In college, although love can be seen everywhere like flowers and plants, it does not mean that college students have a correct view of love and their feelings will rest easy. However, it does not mean that it has reached the point of worrying and expanding. College students have their own views and opinions on their love. This is also very important and commendable.
In real life, I found that about 70% to 80% of college students are their own emotional partners. Most of them know each other through learning and communication with school clubs, and some of them know each other through people such as classmates. Most of them think that love should be free, sacred, pure and noble. Half of college students think that knowing a lover is a kind of fate, and knowing a lover is determined by fate.
What is the basis of college students' love? College students also have their own opinions. Most of them think that mutual affection is the ultimate thing, followed by appearance, then talent, and finally money, background and other things that people think in society. Of course, there are also a few college students who think that the basis of love will be appearance first, then talent and other things; But few college students think that the primary foundation of love will be money, fame and fortune, which may be one of the differences between college students and some young people in society.
University is an integral part of society, and everything in society will be reflected in it. University is a microcosm of society, in which everything in society can find its own shadow. Of course, people in society also have their own views on love and career, marriage and sex. First of all, let's take a look at how college students view the relationship between love and study. On the campus of the university, you can easily find that there are the following categories of college students' views on love and learning: one is the non-influence category, which is considered by college students who are in love and students who have fought many battles. They think that they have been in love for a long time because they have rich experience and can properly handle the relationship between love and study. Let them go their own ways, and the two will not interfere with each other. In this way, studies and love are developing well, while others think that most of them are college students who are in love. They think this is because they have just come into contact with love. For them, love is full of dreams, fantasy, holiness, purity, passion and freshness. They are in love, and in a gentle country, it is inevitable to pay less attention to their studies. Influential people are generally composed of college students who have been in love or are single. They generally believe that people's energy is limited. On the one hand, if they spend more, on the other hand, they will inevitably reduce. Of course, love and learning are opposites. What's more, after a love only determines the relationship, it doesn't need to invest time and feelings. On the contrary, if you want to maintain a good relationship, you must keep moving in. So they think that since they have to invest so much, it will inevitably affect their studies, thus affecting their studies. In fact, what they said is not meaningless.
College students can understand the relationship between love and study, so what do they think of marriage?
First of all, how do college students view their marriage? Marriage among college students is a hot topic in recent years. I am also a college student, and I have my own views on this issue. Among the observed college students, most Shu expressed disapproval of college students' marriage. Why? Their reason is this: during the study period, parents or other guardians are fully responsible for their food, clothing, housing and transportation, and college students themselves do not have enough ability to support themselves. Under such circumstances, it is incomprehensible to burden their guardians for no reason. Besides, marriage has become a private issue. If college students get married, then a series of problems will come out. Marriage is marriage. If you get married, you must have a place to live. How to solve the residence, how to deal with the children after marriage, etc. Therefore, most college students think that it is unrealistic for college students to get married at school. I agree with them on this point.
College students have their own views on marriage at school, so what do they think of marriage? From my observation, it has become a common view to marry late and have children late. Modern students thinks that marriage is an important thing, which marks the achievement of a family. The establishment of a family is not only material, but also requires huge investment in other aspects. For example, getting married requires a lot of financial resources. If this part of the wealth is invested in the family, it means that it is already a fixed asset. Under normal circumstances, you can't use it as capital to develop, and it's not easy to come up with this money just after graduating from college. Even if there is, we might as well take it as the capital for further development. This is a ... Secondly, forming a family requires not only material wealth, but also a lot of energy and love to maintain the normal operation of the family and live a happy life. However, people's energy is limited. The more they invest in their families, the less they invest in their careers, which will inevitably affect the development of their careers. Moreover, once a husband and wife enter the family, it means the arrival of offspring, and the birth of offspring will inevitably make the female side stop her career in one or several years, and even ignore the foundation laid before, which is unfavorable to both women and men. Therefore, they think it is better to get married later. It is more appropriate to get married when both parties have a fixed career, substantial material wealth and enough energy to take care of a family. Among contemporary college students, there are many people who hold this view.
With the development of reform and opening up, the topic of sex has penetrated into every corner of society, and universities are no exception. So how do contemporary college students view sex? If you ask a male college student such a question: "For example, if you meet a perfect girl in college, you like her very much, and she likes you and loves you very much, and you feel very happy and cherished when you two come together; But then, you suddenly found out that the person you love had a relationship with her ex-boyfriend, which may have caused you great harm. You may be furious, but what will you do after you get angry? "Students may ask you what the answer is? He may look at you angrily and say, "I have never met anything like that, and I don't want to meet anything like that!" " "Then he turned his head and walked away. Maybe a classmate will tell you: "I will go to her, slap her in the face and break up with her, because my girlfriend must be a virgin." Of course, this is also a treatment; Perhaps, some students will say, "As long as she is loyal to me and really loves me in the future, then I can consider letting bygones be bygones." Of course, this kind of treatment is what we most expect to see.
The results of your questionnaire may be these three or more, but no matter how many, we can see the general views of college students on sexual issues. In society, the debate about the right and wrong of sexual behavior before mixing has never stopped, but until now it has no result, because there is no right and wrong of sexual behavior objectively, which is just an ideological constraint of people. When the human body develops to a certain extent, sex becomes a necessity and demand. When you love someone, sex becomes the inevitable result. Do you think it's right or wrong to have sex with the person you love? But premarital sex should be carefully considered, so should college students, especially those in love. After all, it matters a lot, although in this open society. Only by rational choice and practice can we ensure our long-term love and successfully embark on the other side of success-a happy marriage.
Contemporary college students should not only have a traditional sense of responsibility for love, but also endow themselves with a modern and fashionable concept of love, establish a correct concept of love, and let their love thrive and mature under their own reason and wisdom, and let themselves go on like a happy family with the happiness given to you by God.