Lele, 22, really doesn't understand her parents' brain circuits. She has seen the case of her parents "gnawing at small children" on the Internet, but she didn't expect her parents to join the "gnawing at small children" group.
"The child has been born, it's no use blaming us! Your mother and I only live on subsistence allowances. Now we can't afford to raise children. You are a sister, and you have the obligation to support. You can't refuse! "
A video titled "My 22-year-old sister refused to adopt her 2-year-old brother and was sued by her biological parents" was hotly searched.
Although this video is an online case, the authenticity has not been verified, but we assume that this case is true, that is to say, there is indeed a new type of "biting children" in life. These parents feel that it is natural for their children to take responsibility for them.
A new type of "gnawing at small" is quietly emerging, which is more hateful than the elderly, and parents should get used to it.
What is a new type of "gnawing small"? People in need, as we all know, are young people above 18 who voluntarily give up employment opportunities and stay at home to live on their parents.
They have the ability to make a living, but they have to drain their parents' hard-earned money, which is very hateful.
Chewing a small family refers to the "three noes" old people who have no pension, old-age insurance and no income. They can only live on their children.
We can understand this kind of old people, but the new "gnawing at small" is absolutely intolerable!
It means that parents have the ability to make a living, but they are not enterprising and unwilling to face the difficulties of life. They put all the pressure and future on their children, forcing them to support themselves.
Although this new "gnawing small" only accounts for a small part in society, it has shown a spreading trend!
The 3-year-old girl was fed 70 Jin for "eating seeds", and her parents explained that she was too pale.
A little girl was forced to do the news of "eating and broadcasting" on the Internet.
The little girl's name is Page. She is only 3 years old this year, but her weight is as high as 70 kg.
Do you know that?/You know what? Under normal circumstances, the average weight of a 3-year-old girl is 28 kg, and Peggy is nearly 3 times overweight!
Seeing this, parents may wonder what Peggy's parents do. A daughter who is seriously overweight will bring many risks to her health. Why not?
As we all know, Peggy's biological parents are the main culprits of being overweight!
It turned out that this parent saw the development prospect of short videos and used people's curiosity to force her daughter to "eat and broadcast". Fried chicken, coke, cakes and instant noodles were stuffed into Peggy's stomach. Can she not be fat?
After seeing Page's video, some fans left a message to remind their parents:
"Pay attention to the child's diet. Peggy is already so fat, and her health will be affected if she continues like this."
However, parents were very excited after seeing the success of Peggy's "eating and broadcasting" video. They not only ignored the advice of their fans, but also continued to update the "Eat Broadcast" video, excitedly announcing:
"Break through 100 kg immediately!"
Sometimes, Peggy can't eat any food, mumbling:
"Stop it, stop it."
Although the parents promised "no more", their hands were honest and they continued to fill Peggy's plate.
In the face of the reporter's interview, parents explained:
"My daughter loves to eat and doesn't like sports when she is born. She is in good health. Video shooting is purely for fun. I want to record my children's lovely growth fragments and show my independent eating side. The profit is several hundred. "
Frankly speaking, this explanation of parents is very pale. If they really cherish their daughter's health, they will not force their children to eat snacks such as fried chicken and cakes without restraint. Even children know that these snacks are bad for their health, let alone adults.
It can be seen that netizens' guesses are not unreasonable. The parents regard their daughter as a profitable "radio-eating" machine. As long as it can bring traffic and gimmicks, as long as it can make money, it doesn't matter if children suffer a little.
Tong Mo, a 4-year-old, showed her face, and her parents didn't hesitate to bite.
Nowadays, a new profession has emerged in the society, and that is Tong Mo.
Tong Mo is a child model. Many parents entered the younger version of "entertainment circle" with the dream of being a child star, and used their children as Tong Mo to make money.
Niu Niu, a 4-year-old girl, is one of the victims. Because she put down the basket during the filming, her mother gave her a good kick.
Why do children choose to be Tong Mo? There are only two reasons for parents, either because children like it and want to pursue their dream of being a model, or because they want to temper their character and become more confident.
However, the original intention is very beautiful and the reality is very exciting! When parents see that their children get more benefits in Tong Mo, their original intention will change.
Since children can help make money, do we still have to go to work? Can't you be Tong Mo with your children?
New Fortune magazine commented: "Tong Mo has a height limit. Some parents worry that their children will grow too fast to find a job, so they will control their children's diet to keep fit, which will lead to some children's stunting. "
Under normal circumstances, when the child is a child model, the mother or father will resign as a "broker". If the child develops well, both parents will resign. "One child can support the whole family."
Are these parents incompetent? No job? No, they just tasted the sweetness and were confused by money.
How terrible is the new "gnawing" of parents? "Where is Dad going?" Tell you
In the fourth season of Where is Dad Going, a girl caught the attention of netizens. She was born in an ordinary family, and her father didn't participate in the program with her. She came to the program group alone.
Her name is Heidi. Because her mother dressed her up as "Ala Lei", she also has the title of "Ala Lei".
"Alalei" debuted at the age of 4, first became famous on the Internet, and then participated in the reality show, which caused widespread concern.
Her parents regard "Ala Lei" as a "cash cow", constantly helping her receive advertisements, shoot MVs and participate in reality shows, with an annual salary of up to one million.
"Ala Lei" does not have an ordinary child's childhood. She lives a hard life. Later, her parents gave birth to a younger brother. She broke down and cried on the show:
"I want to raise my brother."
Do you think it is cruel that a child under the age of 10 is put under such great pressure by his parents?
Soul torture-Why do parents like to "chew on small things"? The reason is realistic and helpless.
1. They regard their children as private property.
Many parents will say, "We gave birth to the child. If you can't control it, he will have to listen to me!" " "
This type of parents is very selfish. They regard children as private property and as "tool people" to make a living. Not only do they not realize their sins, but they also take them for granted!
In fact, children are not private property, but a gift from God. Children should not be bound, controlled and demanded by their parents.
Children do have the obligation to support their parents, but certainly not when they are young. Do parents have children to support themselves? Then put the cart before the horse!
2. Parents are defeated by money and reality.
Of course, some parents may mean well. They train their children to be Tong Mo and really want to exercise their courage and self-confidence.
However, when children earn their first bucket of gold, some parents will be fascinated by money and feel that it is not bad to get rich by their children.
"Money can carry a boat, but money can overturn it."
Why is the new "gnawing at the small" more hateful than "gnawing at the old"?
"Stabbing the old" is hateful, but the new "gnawing at the small" is even more spurned! After all, underage children are tools to make money. They not only lost their childhood, but also lost their parents!
In the process of this abnormal growth, their personalities will be distorted, become precocious, mercenary and inflated.
Therefore, the opinions of netizens are not unreasonable. The new type of "gnawing at the small" is more hateful than "gnawing at the old man"!