Forgiveness is fierce, fierceness is broad, and politics is harmonious. The will is as strong as iron and the measure is as big as the sea. Only by respecting others can people be respected. People who can't tolerate others don't deserve to be tolerated by others. -(Russia) Turgenev A great man has two hearts: one is bleeding and the other is tolerant. -(Lebanese) Ji Bolun loves the people, and the people will always love them; People who respect others will always respect others. -Mencius Long Fang, a famous writer in Li Lou, quoted the definition of tolerance in the Encyclopedia Britannica in his masterpiece Tolerance: Tolerance refers to allowing others to act or judge freely; Patiently and without prejudice tolerate opinions that are inconsistent with one's own or accepted views. China Modern Chinese Dictionary explains tolerance as: magnanimous, unconcerned and not pursued. 1. Forgiving others is actually forgiving yourself. Be more tolerant of others, in fact, our life will have a little more space. On the road of life with friends, there will be care and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; Life with friends will be less stormy and more warm and sunny. In fact, tolerance is always sunny. 2. Tolerance means forgetting. Everyone has pain and scars. If you open them at will, you will create new ones. Old scars and new wounds are difficult to heal. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget other people's previous accusations and abuse, time is a good painkiller. Learn to forget and life will be sunny and happy. 3. tolerance means not caring, even if things have passed. Everyone makes mistakes. If you cling to their past mistakes, you will form an ideological burden, distrust, resentment and reluctance, which will limit your own thinking and the development of the other party. Even betrayal is not intolerable. The person who can bear betrayal is the strongest person, and will take the initiative in the atmosphere with his strong mind. With majesty, he can give people confidence and motivation, so he can prevent or reduce betrayal. 4. Tolerance is chic. "There are poplars everywhere, and every family has Chang 'an Road. "Being generous to others and tolerant of criticism is the way to success in your career and happiness in your family. Everything is haggle over every ounce, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and live a tired life. It is rare to go there once in the world, and chic is the most important thing. Tolerance is a kind of strength, not weakness. Tolerance should retreat to advance and actively defend. The concession embodied in tolerance is purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in your own hands. Helplessness and necessity are not tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all beings. 6. Tolerance means that when others disagree with your point of view, don't force it. From a psychological point of view, any idea has its origin. Any motive has certain incentives. Only by knowing the root of the other party's thoughts and finding the basis of their own opinions can we put ourselves in the other party's shoes and put forward a plan that is more in line with the other party's psychology and accepted. Eliminating obstacles and confrontation is the only way to improve efficiency. Everyone has their own views and experiences on life. We should respect their knowledge and experience, actively absorb the essence between them, and do a good job of sublation. 7. Tolerance is patience. Criticism from peers, misunderstanding from friends, too many arguments and "counter-attacks" are really not enough. Calm, patience and understanding are the most important. Believe this famous saying: "Tolerance is a grain growing in thorns. "If you can take a step back, the world will naturally be broad. 8. Tolerance also requires skill. Giving opportunities is not connivance, nor is it exempting the other party from responsibilities. Everyone needs to be responsible for their actions; Everyone has to bear the consequences. Otherwise, the other party will repeatedly violate the prohibition (mistake) and show weakness. 9. motto about tolerance: violet will leave its fragrance on its ankle. This is forgiveness. " -Mark Twain's way of being a gentleman is loyalty and forgiveness. