Advice is like Chinese medicine, bitter but effective; Advice is like a sugar-free black coffee, bitter but refreshing; Advice is like a rose, with thorns but fragrance.

A friend's advice is bitter before sweet, but only if the friend is a true friend.

Sincere advice is like a sword, cutting off all obstacles for you. Someone once said, "There is only one life, and your experience is limited, but books and advice can make you experience other people's lives, thus enriching your experience."

It is human nature to make mistakes. Whenever you make a mistake, you are going through this process and accumulating experience for you. This process must be painful. So how can we accumulate experience without negative effects? That's taking advice.

So how to distinguish and accept the right advice becomes a problem.

A Japanese author is also an entrepreneur. He wrote a book called Living Law, which is about how to survive better in the contemporary workplace. There is a section on how to distinguish advice. One of the criteria is that if you listen to the advice given by others and your heart agrees with it, then the advice he gave you is correct. Although your mind agrees with it, you are unwilling to accept it, which is the same as the bitter taste of good medicine.

The next step is how to accept it, which is also explained in the book. When you hear a suggestion, experiment from the front and back in the way of scene reproduction, and then you will really accept it.

If you refuse to accept a suggestion, it is also a suggestion when you make mistakes in your later life because of it. This kind of advice is different from others, because it is your own advice, so it is more profound and lasting than other advice.

Having said how to accept advice, the next step is how to give it.

Making suggestions is also an art, how to make suggestions without affecting feelings? First of all, we should understand the principles and bottom lines of others and give suggestions without touching the bottom lines of others. Secondly, we should not give advice too often. If it is too frequent, people will feel verbose and won't listen to what you say. Finally, it is fundamental to learn to communicate, understand the special situation of others and prescribe the right medicine.

With the above three principles on how to give advice and communication guidance, he will certainly accept your advice and solve the problem smoothly.

Advice is like a sail, it is your endless power to sail; Advice is like a pillar, holding up a world of your own for you; Advice is like backing, for you to resist the sword and gun in the rear.