On New Year's Day holiday, our family of three went to visit grandma. Just after lunch, my mother quarreled with my grandmother.
It's actually quite simple. My mother wants to buy a cotton-padded jacket for my grandmother in her spare time, but my grandmother refuses. Grandma said, don't spend money, the down jacket you bought last year hasn't been worn yet! Mom said that last year was last year, this year is this year, and every year is new! Grandma still refused. In the past, when I was young, a dress took several years. How to buy a suit after one year now? Grandma took it again and said something about childhood! My mother grabbed my grandmother's words and said with a little irritation, you always use the past. What's good about the past? I couldn't even eat in the past! Grandma said, I didn't say yes! Just because the past was not good, now it is good, and the days should be leisurely! Why do you think an old woman needs so many clothes? Even with your eyes closed, you can only walk in one suit! What a happy event, grandma finally dragged her to death, and mom had to stop eating!
Grandma has a rough life and always likes to compare the past. And my mother always likes to look back on the past. Mother and daughter have different views on life. If there are too many lovers, language collision will often occur.
I can see that my mother is unhappy because I didn't buy clothes. I know that my mother used to be filial, but my grandmother didn't receive this feeling.
The second thing I want to say for my mother. I said to my grandma carefully, grandma, mom and dad are going to book a table for New Year's Eve dinner at the hotel and invite you, grandpa, uncle and aunt to the hotel. Save a busy family, leave after dinner, and everyone can easily watch the Spring Festival Gala. Grandma turned to ask my mother, have you booked it? My mother said, not yet, I'm discussing with you! Grandma hissed, don't order, don't order! It seems that someone has imposed something on her. Before I could ask why, my grandmother began to talk. How did I go to the restaurant in the past? After the 24th of the twelfth lunar month, the hotel will stop breathing and close. What is a New Year picture? At the end of the year, the whole family will get together, eat, drink, laugh and celebrate the New Year. You want to save trouble and eat a beard. What's the smell these days? Don't say we won't go, and neither will your aunt and uncle. I said, you don't go either. Just like in the past, come to grandma's house at 30 nights and grandma will cook some special dishes for you. How exciting it is for a big family to get together!
Mother opened her mouth to distinguish a few words and mumbled something, but these words never came out. Grandma knew that mom had nailed twice today, and she couldn't face it. She said to her mother according to the situation, OK, OK, when I wash the dishes, I'll go to RT Mart to buy some new year's goods, and the price will rise again if I buy it late! Seeing that my mother didn't bite, my grandmother said, will you pay?
Actually, grandma didn't quarrel with my mother on purpose, because they have different views on life. There are still many things they argue about, but I wonder if you are interested in listening to me again?