The easiest thing in the world to destroy a person's ambition is the boss's criticism. I never criticize anyone. I only give encouragement. I long for praise, not blame. -Chabou
Sometimes, timely and powerful encouragement is the best help for you. Thomas
Scientific research can dispel superstition because it encourages people to think and observe things according to causality. -Einstein
The most important educational method always encourages students to practice. -Einstein
Only by being generous to others and praising their beauty can we win friends. -Evelyn Ender Hilf.
There is no reward in the world to encourage hard work. All rewards are only used to reward work results.
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Master's words
An encouraging word inspired the courage to persevere.
Padlevski, a famous pianist and composer, plans to perform in a big concert hall in the United States. It was an unforgettable night-the concert hall was full of black evening dresses, formal evening dresses and upper-class dresses. There was a mother with an excited 9-year-old child in the audience that night.
When she turned to talk to her friend, he was attracted by the grand piano on the stage and the ebony stool in front of him, and slipped away from his mother with dazzling lights. He put his trembling little finger on the black and white keys and began to play a piece called Chopsticks.
The audience's conversation suddenly stopped, and hundreds of unhappy eyes watched together. The angry and embarrassed audience began to shout that the children should be thrown out.
In the background, piano master heard the sound in front of the stage. He quickly grabbed his coat, ran to the stage, stood behind the boy without saying a word, stretched out his hands, and improvised some harmonious notes to match chopsticks. When they were playing at the same time, the master whispered in the boy's ear, "keep playing, don't stop." Keep playing ... don't stop ... don't stop. "
So do we. Our efforts have the same effect as children playing with chopsticks in the auditorium. Just as we were about to give up, suddenly the master appeared, bent down and whispered to us, "Now keep playing, don't stop." Go on ... don't stop; Don't stop, he improvised for us and played the right melody at the right time.
A Beautiful Mind
Encouragement requires selfless dedication and perseverance.
The film A Beautiful Mind won the 74th Academy Award, which was almost the highest award in the world in 2002, and the film's protagonist Nash prototype also became a popular public figure. Johnf nash was born in 1928, and began to show his talent in mathematics at the age of 14. 1950 On July 3rd, my birthday, I received my doctorate from Princeton Institute for Advanced Studies. An important discovery in his 27-page doctoral thesis is the game theory that was later called "Nash equilibrium". Just in his early twenties, he was already a master of game theory and a world-famous scientist in the late 1950s. However, at the height of his career, Nash, 30, suffered from severe schizophrenia and could not conduct normal research for 30 years.
His wife Alicia graduated from the Physics Department of Massachusetts Institute of Technology. She is a noble and strong woman who has always given him meticulous care, tolerance and encouragement. She showed an iron will: she survived the confinement and isolation of her husband and the shock and sadness of her son suffering from schizophrenia ... After a long half century, her patience and perseverance finally produced a miracle: Professor Nash, like her son, gradually recovered and resumed his research work, and won the Nobel Prize in Economics in 1994.
I want to jump on the moon.
(Encourage every dream)
A mother is washing dishes in the kitchen. She heard the children skipping in the backyard and shouted to him, "What are you doing?" The child replied, "I want to jump to the moon!" " "Guess what mom said? Instead of throwing cold water on the child and calling him "Don't talk nonsense" or "Come in and wash", she said, "Well, don't forget to come back! The child later became the first man to land on the moon. He is Armstrong.
Su Buqing and Gu Chaohao
(Encourage students to surpass themselves)
Sue, a master of mathematics, has a noble character. He sincerely encourages students to surpass themselves. He often says to his students, "Only when each generation is better than the next can science develop and career have hope. You should surpass me and move towards higher goals. "
He not only advocates this point verbally, but also helps students surpass themselves in practical actions. Observing from many aspects, he found that Gu Chaohao, a student, had a keen mind and spare capacity for learning, so he put forward higher requirements for him according to the principle of step by step, and supported him to listen to Mr. Chen's class while listening to his own class. He took part in the discussion class of differential geometry and function at the same time, so that he could learn both the knowledge of the two gentlemen and their strengths. At the beginning of liberation, the superior planned to transfer Gu Chaohao to a certain unit for administrative leadership. Sue thinks this is not suitable for employing people, saying that Gu Chaohao has a talent for mathematics, so he should be given full play to his expertise in mathematics. Later, he thought that Gu Chaohao had basically mastered his knowledge and recommended him to study at Moscow University.
After returning to China, Gu Chaohao made a series of advanced research results in differential equations. He cooperated with Yang Zhenning, a famous physicist, and made a series of achievements in the study of mathematical structure of gauge field, which was highly praised by the scientific community.
Kōnosuke Matsushita's decision-making view
(Encourage employees)
Kōnosuke Matsushita, president of Panasonic, is famous for his abusive leadership style, but he is also known for being the best at cultivating talents.
Once, Kōnosuke Matsushita said to a department manager of his company, "I have to make many decisions every day, and I have to approve many decisions of others. In fact, the decision I really agree with is only 40%, and the remaining 60% is reserved by me, or I think it is ok. " The manager was very surprised. If Panasonic disagrees with something, he can directly veto it.
