There is running-in everywhere in this world. Mining from the mountain, a seemingly ordinary stone, after refining and polishing, has become a sparkling crystal; Tool parts become harder and sharper by grinding; Just filled teeth are so convenient and practical after running-in; After years of running-in with seawater, the stones on the beach have worn off the redundant edges and corners and become natural toys in the hands of children. ...
Count it carefully, aren't there all kinds of running-in in our lives?
Maybe you just told grandma that you don't eat apples, and now it's the peeled apples on the table that blame her for much trouble; Maybe you were dumped by the teacher unreasonably, and the teacher didn't understand the students; Maybe you will become a stranger at the same table with him because of a little friction; In the noisy vegetable market, you accidentally scraped you because of a bicycle, and you are arguing with the shopkeeper; On a crowded bus, you may be unhappy because someone stepped on your foot; In the theater, maybe the loud applause of others affected your interest in watching the program. ...
How to solve so many frictions in life? Let's see how drivers who need to "run in" solve it. They first put the "running-in" on the back window of their cars to tell other drivers, hoping to get sympathy, understanding and help. After seeing this note, other drivers accepted him with tolerance. Like a big brother taking care of a little sister, let her go, protect her and let her pass at the intersection first. Even if she walks slowly, don't knock the cymbals to rush her. Over time, the note on the back of the car was uncovered and the problem was solved.
The initial solution to friction is understanding and tolerance. When you complain about your parents' nagging, do you put yourself in their shoes? Of course they will give their children the best things. In order not to let children take detours, it is inevitable to ask a few more questions. No matter how much homework teachers leave, their purpose is to let students master knowledge better, which is full of goodwill. Friction with classmates or strangers, as long as you understand him, know that this is not intentional, and forgive him with a tolerant heart, this small contradiction will soon disappear. It is understanding that brings people closer, and it is tolerance that makes the world warm. With such a tolerant heart, the problem of "running-in" will be solved.