In real life, everyone pays attention to different aspects. Some people pay attention to face, while others pay attention to practical interests. Of course, I think practical benefits are more important, but I can try not to lose face in my life. After all, not everyone is thick-skinned.
Self-confidence and tangible benefits are the key to life. When I first came out of school, my self-esteem was really heavy, and I was actually very proud in my work and life. However, this did not bring me much benefit, but let me be blocked everywhere.
Being proud when getting along with friends in life means eating a lot of boring losses; Getting along with colleagues at work means that I need to do more work to maintain this harmony.
This has brought a lot of pressure to my life, and also made me really feel that saving face is not feasible in my life. Since then, I have paid more attention to tangible benefits. Even if the leader wants me to take the blame, as long as the compensation is in place, I will not be embarrassed.
This is actually real life. People who are very proud in life often live in a poor state. A gentleman can bully the weak and be afraid of the hard, but in fact, he should face up to it and suffer losses.
Of course, lining is important in life, but face must also be won. Even though we've been shouting? You can't judge a book by its cover, can't measure the sea water? But in real life, judging people by their appearances is a characteristic of people. This way actually exists widely in life. You lose face once, but if you lose it again and again, others will think you are shameless.
Perhaps there is nothing wrong with pursuing interests in real life, but we should also maintain our image in the hearts of others. Being able to maintain your image without affecting your own real interests is the best solution to a problem.
But in real life, you can't have your cake and eat it. Whether to choose face or lining needs you to measure your life and make a decision.
No matter which way you choose to take, try not to make a decision that is not conducive to your life because of the evaluation of outsiders.