I still remember that when I was in middle school, I was just a girl who knew nothing. There is often a famous saying in my mind: Shushan has a hard road, and learning the sea is endless. Words from relatives: study hard and get into the top priority. So I pay special attention to the main course. Therefore, I study every class carefully. Not long after, the political teacher said that the first test would be conducted. Based on my previous understanding of other teachers, I guess political teachers must judge people by their scores. So in order to leave a good impression on the political teacher, I secretly worked hard to get a good grade.
That morning, the political teacher copied the test questions on the blackboard, stating that if anyone is slow to respond, he can just write the answers without copying the questions. But in order to keep a complete test question, I just copied it once. I didn't start doing it until I finished copying it. The paper will be handed in soon. My first feeling at that time was: this is terrible.
For the next few days, I was on tenterhooks and moped all day. I am afraid that the political teacher will announce the scores in class like other teachers, and then look at me with sarcastic eyes without saying a word and give me a "special education" in front of the whole class. I have witnessed the helpless and desperate eyes of too many poor students.
What should come will still come. The political teacher finally mentioned the exam. The teacher's voice is as gentle and friendly as ever. She made a simple analysis of the exam. Finally, when it comes to grades, she said that the lowest grade in our class is 28. At that moment, I cleared Chu. That's beyond my doubt. The political teacher said something later, but I didn't listen to a word. I just care about how much I don't want to hear the name "a person who wants to impress the teacher" pop out of the teacher's mouth and become someone else and a laughing stock. But I have never heard of it, and even other people's rankings are not published as before. Surprised at the grotesque person secretly raised his head, and my eyes met the teacher unexpectedly. It is a kind of look that I don't often see in the eyes of other teachers: there is no blame or ridicule, but it contains infinite understanding and encouragement, and even a faint smile. The nervous mood will stabilize.
Perhaps, in the eyes of others, this is not worth mentioning at all, not to mention that everything happens for a reason. But at that time, I meant a lot. Really, at that age, we were actually very sensitive and fragile. Our self-esteem is particularly strong and we are unwilling to bear even a little harm. The teacher understands us, and she defends my poor self-esteem. Teach us to be optimistic about life.
Although, it is just a wave in the long river of life. But there is a non-spray, like an eternal flame, which has been burning in my heart on the first day of my life.
2. Composition about self-esteem and self-confidence Many facts have proved that self-confidence is a common quality of most people and an important factor in a person's success. It is often said that if a person is not afraid of being knocked down by others in life, he will get up again. The most terrible thing is to knock himself down and there is no hope. How can we avoid "knocking ourselves down"? This requires self-esteem and self-confidence.
A confident life will never be defeated by society, except for his own fatigue and inability to fight.
Self-confidence is the cornerstone of success in life, and the road to success must be climbed step by step with confidence. With self-confidence, people can achieve their desired achievements, become the people they want to be, and stick to the beliefs they pursue. Anyway, the motto of a confident person is: "I think I can, I can't now, and I will!" " "
Self-confidence can not only change the surrounding environment, but also change self-confidence
For example, there is a typical example: a psychologist chooses the most stupid and unlovable girl from a class of college students and asks her classmates to change their previous views on her. On a beautiful day, everyone rushed to take care of the girl, courted her and accompanied her home. Everyone really believes that she is a beautiful and intelligent girl with a fake. What was the result? In less than a year, the girl became very good, and even her behavior was completely different. She wisely told people that she was born again. Indeed, she has not become another person-however, she shows everyone's potential, and this beauty will only be shown when we believe in ourselves and people around us believe in us and love us.
It can be seen that self-confidence can work miracles.
However, self-confidence is not innate, and not everyone has it. Many people have low self-confidence, especially after experiencing some ups and downs in life, some people will feel ashamed. Others have actually learned how to belittle themselves to prevent failure in life. They think that self-confidence is a dangerous quality. The more confident a person is, the more likely he is to run into a nail and become the target of public criticism. Therefore, it is best to be a man with his tail between his legs.
Others have lost confidence since childhood, because adults always reprimand them like this: "Look, you idiot, fool, loser, you will be a street sweeper at most in the future!" " "Over time, he really agreed to these words. If he fails a little, he will comfort himself like this: "Anyway, I have been a fool and a loser since I was a child. How can I be whimsical? "
People with self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-discipline grow up in the process of overcoming inferiority and building self-confidence.
