There are countless people who claim to be happy in the world, but not many people think they are lonely. People who are "happy" are often cheerful, talkative, gregarious and lonely, which seems destined to be just a term accompanied by a dark, unfortunate and even abnormal attitude towards life. However, a person who thinks he is happy must be really happy?
The answer is obvious. A person who takes endless boring socializing, gossip and mediocre attitude towards life as the standard of happiness is just a mortal who is not lonely and does not understand loneliness. Schopenhauer said that "loneliness is the source of happiness and happiness". The loneliness here is not passive seclusion and self-enclosure, but the loneliness of "everyone is drunk and I wake up alone", a real loneliness and a great loneliness.
When Zhuangzi refused to be a senior official of Chu State without looking back while fishing, we experienced loneliness and chaos. Celebrities in the world have done their best, but Zhuangzi's loneliness outside is even more imaginative. Although we couldn't reach his mood at that time, he did show a trace of regret and disappointment. Zhuangzi is happy and happy. His silent refusal brought loneliness in his official career, but in exchange for high standards in the eyes of countless literati.
It is even more impressive if Zhuangzi's loneliness is based on complete disappointment with the authorities and politics.
Nothing is more thought-provoking than the loneliness of the times. When Lu Xun wrote "Send a message to Lengxing to announce that he didn't see it", he lamented the ignorance and incomprehension of the people. Before Bruno was burned to death, he shouted, "People in the future will understand me ..." So he was disappointed with the whole society and even the people at that time, and they had a sense of responsibility. They didn't choose to be born-times didn't allow them to do so. Facts have proved that their choice is not wrong. When they were alive, the world was dark, but what they did polished the spark and sowed the fire. They should be happy too, shouldn't they?
Loneliness is not terrible. The terrible thing is that if you don't understand its true loneliness, you will have a calm look on coldly, a sudden and lonely bow to the overall situation, representing wisdom, extraordinary, and not in cahoots. Only by enjoying loneliness can we enjoy happiness and happiness. There are also some lonely people, who are lonely in front and nameless behind. Their expectation is that there will be more people who dare to challenge the stale and dispel the darkness. They are the loneliest people.
Example 2:
Lonely, "Shiana La"!
Senior three (13) Huang Jingjing
Many times, when I think of my childhood, I can't help thinking of the eccentric, lonely and stupid child in Zhang Ailing's My Dream of Genius. It was too easy to be alone with me at that time.
Since I was a child, my parents couldn't go home because of work all the year round, which made me a withdrawn character. I have never jumped the rubber band with other children, although I am a good dancer.