The antonym of love is not loneliness. In our hearts, love and loneliness are actually the same emotion. They go hand in hand and are inseparable. The more lonely we feel, the stronger our desire for love. Perhaps it can be said that a person's experience of loneliness is directly proportional to his experience of love, and the depth of loneliness roughly determines the capacity of his love. On the other hand, the same is true. Don't the unfathomable loneliness of those great souls in the history of human thought and art stem from the endless love that limited secular things can't satisfy? Loneliness and love are the roots of each other. Loneliness is nothing more than love seeking acceptance and not getting it. Love is nothing more than loneliness of finding and comforting others. There is no choice between love and loneliness. True love on earth can't eradicate the lonely experience, and in my opinion, we shouldn't make such demands on love, because once there is no lonely experience, love will lose its character and motivation. Between two people who don't appreciate the beauty of loneliness, love will be trivial and mediocre.

The antonym of love is not hate. A person who has no love in his heart doesn't care about anything, so he won't hate anything. The reason why love and hate are distinct is because of persistent love and distinct value orientation. In real life, it is more common for love to turn into hate, and this transformation is possible because they are different forms of the same passion. Love is caring, caring will care, caring will inevitably be picky, thus giving birth to endless grievances. Of course, generally speaking, the love atmosphere that is easy to fall into grudges is relatively few, and there are too many gains and losses mixed in it. Great love asks for nothing in return, ending the feud from generation to generation. However, when the great lover's ambition to save the world is frustrated, great love will also be manifested as a deep hatred like Lu Xun's saying, "Mourning his misfortune and angering him." In short, all human love is inseparable from hate.

So, what is the antonym of love? Which emotional state is the opposite of love, and which emotional state is the undoubted opposite of love? The answer can only be: indifference. Lonely people fall in love with annoying people, and indifferent people have no chance to love at all. If loneliness is the failure of love and hatred is the defeat of love, then indifference is the death of love. An indifferent person, not only does he have no love, we can even say that he has no heart and no soul. Because love is the core of the soul, the soul lives, feels and grows through love. Without love, there is no positive emotion, so the soul has existed in name only. No matter for individuals or for society, what is really terrible is indifference, which makes individuals lose the meaning of life and causes a moral crisis in society. In my opinion, one of the most shocking phenomena in today's society is people's indifference. Recently, I have repeatedly seen reports that car drivers executed their victims and then fled after the accident. The implementation methods include returning to the car to crush the injured, throwing the injured into the sewage ditch, and continuing to gallop with the injured who were involved under the car. , are outrageous. There is no doubt that these criminals have no hatred for their victims. They just want to escape their punishment and kill other people's lives. This kind of punishment only causes them short-term imprisonment or some property losses, which is not the same as the value of a life. This is of course an extreme example of indifference. However, the increase of this vicious incident has a social foundation, which exposes a fairly common tendency in society to value interests over feelings and forget righteousness. In a society that attaches too much importance to utility, indifference will spread like a virus, thus making caring people feel more lonely and even resentful. However, let us remember that we should not be indifferent because of loneliness and resentment. Protecting love and rejecting indifference are our responsibilities to our own souls and to society.