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to me, and I want to do it without others. ("The Analects of Confucius") Taishan does not allow soil, so it can become big; Rivers and seas do not choose small streams, so they can become deep. (Reese) "Tolerance moistens the earth like a drizzle in the sky. It blesses the tolerant and the tolerated. -A line from Shakespeare's famous play The Merchant of Venice ● Tolerance is the only test of civilization (asking for help) ● The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate (william james) ● The spirit of generosity is the greatest of all things (Owen) ● There are many such occasions in life: what you intend to achieve with resentment and what you can achieve through forgiveness. It can be achieved completely through forgiveness (Sidney Smith) ● Forgive sincerely, and then forget (Britain) ● Forgiveness is human nature, and forgetting is divine (James Glenn) ● Tolerant people have the least patience, and tolerant people are the least tolerant (bernays) ● The noblest revenge is tolerance (Hugo) ● People who live without tolerance. But who can say that there is no need for tolerance? (Turgenev) ● God of justice, tolerance is our most perfect behavior (Wordsworth) ● Only brave people know tolerance; Cowards will never be tolerant, which is not his nature (Stern) ● Tolerance is either beneficial or harmful to people (Burke) ● Those who hurt other people's teeth but oppose revenge and advocate tolerance should never approach him-(Lu Xun) ● They want to be warm and smooth, but they don't want to be thorough. ● Let a hundred flowers blossom and a hundred schools of thought contend ● Strictness is love. It is harmful to spoil you ● Love you deeply, and blame you strictly (France) ● The family is not strict in recruiting thieves, people are not strict in taking risks ● Teaching is not strict, and teachers are not strict with you ● If you want to become a square, the rules must be strict ● Gentlemen love virtue, villains love tolerance ● Responsibility should be wide ● Responsibility should be strict ● Be strict with yourself, be lenient with others ● Be lenient with others, and be reasonable with feelings. Responsibility should be thick, but responsibility should be thin ● Responsibility should be with others, and forgiveness should be with others ● Forgive others as much as possible, but unforgiven himself (Silas) ● Let go when it is time to let go, and forgive others ● People who are not as good as themselves should not get sick (Xue Mingxuan) ● People should tolerate each other: everyone has weaknesses, in his weakest aspect, every one. We must allow everyone to maintain their own personality (Schopenhauer) ● Combine leniency with severity, and be strong and powerful [Zuo Zhuan] ● Combine leniency with severity, and both kindness and prestige ● Only by combining leniency with severity can things be achieved ● The way to govern the country is to care about the success of generosity (Song Zhuxi). A great man has two hearts: one is a bleeding heart, and the other is a tolerant heart. Ji Bolun (Lebanese) Inscription There are many beautiful things in the world, either dazzling jewels, colorful costumes and picturesque scenery, or a respected heart-a tolerant heart. Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing for his feat of "returning to Zhao safely", ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po defy spirit, threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian. When I tolerate and give in to General Lian, I will put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! " Hearing this, Lian Po had the story of Lian Po's "offer a humble apology". I admire Lin Xiangru's mind. He defended his country with tolerance instead of haggling with Lian Po. His tolerance made Lian Po ashamed, offered a humble apology, and their relationship was maintained. On the contrary, won't the country suffer because of his personal grievances? Therefore, tolerance is the most beautiful thing in getting along with others. During the reign of Emperor Kangxi in Qing Dynasty, Zhang, a native of Tongcheng, went to Wenhua Hall as a university student and a minister of rites. The neighbor is another big family in Tongcheng, and the owner is Ye Shilang of the same dynasty. The two families had an argument over the courtyard wall. Mrs Zhang wrote a book for Zhang Ying. Zhang Ying was very worried when she saw the letter. She replied to the old lady, "A letter thousands of miles away is just a wall. What's the harm if it makes people three feet?" "The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, and Qin Shihuang is not seen." So Mrs. Zhang ordered the family to step back three feet and build a wall. Ye Fu was so moved that he ordered his family to move the courtyard wall back three feet. Since then, Zhang and Ye's two governments have eliminated barriers and become family friends. It can be seen that as long as both sides can be generous, it is often the most effective and pleasant way to deal with contradictions, rather than making everyone unhappy because of some small things. Therefore, the most beautiful thing to get along with people is tolerance. The so-called tolerance means not caring about what has happened, and forgiving others means making yourself relaxed and happy. Tolerance also means tolerance for yourself. The starting point of our tolerance is to forgive others' mistakes because we are happy, so tolerance is an essential thing for people to get along with each other. In this world, if you want to get along well with others, you must first learn how to tolerate others. Tolerance is the best quality in the world. I named this composition: the most beautiful thing.