"It is not difficult to be strict with villains, but it is difficult to be evil; It is not difficult to treat people with courtesy, but it is difficult to treat people with courtesy. " -"Caigen Tan"

In daily teaching, it is inevitable that students make mistakes. Tolerance of students means tolerance of oneself. If students' mistakes are a necessary process on the road to growth, then tolerance is the most meaningful judgment.

Adolescents who enter adolescence have a remarkable development of self-awareness and like to express themselves in some way to attract the attention of others. Students with good learning foundation like to express their opinions in class in order to gain a successful experience. Students with poor learning foundation can't excel in their studies. In order to express yourself, you can make some humorous actions and make exaggerated sounds in class. After class, smoking, chasing, fighting, it is possible to do something unconventional. This is a subconscious mistake.

If you criticize blindly and repeatedly, you can no longer attract students' attention, then well-meaning preaching will have no effect. Raise the soup to stop boiling, and get paid from the bottom. The key to the problem is to help students find a stage to show themselves and turn their advantages into self-confidence. Dignity comes from self-confidence, self-confidence comes from strength and strength comes from hard work. Help students plan their life, find their nearest development area, and let students with poor foundation study and live with dignity in the class. Tolerance is not only a moral sentiment, but also a kind of love.

There is also a kind of mistake made by students unconsciously, not subjectively and intentionally. To tolerate such mistakes, the purpose is to find the value of mistakes.

For the routine of the school, there are often points deducted in the feedback column. If there is garbage in the sanitary area, one point will be deducted. Find the classmate on duty and ask: how to deduct points? We did it. At this time, students have not realized the root of their mistakes, which is a terrible thinking habit. In fact, it's no big deal to deduct a point, and there's no need to be angry with students, so I often analyze it with students like this: sweeping doesn't mean sweeping well, but sweeping seriously is the correct attitude to work; In the same way, I have studied every course, but my grades vary greatly. Learning doesn't mean studying hard. Remind students to pay attention and form the habit of doing things seriously, so there is no white button on this point.

Another kind of mistake is subjective and intentional, and it is also the easiest to make people angry. For example, boys like to fight in the private corner of campus. Once the hand is heavy, the class teacher will inform the parents, and the student affairs office will take the lead in mediation. A lot of treatment is only verbal persuasion, and at most two people will not fight again in the future, but there is no guarantee that he will find Zhang Si in the future. If you don't give him a good face at this time, it is easy for students to continue to rebel at this sensitive moment.

To find out the root of students' mistakes, should they be brave, revenge or entrusted by others? The right medicine, infiltration education, let students wake up completely in their hearts.

Students play poker in the dormitory at night, knowing it. To analyze the root of the mistake, find the answer from his father: Does his father have this hobby? Then it is necessary to gently remind parents that they have influenced their children. Teaching by example speaks louder than words, so we must exercise restraint in the future. If there is such an atmosphere in the village, parents should supervise their children more on holidays and help them choose healthy entertainment methods. Blindly criticizing is not an end, and it will not be effective.

The ancients said: once you fall, you gain wisdom. It can be seen that mistakes are often meaningful. The progress of history is at the expense of a period of pain. If a student makes a mistake, it is necessary to dig out the educational point behind the mistake and give guidance. Such tolerance is meaningful regardless of the size, which will subtly promote the progress of students' thoughts and promote the formation of good behavior habits. Therefore, for students, tolerance is teachers' humanistic concern for their own growth.

For teachers, tolerating students is a noble spiritual realm for teachers.

Put down your anger and put yourself in the students' shoes to think about their motives for making mistakes. On the premise of understanding students, understand their psychological experience and help them analyze their own misunderstandings and get out of them. Isn't such tolerance and respect for students a responsible care for students' lives?

At the same time, we cannot ignore another kind of "soft violence". Some enterprising colleagues are very strict with their students, hoping that every student can be admitted to high school. He refused to forgive his students' mistakes, and even if they corrected them sincerely, they would never satisfy him.

"The evil of attacking people is not too strict, so it should be considered; Teach people not to be too good, but to make it available. " You can't tolerate yourself if you don't understand the students' foundation, position yourself according to the learning situation, be blind and enthusiastic, seek perfection and blame, and can't tolerate students. Everyone will have their own development space. Isn't it the purpose of education to help students find their own stage and build self-confidence?

When I graduated, I remembered that "children who love themselves are human beings, and children who love others are gods". In fact, there is no God. No child is the best. Trust him and give him confidence. Many students are ordinary in front of us, and we can hardly find more advantages and personalities. But in the eyes of parents, children are always the best. If we always believe that our students have the best side, then we will not turn a blind eye to his shortcomings and mistakes.

Tolerance is not connivance, helplessness or giving up. Tolerance is the high realm of love, tolerance is the true commitment of love, and tolerance is the great wisdom of love. Take off colored glasses, treat every student comprehensively and help students develop in an all-round way; Strict and moderate, magnanimous and bounded, this is respect for students, but also for the profession. Because we can tolerate others, we will be tolerated by others and loved by life.