When men and women are in love, it is very easy to fall into a misunderstanding that they are crazy about being nice to each other, thinking that they can get equal love and happy love from their lovers.

In fact, two people in love, whether male or female, are like hunters catching animals.

When pursuing, I want to get the recognition and love of the other person crazily. However, when the prey is caught, the freshness and intimacy will gradually disappear.

At this time, if one party pursues crazily again, there will be emotional inequality and a series of emotional problems.

Love is a process of learning from each other, which needs two people's heart to maintain. You need sincerity as well as skills and ways to get along.

1 fitness connection

Proper contact here actually means that couples don't need to have too frequent contact.

Improve yourself.

Frequent contact will expose your small shortcomings and bad habits to your lover, and your good image will gradually collapse.

Even close lovers will feel cold and bored after a long time.

It's not someone's fault, human nature is to like the new and hate the old, and not to be ordinary.

During the period of infrequent contact, both men and women should have their own careers, hobbies and ways to improve themselves.

You can be busy studying, taking exams, watching your favorite TV series, going to fitness, learning to dance, practicing yoga, and so on.

What happened during these efforts or no contact is the topic of reconnecting and re-establishing intimate relations.

Looking for the same topic

2 Find the same topic as * * *

Lovers, lovers, always have the same topic.

Falling in love is the process of talking about the whole world, the expectation of life and the yearning for future life.

Only when both men and women have the same topic can they talk together and gradually increase their intimacy.

These same topics are not necessarily things that both sides like.

Remember, don't do to others what you don't want, and don't do to others what you don't want.

Maintain a certain degree of independence and find the same topic. He can share his views on the World Cup and historical events. You just need to listen carefully, nod your head from time to time, and show an adoring expression.

She may often complain about life, work and small troubles around her. You don't need to help her solve it, just listen carefully and give some advice occasionally.

Keep the sleeves secret

3 keep the spirit feeling.

Maintaining mystery is very useful for men and women in love to increase their feelings.

Love comes from life, not higher than life. Adding some mystery to ordinary life and plain love will be an important means to maintain love.

You can learn more love words and tell her your love the most. Or, secretly arrange an unexpected encounter to relive the beauty of the first meeting. Or there are some small secrets, small changes, small routines, etc. that will not make the other party suspicious.

Keep the mystery, so that ordinary love is no longer ordinary.

4*** Time alone

No matter how busy they are at work and school, no matter how far they are from Qianshan, they must make an appointment to be alone with each other.

It can be a romantic date, a hike, an outing or a little adventure.

Don't take it for granted

Only by having your own space can you face it calmly, care and love each other with your heart, and make your feelings stronger.

Don't take it for granted

Every day, we should appreciate the sincere feelings between lovers, the efforts and efforts of lovers in this relationship, and the little happiness and sweetness at that moment.

Love is a matter between two people, and it needs two people's efforts to maintain it, love and encourage each other and treat each other as equals.

Don't take all good love for granted, and don't think that this is what the other party should do.

In their interaction, every sublimation, every effort and every test has encouragement, gratitude and response.

Only by mastering the above five points can we better manage intimate relationships and warm up our feelings.