I think: life needs opponents.
Some people think that our opponents are our competitors, and some even think that our opponents are our enemies. I don't agree with this view. On the one hand, our competitors are indeed our competitors, but think about it from another angle. Because we have competitors, we have competition, and there is pressure when there is competition. With pressure, there is motivation, and with motivation, we can give full play to our potential. Keep fighting and surpass yourself. According to Marx's theory, we should give full play to our subjective initiative. This is not a good thing. Therefore, when we treat our opponents, we should understand them rationally and regard them as the driving force to push ourselves forward.
There was a true story around me: my uncle was a private boss who opened breakfast. Because my uncle's breakfast shop is nearby, people come to the shop for breakfast in an endless stream. But not long ago, a breakfast shop opened next to it. My aunt began to worry. She was very worried about such competitors and thought that the income in the store would definitely be affected. As expected, the turnover decreased in the month. Uncle Wo is very calm in the face of such competitors. As the saying goes: there is pressure to have motivation. This just verified my uncle's actions. Uncle began to work hard on ingredients and practice making steamed buns. Later, the buns made by uncle were thin and thick, and they were sold out as soon as they came out of the oven. Now my uncle's business is booming, and the sad face on my aunt's face is gradually relaxing.
It turned out that uncle was not anxious because he had competitors, but chose to face up to competitors. Take the opponent's competition as a kind of motivation and constantly remind yourself to work hard. He told me, "It's not a bad thing to open a breakfast shop next to it." This will attract more people to have breakfast. As long as what you do can be recognized by everyone, will you still be afraid of your competitors? I want to thank him!
I was moved by my uncle's words, yes, the opponent is not terrible, what is terrible is that I have lost the motivation to fight. Face the competition. Uncle didn't choose hatred and hatred, but chose to constantly improve himself. Turning pressure into motivation and going forward bravely is worth learning from all of us.
Similarly, our country needs rivals. With opponents, people can be prepared for danger in times of peace. Know that you will be beaten if you fall behind. Because of our opponents, we can make our country stronger and stronger.
During the Qing dynasty, the Qing government thought that the country was rich and the people were safe, and did not understand the opponents our country faced, so it chose to close its doors. Without pressure and motivation, our country is stagnant. In the end, our opponents opened our doors with the gunpowder we invented in China. A humiliating history was thus born.
It can be seen that the country also needs opponents. With an opponent, you can fully realize your own shortcomings and constantly urge yourself to learn those advanced cultures. Only when you have an opponent can you be prepared for danger in times of peace. Our country has today's glory.
Through the opponent, let me see that as long as you work hard, the iron pestle is ground into a needle; Through my opponent, I saw the mountains and rivers that I can't doubt, and the open-mindedness of another village; Through my opponent, I can leisurely see the refined taste of Nanshan under the hedge of picking chrysanthemums.
Friend, are you still worried about your competitors? Please face up to your opponent! Turn the pressure brought by the competition into the driving force to climb the peak constantly, and you will certainly have new gains.
We need opponents in our lives! Please treat your opponent correctly!