Mr. Jiang Yang said: "The world belongs to oneself and has nothing to do with others." In this life, the most important thing is not to please others, but how to persist in being yourself.

Life is so ridiculous. I envy your food and clothing, you envy my freedom, and each of us wants to live like others. Few people seriously think about how to live like this. However, the meaning of our life lies in finding our true self.

Don't compare with others, it will only bind yourself in other people's world. Compared with ourselves yesterday, we should unswervingly follow our own path step by step, grasp our own rhythm, and just seek to surpass ourselves.

Don't live in other people's comments, don't pay attention to other people's gossip or gossip. We can't shut others up, but we can choose not to listen and ignore them. Living in other people's comments will only make you tired. The biggest stupidity in life is to let other people's gossip stir your life at will.

Don't try to please others. This is a doughnut. Pessimists see emptiness, optimists taste perfection. In real life, no matter how hard you try, it is impossible to satisfy everyone.

The world is your own, go your own way, wear your own shoes, stick to yourself and live your own life according to your own way of life.

2. Learn to talk to yourself and listen to the voice of the soul.

Someone once asked antisthenes, a psychologist at the University of Ancient Greece, "What did you get from philosophy?" He replied, "The ability to talk to yourself." . Learn to talk to yourself and discover your true self behind the mask.

In life, people always want someone to know what they think. But in the end, I found that no one in the bustling crowd could really understand you.

But who in this world knows himself better than himself? When you are anxious and confused, why not talk to your heart?

Ask yourself: Why am I anxious? Why do you accomplish nothing in your work? Is this the life I want? What have I gained and lost in my life? When my life comes to an end, will I have regrets? .

Only by analyzing yourself unreservedly in your own world can your soul be sublimated. Most of the regrets in life are because they have violated their original intentions and neglected their own hearts. Only by listening to the voice in the depths of your soul can you constantly correct yourself in your busy life and find inner peace and indifference.

Pay attention to the heart, let the heart bloom, bloom to the world, and the beauty of life will come quietly.

3. Reduce dependence on others and rely on yourself.

Hugo once wrote: "I would rather open the future on my own than seek the favor of the powerful." Don't pin your hopes on others, depending on others will lose your ability to think and act independently and lose your willpower.

Bill Gates said: The habit of dependence is a stumbling block to people's success. To achieve great things, you must kick them off one by one. Only by relying on your own success can you really succeed. "If you do everything yourself, no one can beat you.

Seeds break through the ground by their own strength and are full of vitality. Butterflies emerge from their cocoons and soar in the sky. Strong people struggle on their own and stand at the top of success.

Learn to listen to the deep voice of the soul and reconcile with the soul; Insist on being yourself, go your own way and let others talk; Insist on relying on yourself, not others, and be your own backer to live. The world is your own and needs to be created by yourself.

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