2. From the perspective of whether the spirit is pleasant or not, facing the success of others is far less convincing than facing your own success. But it is a kind of grace to face and accept the success of others. In the face of others' success, people who don't care can't succeed, because they don't have the grace and desire to succeed; Those who are jealous in front of others will never succeed, because they have no calm demeanor and open mind. Manner is the external expression of ideological accomplishment and cultural accomplishment. Its beauty is expressed through people's external behaviors, such as expression, language and posture. It is the embodiment of the harmonious unity of human inner beauty and outer beauty. External beauty makes people happy, internal beauty makes people convinced, and the beauty of combining inside and outside can be both pleasing and pleasing. Soong Ching Ling served as the vice president of the country before his death, but his clothes were very simple, but he did not lose his poise. She often wears a steel hairpin with a few cents on her head. When she married Dr. Sun Yat-sen, she used a set of toiletries until her death. Soong Ching Ling pays attention to neatness in her clothes. She cherishes clothes very much. There are always two sets of clothes at home, ordinary clothes at home; Wear good clothes when going out for activities and meeting guests. Soong Ching Ling's clothes are mostly designed by herself and made by staff. When she was old and fat, she sewed the original clothes from her armpits, pressed the edges, added fat and still wore them. People like Soong Ching Ling who can keep a cool mood in front of their own glory certainly have a demeanor, but people who can keep a safe attitude in front of the glory of others are even more graceful. The creed of the Olympic Games is: "The most important thing in the Olympic Games is not to win but to participate, and the meaning of life is not to win but to struggle." 1936 Berlin Olympics, American black athlete Jesse? Owens took part in the long jump, and his strongest opponent was Germany's Lutz? Lang. In the preliminaries, Luz? Lang successfully passed the customs. But because of Hitler's racial discrimination, Owens was a little nervous and tried to jump twice without success. In the crucial third time, Lutz? Lang came over and marked Owens' jumping place with a towel to let him enter the final. A few days later, Owens defeated Luz. Lang, get the gold medal. At this time, Lutz came again? Lang ran first, raised Owens' hand and shouted, "Jesse? Owens. Jesse. Owens! " Won a thunderous response from the stands. Years later, Owens still said, "Is it Lutz? Lang made him understand that the sacred and caring "great love on earth" is the real and eternal sportsmanship. Perhaps, each of us should have such manners, and every nation should have such manners. So, let's face the persuasion of others with a smile, and let's be open-minded, so that we can have real rigidity.
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Writing instruction with the theme of "demeanor" —— Layout planning —— Clever arrangement and marking layout 1. Writing topic: Shakespeare once made a warm and sincere ode to human manners: "What a great masterpiece human beings are! What a noble reason! What a great power! What a beautiful instrument! What an elegant move! What an angel in action! What a wise god! The essence of the universe, the spirit of all things! " Manner is a beautiful and colorful picture frame with wisdom, sentiment, character and accomplishment as its color and words as its behavior. Please write an argumentative essay on the topic of "demeanor". Custom, self-designed topic, no less than 800 words. Second, the idea of reviewing the questions and the wonderful topics "Talking about Etiquette", "On Etiquette" and "My View on Etiquette" A. Insufficient space and literary talent. The beauty of manners, the way to be a man, is conquered by manners, bloomed by manners, cheered by manners, crossed by manners for thousands of years, charmed by manners, China's manners, and wonderful life by manners. Starting from the big picture, the connotation of "manners" is explained from many angles: there is a kind of manners called backbone, loser's manners, humility is a kind of manners, bow one's head and tolerance is a kind of manners. C. Start from a small place and define the understanding of "demeanor". 3. The layout of roads (parallel, progressive, positive and negative) 1. (Terry Hua) A man with grace is fearless. Xiang Yu: A personable person, confident and optimistic. (abraham lincoln) Manner is calmness in times of crisis. (Tan Sitong) Manner is humility and humility when the spring breeze is in full swing. (Lin Xiangru to Lian Po) Manner is generosity after being wronged. (Bao Shu to Guan Zhong) 3. The independent model is slightly shorter: a pile of cloth, a clever designer, cut it into fashionable clothes, while the cloth without design can only be made into sacks. Similarly, the composition must be ingenious in layout to become a boutique, and those scattered compositions are inferior in planning. The setting of road signs should be relevant and clear, and it is best to use whole sentences. Four. The beauty of successful writing style. Senior three. 3 1 Wang Qianqian style is a kind of beauty of both internal and external cultivation. It is a flower pregnant with fruit, and its inner enrichment turns into the beauty of appearance; It is a red sun of silent dedication, and selfless sentiment dresses up a charming smile. Bruno is very elegant. The God of Wisdom gave it eyes to discover the truth. When abuse and slander swarmed in, he was wise and firmly believed that the light of truth would dispel absurd traitors. So Bruno held his head high on the stake in Rome Square, and maintained the manner of a martyr. Manner is the externalization of wisdom. Without any excuse, fallacies will be shattered in silence and calmness. Li Taibai is very elegant. Noble sentiments shaped him into a madman. The imperial concubine learns ink, and Lux takes off his boots. Although his ideal was shattered and he was exiled, he still sang the song "Oh, how can I bow and scrape to those high-ranking officials whose sincere faces will never be seen", showing his indomitable demeanor. Therefore, he stood with dignity. Manner is a noble coat, and the noble heart spits out into awe-inspiring righteousness, overwhelming reputation and power. Su Dongpo is graceful. Carefree mentality painted him as a quiet pastoral ink painting. In this torrent of competition for profits, he always has a "miserable" normal heart, with a calm and indifferent attitude, smiling at the cold rain on the road of life, showing the world the demeanor of a down-and-out scholar. Manner is a calm appearance, and I always maintain a calm and calm attitude. Things change, and I walk leisurely. Very elegant. 