Just as we can't accept what we hate, maybe others can't accept our goodness! Do whatever you want to others!
The Analects of Confucius said: Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. It means don't impose on others what you don't want to do. This sentence is short and classic, so it is cited as the motto by many people.
Yes, that's right, but I thought about it. Is it just because you don't want to be done by others? So what you want, can you do it on others?
Everyone has such a habit that they always like to introduce what they think is good to another person. I have a classmate who likes Jay Chou very much, so he put up posters of Jay Chou in his dormitory, and took pains to tell us about his experience, and finally found his classmates' antipathy to him. But he finally said very grievance: Don't you admire such a powerful person? It is true that Jay is famous, but not everyone in the world likes him. After all, there are people who like Andy Lau and Chris Lee. That classmate likes Jay Chou very much, yes. But if this love is imposed on others, it is his fault.
Do as you would be done by. I believe we can do it as long as we exercise restraint. But don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you, which is more difficult to do well. Because what you want means what you like, according to everyone's psychological characteristics, what you like must be good things. Since it's a good thing, what's wrong with sharing it with everyone? In fact, the mistake is here, because what we like may not be liked by everyone. Some people think that money is paramount, and they know that money is dirt and garbage. That's the reason. Sometimes I do such things unconsciously. For example, I have a crush on Wang Chuang, so I recommend my classmates to go to Wang Chuang. As a result, they all thought it was just a very ordinary website and were not interested at all. At first, I was confused. Why are they deaf to such a good website? But now I understand that everyone has different interests. Of course, literature lovers like websites that can publish articles like Wang Chuang's. On the contrary, he hates writing. How can he like it? It can be seen that a person's hobbies are different, his personality is different, and his world outlook is different. So there is neither absolute good nor absolute bad in this world. The key is our own view of it.
The world is all kinds. Some people love their country, some love beautiful women, some love wealth, and some love freedom. If you put Bill? Gates gave money to the cynical diogenes? Lartio, I'm sure he'll laugh. Just as we can't accept what we hate, maybe others can't accept our goodness! Do whatever you want to others!