Leave the arms of parents and fly in a world full of thorns, and the young eagle will grow. Many people don't understand what all kinds of animals in nature know. As we all know, real growth needs to be experienced by children.

The story of Lincoln and Ten Steps must have been heard by many people. Round hands, struggling to climb the steps, flushed, looking back at my mother when I was young. But mom just smiled and gave him an encouraging look. He turned around and tried to climb the steps beyond his reach. Faced with high steps, many parents always pick up their children and walk over, but they don't know that such a small matter is actually an experience for young children. The young mother let go and let the child walk among the accumulated thorns. These eventually made American President Lincoln, whom Marx called a "world hero".

Now many parents spoil their children too much, and some parents always want to use money to pave the way for their children. From elementary school to high school, I will send my children to good schools with money. After graduating from high school, I will send my children abroad to study, and then "buy" a job for them when they come back. Indeed, in this money-oriented society, this may enable children to walk smoothly on the road arranged by their parents. But this is not necessarily a good thing for children. They are like manipulated puppets. As long as parents let go a little, they will fall down softly, unable to stand on their own feet, or even accomplish nothing.

Parents should not be umbrellas, but push their children's hands behind their backs when they need them. To make children fly higher and farther, we must let them learn to walk by themselves and face all kinds of hardships in life by themselves. The three sons of Jason Wu, former president of National Taiwan University, graduated from famous universities such as Stanford and Brown. Talking about the secret of children's success, he said: "If children want to succeed, they must be energetic, able to keep learning and have a strong enterprising spirit. And initiative is not something you can practice under your leadership. " It is definitely not a bad thing to have more stress or hardships in life. All these can stimulate a person's enterprise. Only when parents learn to let go and let their children be stabbed by thorns can they understand the long road and grow up in suffering; Only in this way can we have greater ambitions and firm goals and fly to our own future.

A child's life should be created by himself. Of course, while letting children face all kinds of hardships in life independently, we should also guide them correctly to prevent them from taking the road of injustice. Parents in China, please don't forget that only by letting their children be stung by roses will they know how to pick them, not just the beauty of roses. Even if you are reluctant to part with your children, or how worried you are, please spread your wings and let them grow up and walk out of their different lives.