Most people who live in the 2 1 century with rich material life are happy and miserable. Once upon a time, we stopped telling others what we really thought. Once upon a time, we all listened to the teachings of our elders and resolutely refused to talk too much with strangers; Once upon a time, I lived in the community for so long that I didn't even know who my neighbors were. ...
I always remember a good-neighborly and friendly color illustration in the primary school reader, my close relationship with the villagers when I lived in the countryside, and the fact that I stole other people's sweet potatoes from all over the mountains without being scolded. ...
Why are we not as close as before when living conditions are gradually improving?
I want to talk to Yao Qin. There are few confidants, who will listen to the broken string?
Why can't we have mountains and rivers like Boya Zhong Ziqi?
Today, we lack communication and communication, and the distance between hearts is getting wider and wider. People don't want to show the truest side to the public completely. This is what Tagore called "building a dike for himself".
I remember a classmate told me a common phenomenon now-I have a lot to say to another person every time, but I can't say it when I really meet, but I can say it through SMS, QQ and so on.
Why can't you say it in person? Why are you so close and distant? Indeed, the current communication methods are very convenient and diverse. But I don't think this is an excuse for your pale explanation.
Humans stand out from all living things because we have one more thing-emotion. We are not robots without blood. Nowadays, the society is advocating independence, but does independence mean staying away from the secular and "out of touch"?
People who appear strong are sometimes more fragile than ordinary people. This is almost a truth. Then please think carefully, what caused his vulnerability? Yes, it's desolation, desolation of human heart and desolation of reality.
Blinking one's heart is not "getting out of the mud without being stained", but distrust of people's hearts. If you don't trust others, you will know your own truth. If you don't trust others, you will confess everything to yourself. Maybe it can be said that you don't trust others to listen to yourself!
But why not have a try? Isn't the progress of human society achieved through repeated attempts? Try to pour out your inner voice to your elders, friends and teachers around you. Maybe some people really don't listen to you, but have you ever thought that if you trust others so much and express yourself completely, others will definitely put down their high profile for you? Why not take this step earlier?
How to make a drop of water never dry up? Put this drop of water into the sea.
How to make others stay away from you because they find your shortcomings? Tell me your shortcomings.
I'm just saying. Is it that hard?