It's really not easy for a breastfeeding mother to take her baby out, and the child's breastfeeding becomes a problem. If it's okay to go for an outing, you can bring a tent to cover it, so that no one can see it and no one will affect it. However, if you go shopping, the child suddenly cries for milk, and breastfeeding becomes a very troublesome thing. So be considerate of breastfeeding mothers.
Looking through the circle of friends before going to bed yesterday, I saw a woman with a strange head and sent a circle of friends, which accused nursing mothers of breastfeeding their babies in the mall.
She said, "If you dare to lift your clothes and show your chest in public, you are shameless. Even if you feed the children, you should look at the occasion. People will be embarrassed when they see it. What a shame! " In addition, there is a photo of Ma Bao nursing her baby.
Of course, I can understand the lady's embarrassment when she saw someone pulling open her clothes and revealing her private parts. Because, if people can't protect their private parts, bare their breasts and be seen by others, it will definitely hinder their perception and influence. Therefore, we all hope that lactating mothers can breastfeed their children, either at home or in a closed space to isolate the crowd.
If a breastfeeding mother takes off her clothes in public to feed her children, it is easy for people to feel that she has no shame or doesn't know how to think of others at all, so it is easy to feel angry. However, mothers who have given birth to children know that breastfeeding in public is necessary, otherwise who will risk being pointed at?
Children's demand for milk breaks out anytime and anywhere, and it is easy to be caught off guard.
As we all know, lactating children are at the most unreasonable stage in their lives. Their demand for milk is not limited by time or place. They cry when they are hungry, make trouble when they can't eat, and never depend on the will of adults. Although, when Ma Bao takes the baby out, he usually makes as thorough preparations as possible, such as feeding the child before going out or squeezing the milk into a bottle at home. However, in case of emergency, the child forgot to bring a bottle; Can't find the maternal and infant room. Ma Bao is still the best "mobile canteen" for children, providing them with enough food.
② There is a general lack of maternity rooms in public places in China.
Ma Bao feeds her children milk and wants to find a closed space. She doesn't want to be peeked at or looked down upon. However, at present, there is a widespread problem of insufficient maternity rooms in public places in China. According to the data in the "White Paper on Maternal and Infant Rooms in China City" released on 20 19, even in first-tier cities, there are an average of 2,207 lactating mothers waiting in line in a maternal and infant room. It is said that even Ma Yili, a big star, once shared it on Weibo, and she couldn't find a mother-baby room when she went out. With the general shortage of maternity rooms, it is also helpless for Ma Bao to breastfeed her children in public.
3 don't want to wronged children.
Ma Bao himself knows that breastfeeding in public will not be understood, and even be "discriminated". However, when Ma Bao couldn't find a suitable place to nurse her children, she didn't want to wronged her children. She can only temporarily put down her self-esteem and breast-feed her children in public.
It is indeed an "inappropriate" thing for a lactating mother to breastfeed her child in public, but it is forced by reality and very bitter and helpless. If you can't understand, please don't hurt. Of course, because breastfeeding in public is still regarded as "indecent" by some people, for the purpose of protecting themselves, breastfeeding mothers should also do the following:
Prepare a nursing towel or shirt when you go out, so that you can cover your privacy. Based on realistic conditions, breastfeeding mothers lack available delivery rooms. It is recommended to prepare something to cover your body when you go out. If the child wants to drink milk halfway, not only can he cover his private parts, but he can also observe the situation of the child drinking milk.
(2) If you need to breast-feed your child in public without preparation, you can ask for help. If Ma Bao takes her children out without any preparation, she can ask people around her for help and borrow clothes to cover her privacy, so as not to cause discomfort to others. And this is also to remind people around them to open their clothes to feed their children, so that they can avoid the embarrassment of accidentally hitting them and avoid them in advance.
3 Before taking your child out, find a space where you can nurse your child. When a wet nurse takes her child out, it is inevitable that she will suddenly want to breastfeed, so she must be prepared for it. For example, before going out, Ma Bao knows about the surrounding environment where she wants to go and where there is a place suitable for breastfeeding. The purpose of this is that if children want to breastfeed, Ma Bao does not have to find suitable places to breastfeed one by one, so as to avoid starving children or having to breastfeed in public places.
Topic discussion: Have you ever seen Ma Bao breast-feeding in public?