The last scene in Stephen Chow's movie Kung Fu is of great psychological significance: the girl selling lollipops suddenly returns to her childhood, while A Xing, played by Stephen Chow, starts to work in a candy store. When he saw the little girl, he went back to his childhood, and the two children walked hand in hand.
In fact, this is Stephen Chow's simple yearning for love, the initial pursuit. However, Stephen Chow's love has been hovering between the crisis and pressure of survival, personal ideals and ambitions, too pure love thoughts and irresponsible handling methods. These three forms a unique pattern of Stephen Chow's love.
First love: Athena Chu: Young age, love patients.
He gives women the double feelings of heaven and hell. No wonder Athena Chu didn't want to talk about this person after breaking up with him-because the happiness and pain he brought her were too extreme.
From Stephen Chow's point of view, Athena Chu has always had the most unforgettable position in his heart. Just as he called her "Xia Zixian Zi" in the play, he also dedicated the most beautiful love words to her in A Chinese Odyssey: "There was a sincere love before me, and I didn't cherish it. When I lost it, I regretted it There is no greater pain in the world than this. If god can give it to me again. If I have to add a deadline to this love, I hope it is 10,000 years. " This love story seems to indicate the ultimate emotional fate between Stephen Chow and Athena Chu.
Stephen Chow didn't cherish Athena Chu later. Stephen Chow in Cancer faces Athena Chu in Scorpio, who is like a hot potato. Scorpio's conceit, domineering and overbearing all put a lot of pressure on the inner insecure and gentle cancer. At the beginning, the lush love affair was sincere, but both sides lacked the necessary methods and skills and didn't know how to deal with the problem. Athena Chu also analyzed this relationship: "At first, I thought the problem was my own, but later I found out that his mind was immature. I mean his love. A couple should be in love, have real spiritual communication and be sincere, but I seriously lack this feeling. Now is the time to stop being emotional. "
? An Analysis of the Emotional Patterns of Stephen Chow and Athena Chu;
The immature love mind may be the biggest reason for their emotional frustration-both of them are children's program hosts and youth idol stars. When we first started dating, we all thought too much about our feelings, but when we met problems, we were too self-centered, uncompromising and always attached to each other. This is the biggest problem for two people who simply love each other-because of love, they have a lot of unrealistic expectations for each other, but they don't take into account the actual acceptance of each other.
Stephen Chow's parents are unhappy in marriage. He lived in a slum when he was a child, and his life was very difficult. But his parents often quarrel because of emotional disharmony. He didn't learn how to handle and deal with feelings peacefully from the family he came from. Stephen Chow's mother, Ling Baoer, is said to be a woman with great personality who loves singing and dancing.
People who like to perform generally have the characteristics of narcissism and self. They are more likely to see their feelings and hide them in their own feelings, and experience the joys and sorrows of their own world. It's hard to jump out of narcissism and take care of other people's true feelings. They will be naive and full of emotions, but they are also easy to get hurt. When they get bad hints from others, they are more susceptible to infection and emotional feelings.
As a son, Stephen Chow inherited his mother's acting personality, and his narcissism became more serious. He has an inner world of his own, and he makes it infinitely vast and beautiful, and it is difficult for others to really penetrate it-his inner world, as he described in Kung Fu, can sometimes turn somersault clouds into the sky, and in the upper reaches of the sky for a while, a Tathagata's palm will turn down, leaving a shocking blow on the ground, so that the world will always remember that Stephen Chow is an artist with profound creative talent.
But his quotient is really low when it comes to feelings. When both sides encounter problems, it is difficult for him to jump out of narcissism. He can't and can't think of her from the woman's point of view, and solve the contradiction smoothly-he can make the love story thrilling and unforgettable, but when he really faces the feelings, he may also feel that he is a "love patient" because his heart is too intense and profound.
The second love: Karen Mok, the stolen feelings are very fragile.
Men's empathy is often an escape, because it is difficult for them to sit down and discuss each other's problems with their ex-girlfriends, and it is also difficult to put down their faces and open their hearts.
The beginnings of Stephen Chow and Karen Mok intersect with those of Athena Chu. Finally, Karen Mok became the fuse of their breakup. Karen Mok is smart, transparent, sexy and perverse. Her talent in film creation undoubtedly benefits from the shaping of Stephen Chow's films-no wonder she is so infatuated with him. Stephen Chow knows the opposite, and he knows how to learn from others-his films don't play by common sense. The so-called nonsense is to deconstruct, break and reassemble all the so-called orthodox things for everyone to see. The Karen Mok he created is ugly in appearance, but extremely beautiful in heart. Karen Mok shines brilliantly in Stephen Chow's films.
Zhou Mo's love is mainly due to congenial personality, but there is no uneven tension contrast. At first, Karen Mok looked gentler than Athena Chu in character. If Athena Chu is a princess with thorns, then Xiao Mo is like a gentle and lovely girl next door-just like Stephen Chow's own metaphor, he thinks that Karen Mok is a glass of red wine that is 20 years old, mellow but not strong; On the other hand, Athena Chu is a kind of red wine with a vintage of 1900, which is rich in aroma but a little bitter. The implication is that maybe he can't stand the strong taste of the latter, just a little mellow.
At first, Stephen Chow was completely in control of Xiao Mo, and her films and music progressed smoothly with his help. At the same time, Karen Mok likes Stephen Chow very much and has places to worship. It stands to reason that this relationship should have some results.