She is a girl born in Japan. Wearing a pair of glasses on her face makes her quiet, but she is a lively and cheerful person and gets along well with her classmates. Her composition is comparable to mine, and sometimes even slightly better than mine, so I have been trying to surpass her completely, but I have been unable to do it for a long time. As the saying goes, "diamond cut diamond, you will meet talented people."
I remember that it was a composition class in grade five, and teacher Lin began to report composition scores. When she reported "Sun Xinjie, 95 points", I was so proud that I thought: I must be the first in my class again this time. Thinking about thinking, I can't help but smile at the corners of my mouth. As I expected, I was the first in my class. However, my "opponent" also got 95 points.
Teacher Lin smiled and said to us, "Let's read Sun Xinjie's composition first." As soon as I turned around, I saw the envious eyes of my classmates, and my face turned red at once, but my heart was still full of pride. I thought happily, "Oh, look how great I am!" I glanced at Jiang out of the corner of my eye and saw her listening to my "masterpiece" as usual. Teacher Lin read her composition, and I only heard three out of five points, and I forgot the other two points unconsciously. Suddenly, I don't know who put in a word. Teacher Lin said, "Anyone who listens carefully must have a good composition." As soon as I heard this, my face turned red. I listened carefully to her composition. Oh, I can't be underestimated. My literary talent is equal to mine. At that time, I secretly regarded her as an opponent, trying to find out my weaknesses, shorten the gap and give play to my advantages. After half a semester's hard work, I understand that "diligence is the golden key to success". Finally, "Heaven rewards diligence" won the first prize of "Mechanics Cup Composition Competition", which made me feel extremely happy and excited. I really want to thank her for this achievement.
Mencius once said, born in sorrow, died in happiness. I hope that in my future study, work and life, I can have an opponent like Jiang to inspire my fighting spirit and make me more determined to forge ahead. One must find an opponent, a confidant is hard to find, and an opponent is even harder to find. Learn to appreciate your opponent in the competition, because the existence of your opponent will make you stronger; Because the existence of opponents will make you more mature; Because the existence of your opponent will take you to the next level; Because the existence of opponents will make you feel a sense of crisis, you must constantly innovate, you will constantly improve yourself, and you will continue to move from one success to another.
(2) opponents are also friends. Just like competition and human feelings, they seem to be opposites. In fact, * * breeds * * * brilliance, and both are indispensable. If competition is a huge wave that pushes the boat of human civilization, then human feelings are sails that are raised high and point out the right direction, so that human beings can move towards prosperity and victory instead of sliding into the abyss of mutual attack. Competition makes society develop, human feelings make society warm, and competition and human feelings go hand in hand, so that society can develop harmoniously and healthily.
The noise of industrial civilization always breaks the tranquility of thousands of years of farming culture, and human beings are stepping into an era full of competition and contradictions faster and faster. However, the great leap in production relations has not made interpersonal relationships closer, but has gradually been occupied by cold human feelings. At this moment, where should we go?
If there is no competition, the carrier of society will lack the motivation to move forward, and the repeated struggle between advanced and backward will push forward the torrent of history. Natural selection and survival of the fittest seem to be the eternal truth of historical progress. Just like the law, after fierce competition, there will always be something new. For example, the great debate between the bourgeoisie and feudal forces in the semi-colonial and semi-feudal society of old China, just like the great debate on the standard of truth in the last century, promoted the awakening of the Chinese nation and enabled the advanced China people to find a way to develop the country's prosperity. In today's society, competition is more manifested in the confrontation between the same industries, the competition for talents and resources in the commercial field, and the debate in the academic circles. Thus, the strong win and the weak lose; Therefore, there are also differences and contradictions. Faced with this reality, what should be used to coordinate interpersonal relationships and grasp human development?
The answer is human feelings. Human feelings are like rain and dew, nourishing the land burnt by the flame of competition; Human feelings are like sunshine, giving warm care to those who are struggling in the cold and cruel competition. Human feelings are love, help and support, and human feelings are also tolerance, understanding and trust. Without human feelings, human beings are out of their nature. Only harmonious interpersonal relationship is the ultimate wish of human beings.
In the propaganda film of the 2008 Olympic Games, Mandela dressed in white, like a dove symbolizing peace, kindly said, "Olympic Games, 16 days' opponent, lifelong friend." This is really touching. Yes, tenacious struggle on the field is the mission, and sincere communication and peaceful coexistence off the field are the embodiment of the essence of the Olympic spirit!
Opponents are also friends. Just like competition and human feelings, they seem to be opposites. In fact, * * breeds * * * brilliance, and both are indispensable. If competition is a huge wave that pushes the boat of human civilization, then human feelings are sails that are raised high and point out the right direction, so that human beings can move towards prosperity and victory instead of sliding into the abyss of mutual attack. Competition makes society develop, human feelings make society warm, and competition and human feelings go hand in hand, so that society can develop harmoniously and healthily.
Remember, opponents are also friends. The competition on the field makes each other progress, and the intimate dialogue off the field also makes each other feel concerned and makes the society in a warm and inclusive atmosphere. Competition rises and falls in human feelings, and human feelings move forward in competition!
(3) In life, there are so many opponents. Whether it's a stranger on the street or a friend you live with day and night, it may be your opponent.
I regard my mother as my opponent. I compare cooking and housework with her. Although this opponent is an old hand, I will surpass her one day, so wait and see. Mom is cooking, and I will watch carefully. At this time, my opponent will say don't steal my stunt, and I will pretend to leave and watch it again when she is not looking. I cook this dish for one day, she cooks it for one day, and let my father be the referee. Housework is also recorded, and after a week, it is more than anyone else. I can't lose this to my mother. I also regard my friends as my opponents. They do many good deeds and get many praises. Today he helps Uncle Li clean, and tomorrow I help Aunt Zhang pick grapes. I think it is very important to be a good person. This must be compared. Between you and me, I am still a cousin who laughs a lot every day. After all, happiness is also very important. The opponents in my life make me more diligent, more naive and happier. In life, opponents are indispensable.
This indispensable opponent, thank you, let me make continuous progress, better and better.
So many, find some to copy ~