When we see the pain coming, the biggest feeling is to fight back. When we feel powerless to fight back, the final solution is to run away. However, no matter what you do, the pain is still there. It is an emotion and a knot that you can't live without.
How to overcome pain!
Give up without a fight! Let the pain take over everything. I seek happiness in pain. When happiness fills my body, we should be grateful for pain, because pain lets us know happiness and pain lets us learn to be tolerant.
Not that I am a container, because I am a container. I don't pretend to be pathetic, I pretend to be happy. However, the world is not simply black and white. Once we dress up, it will be a gray feeling, with pain and happiness, as white said: pain and happiness.
Pain is a part of life, not compromise, but admit that this pain is mine, and only I have this pain.
I am proud, because I have the pain you don't have. I am immersed in life in pain, and I experience the joy of pain relief in life.
I don't need pressure from others, and I didn't give you a left face or a right face. I know that this fight or not is my experience, and only this unique experience can I realize myself in pain.
Escape and compromise seem to separate pain. My point of view is that pain is innate, so we should adjust this inner pain and turn it into pleasure in my heart as much as possible.
Pain and pleasure are the functions of benzamide. If we think in a different direction, our anger will dissolve benzamide, and we will distribute it evenly to all parts of the body with a happy mood instead of focusing on one point.
Compromise is just an appearance. Ask everyone why they don't compromise. The key is that the reason why they don't compromise is there, so they will compromise invisibly, because reflection is the diluent. Knowing the reasons for intransigence will turn the apparent intransigence into inner firmness. A man with a firm heart is the one who is considered to be compromised by others!
The essence of learning is to learn how to defend. If I know that I have the right to suffer, do I still need to defend rather than isolate and reject the pain?
We can't afford defensive armor. Now the defense is in tank mines, and the war has escalated. If I had given up the ancient defense and realized that there would be pain in the war between the two sides, there would be no tanks now, and the defense would be zero, so it would be much easier to solve the problem. Churchill met Roosevelt, and Churchill's victory was not eloquent, but naked.
"As a person, many times will choose the survival of the fittest! Therefore, human beings will reproduce, and it is this concept that has caused people's psychological burden today.
Envy, jealousy and hatred constitute the root of our problems, and survival of the fittest just bypasses them! But the depression is still there! It is the same!
From the perspective of survival, when animals can't adapt to the changed world of human beings, is human beings only sad and lonely? !
Because there is no playmate! So when we can't find the warmth of the same kind! People who can keep pets are lonely! Especially inside!
Envy, jealousy, hatred and depression are all our emotions. Only these things can enrich our existence. If we accept greed, jealousy and delusion, we accept the world and ourselves.
Humans can't stand loneliness. We can stand loneliness because we can't stand loneliness. We can stand loneliness because we can better accept others and realize the greatest communication with people and the world.
Because I can stand loneliness, I won't be anxious!
Not endure, but accept!
Loneliness can give people a lot of anxiety! Can stand loneliness! The heart will be calm!
We are not lonely, we want to grow, we accept loneliness, and our hearts will become stronger! Have the courage to face the uncertainty given by life.
We always like to use some words to express our feelings. As a result, we are symbolized by these words.
Not only people should be able to stand loneliness, but also animals. While waiting for its prey, wolves suffer from loneliness that no one can understand. Therefore, people should be as tolerant of loneliness as animals.
We are not lonely, loneliness is only a symbolic feeling.
When we were in mom's belly! In such an environment, the only companion may be my mother's heartbeat.
We have our own loneliness, and we cultivate our viability in loneliness. For the fetus, this sound is the only existence in the universe. He recognized this comfortable harmony, but the fetus had to leave his mother because she couldn't bear him to grow up slowly. However, this natural separation has brought her (him) great pain. The sound of the universe becomes noisy. He doesn't know where the harmonious sound is. His uncertainty made him anxious.
The pain of childbirth is so natural, but he is really struggling on the verge of death. Even the pain of life is worse than death. If he chooses consciously, I think he would rather die than live. Therefore, in our personal reaction, we can see our childhood memories and anxiety about survival. That's inevitable! Have no choice!
Yes, we have no choice. Only pain can lead our lives. Similarly, only pain can lead us to grow. We can't escape the pain. We live with pain, and escaping can only be more painful. If we are full-term in mom's belly, we will come out. Otherwise, it will be more and more difficult to delay, and even the interdependent circle between yourself and your mother will be destroyed.
Growth is accompanied by pain.
Life and death are not terrible, but suffering. If we realize that pain and growth go hand in hand, what are we afraid of? If we want to grow up, shouldn't we shout: let the pain come more violently! So, if there is pain, go in pain.
Pain is the wealth of growth, because today's pain will make us gain more.