality; 5. Take an active part in social activities and form a good habit of being polite to others in social activities.
Personal cultivation etiquette 1, don't be conceited.
There is a day behind the world, and there are people in the world, indifferent to Zhi Ming, quiet and far-reaching. When others treat you as a leader, don't treat yourself as a leader. When others don't treat you as a leader, you must treat yourself as a leader. Power is temporary, money is external, the body is your own, and life is long.
2. Don't promise blindly.
Keep your promise. If you plant actions, you will reap habits; If you plant habits, you will gain character; Plant character, harvest fate and habits, and make a person.
Don't ask for help easily.
Treat yourself as others to reduce pain and dull ecstasy, treat others as yourself to sympathize with misfortune, understand needs, treat others as others, respect independence, not invade others, treat yourself as yourself, cherish yourself and live a happy life. Being able to know others is a kind of wisdom, being known by others is a kind of happiness, and being able to know yourself as a saint.
4. Don't impose on others.
Damage the personality of others, be happy for a while, and hurt your body for a lifetime. Whole life is interdependent. Everything in the world depends on another thing. Learn to be grateful. Grateful for the protection of nature, grateful for the upbringing of parents, grateful for the stability of society, grateful for the sweetness of food, grateful for the warmth of clothes, grateful for flowers and plants, grateful for suffering and adversity.
5. Don't make fun of others.
Damage the personality of others, be happy for a while, and hurt your body for a lifetime. Whole life is interdependent. Everything in the world depends on another thing. Learn to be grateful. Grateful for the protection of nature, grateful for the upbringing of parents, grateful for the stability of society, grateful for the sweetness of food, grateful for the warmth of clothes, grateful for flowers and plants, grateful for suffering and adversity.
6. Don't lose your temper.
One hurts the body and the other hurts the feelings. Crying at birth, old age, illness and death, everyone is equal. You know you don't want to go, but others have made up their minds. Life depends on three mountains: Jinggangshan, Putuo Mountain and Babaoshan. Take a step back and stay calm. If you complain too much, be careful.
7. Don't interrupt others.
If you talk too much, you lose. silence is golden. Listening is a kind of wisdom, a kind of accomplishment, a kind of respect and a kind of spiritual communication. Calm is a state of mind and a kind of maturity.
8. Don't underestimate this instrument.
Spreading beauty and harvesting happiness, appearance is a kind of mood and appearance is a kind of strength. While examining beauty by yourself, let others appreciate it, and spiritual yoga can be adjusted, practiced and surpassed.
9. Don't shut yourself off.
Helping others is noble, understanding people is open-minded, tolerating people is a virtue, serving people is fun, the full moon is a poem, the moon is a flower, it is spring to look up, and autumn to bow down.
10, don't bully honest people.