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The two most difficult words in life are "fame" and "profit".
According to legend, Emperor Qianlong went down to the south of the Yangtze River and passed by Zhenjiang. He visited Jinshan and asked an old monk, "Monk! Look at the big river ahead, patches of sails, boundless blue sky and vast smoke waves. Do you know how many boats are often on this river? 」
Determined to become a god, the old monk calmly replied, "Your Majesty, as far as I can see, there are only two sails. 」
Emperor Qianlong asked, "Which two sails are they? 」
The old monk said, "It's just fame and fortune. 」
Emperor Qianlong patted the old monk on the shoulder and said with a smile, "What a profitable name! 」
Generally speaking, "fame and fortune" seems to be a great comfort to life. With fame and fortune, life seems to be confessed. The problem is that "fame and fortune" is an endless black hole. When you get a little fame and fortune, you will want more fame and fortune. If you fall into this trap, you will easily be surrounded by fame and fortune, and you will always struggle for fame and fortune in the world of mortals.
As the saying goes, "contentment is not shameful, and Zhi Zhi is not lazy" does not mean that if you work hard, you will definitely get fame and fortune. There are many things in life that we can work hard to accomplish. As for fame and fortune, we can't force it.
Don't let prejudice affect your vision.
Prejudice will prevent you from moving towards lofty ideals and correct goals.
You must stick to your beliefs, but you should give up your prejudice forever.
Because prejudice limits our ability to respond to "effective change", prejudice will limit our vision and let us only pay attention to the existing facts; Prejudice will stiffen our creativity, make us turn a blind eye to real problems and limit the inflow of information.
Biased people choose the facts they think they have, instead of opening their hearts to other people's ideas. It is not easy to let go of prejudice, especially the older people, the harder it is. How to eliminate prejudice? It's simple. Open your heart to other ideas and opinions.
With the growth of years, people will unconsciously put on some extra coats, such as appearance, face, money and status! Some people think that after 30, you should look like a 30-year-old and be a supervisor. The more ideas you lack creativity, the more difficult it will be for you to move, especially those with more professional knowledge, the more difficult it will be for you to break away from the fixed pattern and exert your free creativity. For anything new, it is easy to produce fixed prejudice and prejudice.
In fact, we have been trapped in hundreds of restrictions since childhood, always accepting or obeying other people's teachings and lifestyles, and have many excuses and reasons for many things, such as: I am not qualified enough, I am not educated enough, I am too young, I am too old, I am not talented enough, I am not capitalized enough, and so on. If you have these situations, it shows that your thinking mode is full of biased thoughts.
People who are biased will lose the ability of curiosity and doubt first, and people who are biased will pay less and less attention to any abnormal phenomenon and will not ask why. Although everyone sometimes doesn't listen to other people's opinions, if you have fallen into a closed thinking and self-righteous mode, then you may have entered a dangerous state, that is, your mind is too rigid.
If you want to be a leader or a successful person, first test whether your prejudice index is too high. To solve problems or have leadership ability, it must come from constant challenges and learning. If you can jump out of the past, dare to take risks and untie your prejudice, then you will succeed.
Many capable people are defeated by prejudice. Letting go of prejudice may make you see the core of the problem and stop looking at the world in a way you are already familiar with.
To be a leader with a broad vision, rather than a dictator, you must give up your prejudice so that there will be no blind spots in your vision.
In the Buddhist concept, nothing in the world is irrelevant.
As the saying goes, "People who contribute are more vain; It is many stubborn people who are angry and lose opportunities. It means that people who have achieved something are generally accommodating and tolerant; Those who fail in their careers and miss opportunities are bound to be stubborn and intolerant.
An "imaginary circle" is not limited to existing values and fixed concepts, but has the ability to accept anything, so that it can respond flexibly no matter how the situation changes.
However, opinionated people just can't do this. If thoughts and actions are rigid, it is impossible to tide over the difficulties safely.
Occasionally put down the existing thinking mode and look in another direction, maybe you will see different scenery.
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Fame and fortune is a field, fame and fortune is a network, and how much competition there is, how much confusion there is; Fame and fortune are smooth sailing, fame and fortune is a charm, how many struggles, how many setbacks. An ancient philosophy, an ever-changing proposition, there is no superman who is not for fame and fortune, only a wise man who treats fame and fortune well. What kind of world would it be if everyone was celibate? If everyone is greedy, what kind of scene is it?
The cold wind blows hard on the execution ground, leaves fall in succession, and the wind rolls yellow sand and leaves, making a ghostly cry, as if telling the end of Li Weiming's life. With the approach of death, Li Weiming's mood calmed down a lot. He seems to have a thorough understanding of life. It was not until the moment of the gunshot that he shouted from his heart: "This is all caused by fame and fortune!"
Li Weiming is just an ordinary employee in a factory. He worked hard and performed well, which was highly valued by the factory leaders. He was rated as "model of outstanding young workers" by the factory and was promoted to section chief in less than two years. In the next few years, due to his outstanding achievements, he quickly rose to the position of deputy director, which is likely to match the throne of the director.
In fact, everyone in the circle knows that he has been promoted so quickly, but it is difficult to catch him, so let him have a free time. People who don't know have heard about it. They keep silent, for fear that others will say that they are jealous and hinder the unity of the employees in the factory. They are waiting for an opportunity to find out this big moth in the factory at any time.
Finally, Li Weiming found a quick trick. Taking advantage of his position, he has a wide business scope, set up an underground drug factory in the factory, and started a vicious drug trade with Xiao Huang. However, the paper can't wrap the fire, and the matter is finally exposed. In an accident, "carelessness" was discovered. ...
The north wind is still cold, but will Li Weiming's tragedy be staged?
Respect life
After people fully understand the mystery of life, it has become the dream of many people to assemble and modify life at will. This