Every generation has their different living habits and different ways of thinking, so the "generation gap" has quietly formed. Like a mountain, it separates people from different times and makes them unable to understand each other.
In the eyes of young people, the older generation always likes to restrain their next generation with old eyes and old ideas. Young people, on the other hand, are easy to accept new things. They always feel that the concepts of the older generation are out of date and that there is an insurmountable gap between the two generations. So they don't want to be taught by the older generation.
In the eyes of parents, the younger generation likes idolization, making friends, heresy and dancing on the internet, which are not serious things. Also, dyeing a good black hair is unbearable. It's just different!
Then something even more terrible happened: more and more young people were at odds with their families, ran away from home angrily, and some even went to the road of no return. Many children meet their parents because they lack communication with them and regard them as enemies. How chilling! This terrible thing, the generation gap, makes parents tired, makes children silent, makes people negative and makes families lose joy.
The generation gap has seriously affected our lives, so it is obvious how important it is to eliminate it. However, if we want to get rid of it, we must work together. As parents, we should communicate with our children more, let them speak their true thoughts, find ways to reduce their various pressures and become their intimate friends; Children should also talk to their parents. After all, parents are experienced people. We should learn from them, and at the same time, we should be more considerate of their hardships in running a house and share their worries, instead of unlimited demands and demands.
I believe that no matter how the times develop and change, flattening the generation gap is conducive to social progress and development. Facing this ever-changing era, each of us should be more understanding and less demanding; More tolerance, less care. Then, the generation gap between us will be leveled.
The generation gap is simply the psychological distance between people of different ages due to the gap of ideas.
Just like a ditch, it separates several generations and affects the understanding and communication between two generations. However, in the new century, the generation gap not only exists between the previous generation and the next generation, but also exists between people in 10 and 8 years, and even between the senior and junior grades of universities, there will be amazing and obvious differences.
People often say that the generation gap is the trace of time and the pace of change. From this perspective, it is natural to have a generation gap, and it is unnatural to have no generation gap, so the generation gap phenomenon is also easy to understand.
However, after all, the generation gap is a difficult point that puzzles communication, and it is easy to increase the possibility of prejudice and discrimination. People on both sides of the generation gap don't understand each other, but they are hostile. Therefore, we should make various efforts to bridge and fill the generation gap through various channels. Actually, the generation gap is not a physical existence, but a psychological existence. Contact can connect the broken psychological connection between generations, so as to achieve smooth and harmonious communication.
Parents must first have the ability to communicate with their children. For example, if you like children, you should always be close to them; Solve difficulties with children; Consider children's feelings and be good at emotional communication with children; Design goals according to children's abilities, so that children can experience the happiness of success; There are some codes of conduct in the family that children need to abide by.
In addition, parents should also understand their children. In modern society, children are under great pressure, including the pressure of learning, the pressure of development, the pressure of conflict with their parents and the confusion of communicating with their classmates. Now the whole society is anxious about success, and the standard of success is very single. For children, good test scores and going to a good university have become the only criteria for success. In fact, a person's success standard is not unique. A person's greatest satisfaction is spiritual satisfaction. One-sided emphasis on getting into a good university makes children feel no pleasure in learning and can't find happiness. Social values are chaotic in the transitional period, so it is difficult for children to choose their own values. Parents need to know their children before they can communicate well.