However, when I gradually understood, I found that the world was not as beautiful as I dreamed when I was a child. There are all kinds of contradictions in the world. Everything is inextricably linked and is in a constantly changing development. The experience between people is unequal, asymmetric and different. Power, wealth, honor and love have become the pursuit goals. Success and failure, progress and backwardness, promotion and degradation, wealth and poverty, nobility and meanness, kindness and obedience to evil, responsibility and negligence, love and hate, etc., always plague every adult. Regardless of success or failure, dignity, honor and disgrace, love and hate, and so on. I'm not born and I can't solve problems by the methods taught by my parents. Everything depends on yourself. In the process of growing up, we should correctly treat difficulties and setbacks, strengthen our confidence, and realize that the future is bright and the road is tortuous. Only by persistence can we succeed. We walked all the way from primary school, junior high school to senior high school. Before we came to Xi University of Posts and Telecommunications, we made our own efforts and sweat. These reflect that the development of things is progressive and faltering, and we can't expect everything to be smooth sailing. We should be good at understanding the possibilities of the development of things, fully estimate their difficulties and twists and turns, stand the test of difficulties and setbacks, strengthen our confidence, strive for success and open up the way forward. On the way forward, we should pay attention to the relationship between qualitative change and quantitative change. "Without silicon, you can't go to Wan Li Road; If you don't accumulate small streams, you can't become rivers and seas. Only by creating conditions for qualitative change in a down-to-earth manner can we achieve a leap in things.
Take Shangwang as an example. There are advantages and disadvantages in surfing the internet, and the advantages and disadvantages are unified in a contradiction. For us, in the current information age, we can't avoid it, so we must handle this contradiction well. If it can be used to improve their own learning and strengthen communication with relatives, friends and teachers, it will be beneficial; On the contrary, if it is only used to play games, it will be harmful. The advantages and disadvantages of surfing the Internet can be mutually converted, and the key lies in a clear understanding and correct use.
I was addicted to the internet and gave up studying for a long time. When my grades plummeted, I was still complaining that the game hurt me, but I didn't let it continue to hurt me. In fact, the game is just an external cause that affects my study. The real reason for the decline in my grades is that I don't work hard enough. Internal factors are the decisive factors that determine the success of things, and your own efforts are the most important.