Hui. Those who oppose humility say that "humility is out of date". The jungle needs competition. "However, there is no denying that things like humility seem hard to happen around you and me. Whether by car or shopping,
Things, queuing, buying tickets, or getting along with others, giving priority to personal interests, are both human nature and human survival instinct inspired by real life. Liang Shiqiu once wrote in an article: "I saw Kong Rong's works when I was a child.
The story of pear is really valuable, and I feel ashamed of myself. Some people suspect that Kong Rong may have a bad stomach and was afraid of eating raw and cold, so he was willing to be humble. I dare not speculate. However, we have to admit that the benefits are among them, but
Humility is not an easy thing to make people forget themselves. Kong Rong's "The Story of Pear" has educational value, but it has little practical effect: it is rare in Kong Rong today. "Is humility really out of date?"
have you finished? Of course not. Modesty is a kind of mind, a kind of virtue, a kind of demeanor, a kind of wisdom and a kind of cultivation. We need the spirit of humility, and this era also calls for the spirit of humility. Today, modesty is out of date.
In the Qing Dynasty, a big family tried to build a courtyard wall to separate themselves from their neighbors. There was a serious conflict between the two families because of the location of the wall base. Although a large family has deep pockets, it is deeply touched that they have suffered immediate losses because their children are not as rich as their neighbors.
Face, immediately wrote to the son of a big official in Beijing, detailing the troubles at home, asking his son to go home quickly, trying to punish his neighbors and get back face for his family. Senior officials in Beijing quickly returned to China after reading this letter.
An urgent letter earnestly stated that a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor, and wrote four sentences at the end of the letter: "It is only a wall to get a book from a thousand miles away, so how can he tolerate three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I didn't see the beginning of the Qin Dynasty. "
The emperor. "Everyone read the letter and was deeply educated. They quickly repaired with their neighbors and decided not to build a wall between the two families and never separate their hearts! As the saying goes, modesty is not a loss, but a room for yourself.
There is a public service advertisement, except for people crowded in front of the bus, which has always been a voice-over. A man and a woman quarreled in order to get on the bus first. An old man calmly advised two young people to "relax and don't squeeze".
Both of these stories reflect the important role of humility in life. Discuss humility with an extremely optimistic and open-minded friend. She said that humility is actually a philosophy full of wisdom, because humility can sometimes not only
In order to resolve contradictions, it also reflects a kind of demeanor and self-restraint. "No dispute" is a kind of mental cultivation. Modern society requires people to be proactive, and no one is willing to give their own interests to others.
It's not that you can't face the really cruel competition, which has nothing to do with your personal ability, but that you can seek a kind of inner peace because of humility, and a calm heart will make you quiet, and a calm heart will breed great wisdom.
Showing tolerance, self-cultivation and personal charm will increase your popularity and gain more trust and goodwill. Who says that a person will not leave more room and opportunities for development?