3 1 Li Hong does not refuse every drop of water, and the grace of the sea has made it magnificent; Don't give up every grain of sand, the style of the mountain has made it magnificent; Aside from trivial interests and grievances, the demeanor of a great man has made a noble soul. What is elegance? What can tolerate dissidents is tolerance and generosity. Like sunshine, warm others and illuminate yourself. When his son Xiao Bai faced Guan Zhong who had revenged himself, did he end the feud or let go of the past? With a broad mind and a far-sighted vision, it shows an elegant imperial bearing. Compared with the world, what is the significance of personal grievances? Under his generosity, Guan Zhong devoted himself to serving the country, and his talents were fully displayed, in exchange for the prosperity of the country and the well-being of the people, and finally achieved the great cause of the Spring and Autumn Period. What is elegance? It is a heroic and broad-minded person who forgets his life. It is like a magnificent poem, inspiring and circulating for a long time. When Xiang Yu faced the sobbing river, even a seven-foot man was sad, but his heart refused to shake at all. In the face of failure, he was calm and finally drew his sword and committed suicide. Defeated by backbone, dignity and elegance, and heroism. He created a heroic history of blood and tears with his own demeanor, and also taught people how to stand between heaven and earth. Therefore, Li Qingzhao's poem praised: "Life is a hero, and death is also a ghost hero." What is elegance? It is a kind of arrogance and arrogance that despises the powerful and evil. It is like a high-pitched song, which has been sung all over history. Li Taibai shouted: "Oh, how can I bow and scrape to those high officials whose sincere faces will never be seen!" How many people with lofty ideals have been inspired. The imperial concubine grinds ink, and Lux takes off his boots. How many unusual actions have an alien made in the eyes of ordinary people. He finally waved his sleeves and left, leaving a handsome figure in the consternation of dignitaries, crossing the Millennium time and space smartly, setting off secular fame and fortune. Grace is a bold spirit, and grace is a noble sentiment, which shows the most authentic beauty of human nature and makes the soul glow with dazzling brilliance. What's that bow gesture? The imposing manner of a handsome man, the charm of a beautiful woman, the eloquence of a scholar and the courtesy of a gentleman all seem to be footnotes of "grace". However, I only value another special way, and that is the way of bowing my head. Everyone wants to be confident and hold his head high, so that his body can stretch and his soul can be comfortable. However, life sometimes gives birth to things that make you unable to stretch and feel comfortable. At this time, don't hit the south wall and don't look back, or bow your head and admit your mistakes? In my opinion, it is a rare real grace to bow your head and admit defeat. Lian Po, a veteran of Zhao State, prides himself on his words, but he thinks highly of himself because he can't stand Lin Xiangru's words. He deliberately provoked and spoke ill of many times. But after learning of Lin Xiangru's good intentions, he suddenly woke up and corrected his mistake. As a general, Lian Po personally went to Lin Xiangru to apologize. Lian Po, who bowed his head and repented, not only did not lose his dignity, but earned back his face and won the respect of the world. A humble apology and a bowing manner make Lian Po, a reckless and humble Beowulf, honest and lovely. It is unbearable for anyone to be forced to drill into someone else's crotch in front of everyone. Although Han Xin was ambitious, he was helpless when he met a ruffian rogue. If he is brave, he will ruin his life and future. On balance, he had to temporarily put down the gentleman's airs, hold back his temper, lower his head, and all the troubles subsided. The head drilled from the crotch of a rogue seems to be more noble than before. Endure the humiliation of his legs, and lower his head to make Han Xin a spiritual aristocrat. 1970 65438+February 7, Federal Chancellor Willie? Brandt braved the cold wind and came to the monument to the Jewish victims in Warsaw. After laying a wreath in front of the monument, he bowed his head solemnly and suddenly fell to his knees, praying, "God forgive us and may the suffering soul have peace." Brandt expressed deep condolences to the innocent Jews killed by the Nazi Party in World War II, and sincerely made amends for Nazi-era Germany. Brandt won the forgiveness and respect of people all over the world with his pious attitude. Germans who bow their heads are much more noble than Japanese who stand with their heads held high. Bowing down and bowing down turned the criminals in this war in Germany into messengers of peace. Zhou Yu is an outstanding strategist, with outstanding talent and resourcefulness, who managed the huge Soochow Navy in an orderly way. But when he confirmed Zhuge Liang's brilliant plan after many contests, although he knew that he was inferior, he was unwilling to fail and refused to give up. He spent all day thinking about how to win Zhuge Liang and even tried to get rid of Zhuge Liang. After giving a sigh of "How can I live a good life for the rest of my life", I finally died of vomiting blood. If Zhou learns to bow his head and admit defeat and learn from Zhuge Liang modestly, wouldn't it be a beautiful talk for Zhou Yu and Liang to join hands? Willful and unwilling to admit defeat, Zhou Yu lacked the grace to bow his head and became a wretched image and a laughing stock of future generations. Walking on the bumpy road of life, the success or failure of honor or disgrace does not lie in the attitude of lowering the head or raising the head. Bow your head and admit defeat, which can be vigorous and show a different style. That bow is the most valuable demeanor!
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