What is respect for yourself? Self-esteem is an emotion that values and affirms one's personality. Self-esteem refers to respecting and caring for yourself, from appearance to behavior and soul, safeguarding your dignity as a person, not doing anything detrimental to your personality, not kowtowing to others, and not allowing others to discriminate and insult yourself.
Some students blindly worship stars, so that they are crazy about idolize and idolize; Fans belittle each other's favorite stars and even abuse each other; Blind pursuit and imitation of all the behaviors of stars. Some people in social life can abandon the most precious feelings in the world, degrade their personality and even risk their lives for money. Who knows how many times this disregard for dignity will cost to get it back!
Each of us has our own dignity and we don't want to lose it. Personal dignity is the spiritual basis for a person to stand between heaven and earth. Without it, people are only empty shells, so they are not people.
There are also some people who will not sacrifice their dignity as human beings because of short-term interests. Such people are full of awe and awe. From ancient times to the present, there are stories about defending dignity, such as going to the State of Chu, self-esteem is the clothes of life, and China people who don't kneel-Sun and so on. These people who defend dignity are respectable.
However, our understanding of dignity cannot be simplified. Some students think that poor academic performance is not as good as dwarfism. In fact, academic performance can only reflect a person's learning situation and learning ability to a certain extent, and cannot represent personal dignity. Students with good academic performance can't think of themselves as high status, and students with poor academic performance can't think of themselves as inferior. Some students think that poverty has no dignity, which is wrong. Poverty is not a shame, but a shame of inferiority and decadence because of poverty. A man cannot choose his family, but he can change his family. Those who are not afraid of poverty and are determined to change it will gain more respect. Dignity is not a temporary gain or loss, nor is it the amount of wealth, but whether you regard yourself as a capitalized person.
Therefore, in order not to lose our dignity, we should distinguish between honor and disgrace and be brave in knowing shame; In order not to lose our dignity, we should grasp our own personality and not follow the trend; In order not to lose our dignity, we should be rich and powerful, not lewd, not poor and not terrible. In order not to lose our dignity, we must defend it with our lives; In order not to lose our dignity, we should strive to become stronger and make continuous progress.