"You can't say no to anything. For those plans that you think are passable, you can guide them in the process of implementation and make them return to the track you expect. I think a leader should sometimes accept what he doesn't like, because no one likes to be denied. " As a leader, you must know how to enhance people's confidence. You can't always dampen the enthusiasm of subordinates. Try to avoid using the words "you can't, you can't, you don't know, maybe", but always say "you can, you will, you must, you will, you know" to your subordinates.
Self-confidence is extremely important to people's success. A leader who knows how to enhance the confidence of his subordinates is not only encouraging your subordinates, but also helping you to succeed. Management is not dictatorship. In business management, it is very important to respect human rights, attach importance to individuals, ask questions in a friendly way, and care about listening.
Pavlov educates students.
Don't forget to encourage when criticizing.
One day, a sad student came to Pavlov, a famous physiologist, and reported that an important animal experiment had failed. Pavlov said, "From your magic when you succeeded in your last experiment, I knew you would fail this time!" The professor severely criticized the depressed student and earnestly encouraged him: "You are still young, don't let pride possess you." The professor also said: "When my first scientific paper was published, I was not so happy as a little heavy, because I thought it was not easy to make even a little progress on the rugged scientific road."
The power of respect
(encouraging people who make mistakes)
On one occasion, Bob Hoover, a famous fighter test pilot of the US Air Force, flew back to Los Angeles after completing an air show mission. On the way, the plane suddenly broke down seriously, and both engines failed at the same time. He was fearless in the face of danger and took decisive and calm measures to miraculously land the plane at the airport. When he and the security personnel checked the plane, they found that the accident was caused by the wrong oil. He flies a propeller plane, but he uses aircraft oil.
The mechanic in charge of refueling cried at the sight of Hoover. Because his momentary negligence may cause a plane crash and three people died. Hoover didn't blow his top. Instead, he gently hugged the guilty mechanic and sincerely said to him, "In order to prove that you have done a good job, I want you to help me with the maintenance of the plane tomorrow." The mechanic has been with Hoover ever since, taking charge of his plane maintenance. Since then, Hoover's aircraft maintenance has never gone wrong.
This is Hoover's genius. There is no need to blame others for the big mistake, I have already blamed myself. If we respect each other and understand their feelings at this time, it is a kind of love and encouragement for each other.
All this will pass.
Both failure and success need encouragement.
From 65438 to 0954, men, women and children in Brazil agreed that the Brazilian football team would win the World Cup. However, accidents happen from time to time, and the charm of football lies in its unpredictability. In the semi-final, Brazil unexpectedly lost to France and failed to bring the gold cup back to Brazil. Players know better than anyone that football is the soul of China in Brazil. They are remorseful and ashamed to meet their hometown elders. They know that it is inevitable for fans to abuse, ridicule and throw soda bottles.
When the plane entered Brazil's airspace, the players were even more uneasy, and they were on pins and needles. However, when the plane landed at the capital airport, they were greeted by another scene: the Brazilian president and more than 20 thousand fans stood silently at the airport, and two banners in the crowd were particularly eye-catching: "If you fail, hold your head high!" "This will pass!" The players were in tears. Neither the president nor the fans spoke, silently watching the players leave the airport.
Four years later, the Brazilian football team lived up to expectations and won the World Cup. When returning home, the Brazilian football team's special plane entered the country, and 16 jet fighters immediately escorted it. As many as 30,000 people gathered at the airport to welcome the plane when it landed at Dogor airport. On both sides of the road from the airport to the Capital Square, more than 6.5438+0 million people gathered automatically. What a spectacular and exciting scene it is!
There are also two banners in the crowd that are particularly eye-catching: "If you win, you must move forward!" "This will pass!"
Beethoven's kiss
(convey encouragement)
1985 In September, the Hungarian pianist Andorra Foldes gave a class to a group of young pianists in Saarbrü cken, Federal Republic of Germany. He found that if he patted a student on the back, that student would behave better. He praised his outstanding performance in front of the whole class. To his great surprise, he immediately surpassed his original level.
Andor did this because of his own experience. /kloc-When I was 0/6 years old, I fell into some kind of crisis because I disagreed with my music teacher. Later, the famous pianist Emile von Salle, the last living disciple of Liszt, came to Budapest and asked Amdo to play for him. Liszt listened attentively to him playing Bach's Tokata in C major and asked for more tunes. Amdo is devoted to playing Beethoven's Sonata Pathetique and Schumann's Ba Bilong. Finally, von Salle stood up and kissed his forehead. "My child," he said, "I became a student of Liszt when I was your age. After my first class, he kissed me on the forehead and said,' cherish this kiss-it comes from Beethoven. He gave it to me after listening to my performance. I waited for many years for this sacred legacy to be handed down, and now I think you deserve it. "
Nothing can compare with Feng in Amdo's life. Sal's praise. Beethoven's kiss magically saved him from the crisis and helped him become a pianist today. It will soon be his turn to pass on the inheritance to the person who should inherit it most.