In real life, almost everyone knows the importance of self-confidence to career and life, but knowing the necessity of self-confidence does not mean having self-confidence. In fact, lack of self-confidence has always been a big problem that puzzles people. There is a survey of students who choose psychology in a university, and one of the problems is the most disturbing for individuals. The survey results show that 75% people lack self-confidence.
In life, people who are hidebound, timid, deeply anxious, incompetent and even doubt their own abilities can be seen almost everywhere. This type of person has doubts about whether he is responsible.
They also doubt whether they can seize the favorable opportunity. They always think that things can't be smooth sailing, so they are uneasy.
Moreover, they don't believe that they can have what they want. Therefore, they tend to shrink back for second time, and feel satisfied as long as they have some achievements.
So how to build self-confidence? (1) Setting goals for yourself is not only the need for success in life, but also the need to stimulate people's potential and create value to the maximum. Therefore, life must have a goal. With a goal, you will work hard to achieve it, and you won't worry about whether you have confidence or something other than the goal. In fact, setting goals is a sign of confidence. If you have a goal in mind, your subconscious will mobilize all your energy and strive to achieve it.
But when setting goals, we should pay attention to make them conform to our own reality, and don't aim too high. Otherwise, once the goal can't be achieved, you will feel depressed, blow your confidence and make you lose confidence.
(2) Give full play to one's strengths People grow up in the process of overcoming inferiority and building self-confidence. Natural people are very different, but in comparison, people have their own strengths and weaknesses.
When doing things, we must pay attention to our own advantages and avoid our own shortcomings. If you always do things that are not suitable for you, and compare your own shortcomings with the advantages of others, you will easily feel inferior and dampen your confidence.
(3) Do things in a planned way. What can bring confidence to the world? Achievement. What are the achievements? Work hard.
Hard work is a necessary condition for success. But it is not enough to work hard, but also to pay attention to methods and efficiency.
Many people in society are busy all day, but if you ask them what they have achieved, they may not be able to answer. For them, being busy is a necessary performance of work. If they are not busy, it seems that they don't work.
This is caused by careless methods. Lack of attention to methods makes them ineffective.
Over time, they not only pay attention to form, but ignore the basic content of efficiency. What are the ways to do things? There are many ways to do things, and I think making a good plan and following it is one of the most effective ways.
Making a good plan and acting according to the plan can not only improve work efficiency, but also experience the rhythm of work, so that you will not regard work as a kind of hard work; But as a kind of enjoyment, you feel the pulse of life at work and grasp the rhythm of life. One of my beliefs is "doing things in a way and doing things efficiently". We must pay attention to methods and make plans in our work.
People who have no plans will always be driven away by work. (4) Do things without delay. In real life, some people lack self-confidence because of the long-term accumulation of setbacks, that is, because some small things in daily life are not handled and accumulated, resulting in increasing psychological pressure. Over time, they will have a sense of failure psychologically, making themselves feel that they can't do anything well, thus lacking self-confidence. Therefore, the best way to build yourself is to take every little thing seriously.
Whatever you think should be done, big or small, should be taken seriously and handled well. First, give yourself a good explanation and make yourself satisfied. This is no small matter for building self-confidence.
Talk about methods and act efficiently. To do this, we must develop a focused work style, and at the same time, develop a good habit of getting things done every day.
If you don't let the routine work overwhelm you, you will feel relaxed psychologically, which means that it is easy to cultivate self-confidence by removing the reasons of inferiority.
4. Writing a 500-word composition with self-esteem, self-confidence and self-improvement has the power to give you the most needed help when you are helpless; Falling down will make you get up again; Turn anxiety into excitement, sadness into happiness, and let a smile replace a sad face.
Laughter makes you so lively and cheerful in front of ordinary people, and it also makes everyone have a good impression on you. They evaluate you: sunny, simple, lovely, clever, kind, naughty, positive, enterprising, kind, lovely and smiling.
Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Everyone says that you are the cutest, most lively, pure natural and pollution-free, so-called "smiling angel" boy, but yesterday you didn't play well and stopped at the top 8 in the country. At this time, everyone wants to see your sweet smile and confident posture again, but tears fill their eyes and blur our sight.
There is a kind of power called self-confidence, which can bring people all things that can't be achieved, happiness, happiness, and many more.
Confidence promotes success.
Believing that you can do it is a kind of belief.
Self-confidence is self-affirmation and belief from the heart.
Self-confidence is very important in interpersonal communication, career and work.
Self-confidence is a kind of self-confidence in one's own strength, and a firm belief that one can achieve something and achieve the goal pursued. )
I believe that confidence can bring you happiness and confidence.
5. Writing a 500-word composition with self-esteem, self-confidence and self-improvement has the power to give you the most needed help when you are helpless; Falling down will make you get up again; Turn anxiety into excitement, sadness into happiness, and let a smile replace a sad face.
Laughter makes you so lively and cheerful in front of ordinary people, and it also makes everyone have a good impression on you. They evaluate you: sunny, simple, lovely, smart, kind, naughty, positive, enterprising, kind, lovely and smiling. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Everyone says that you are the cutest, most lively, pure natural and pollution-free boy, the so-called "smiling angel", but yesterday you didn't play well and stopped at the top 8 in China.
At this time, everyone wants to see your sweet smile and confident attitude again. However, tears filled my eyes and blurred my vision. There is a power called self-confidence, which can bring people all unattainable things, happiness and many, many (self-confidence can promote success. Believing in yourself is a kind of faith.
Self-confidence is self-affirmation and belief from the heart. Self-confidence is very important in interpersonal communication, career and work.
Self-confidence is a kind of self-confidence in one's own strength, and a firm belief that one can achieve something and achieve the goal pursued. I believe self-confidence can bring you happiness and self-confidence.
6. Self-respecting and confident people. This rock is very strong. Facing the tenacity of the rock, the stream confidently exudes a magnificent scene. The mountain is strong, facing the majestic mountains, Gu Song shows eternal green with self-esteem; The north wind is the strongest. Facing the strong north wind, drizzle quietly sneaked into the soil with the spirit of self-improvement and moistened the earth ... life is long for decades. Once you stand in front of the strong, what choice will you make? Is it inferiority, crying, following, or like a stream, like Gu Song, like a drizzle? The goddess of nature explains this with everything in the world and exhorts people to listen: in front of the strong, we should be self-reliant, self-respecting and self-confident, and live the charm of our true self.
Self-confidence is a solid cornerstone to stand in front of the strong. If a person lacks self-confidence, he is doomed to be defeated by the strong, but having self-confidence can make you stand higher. Have you noticed that the revolutionary martyr Xia never gave up in the face of the enemy's sharp sword? With the belief that the revolution will win, he sang a song: "It doesn't matter if you behead, as long as the doctrine is true, Xia will be killed, and others will come later", which gave him willpower and gave the enemy a shock.
In the face of the enemy and the strong, Xia's fighting capacity is so small, but he has a firm revolutionary belief and confidently shows an indomitable manhood. It is true that if you want to live your true self, you must have confidence, but in the face of the strong, you must also know how to respect and love yourself.
Dickens said, "To belittle others blindly is only to belittle yourself." Therefore, in the face of the strong, we need self-esteem rather than disdain.
As the manager of a state-owned enterprise, Wang Mingwei is valued by the board of directors and has a bright future. But faced with a younger and more knowledgeable assistant manager, he began to worry about his position, so he pushed others out again and again, and finally failed to get promoted because of his narrow mind.
In life, we do often meet strong people who hinder our progress. However, only self-esteem can make us have our own stage. Of course, in front of the strong, we don't allow ourselves to be followed by others forever. In order to live a sincere charm, we must constantly strive for self-improvement. You didn't see that East Asian countries just made a laughingstock. You didn't see that Eastern European countries blindly copied the highly centralized political and economic system of the Soviet Union, which eventually led to an economic crisis.
Just as the bus can only wait and never catch up, following the strong will only make us gasp. Only by constantly striving for self-improvement and constantly enriching and perfecting ourselves will we eventually become a strong person in front of the strong.
Inferiority, xenophobia and conformity are all stumbling blocks to success. In front of the strong, only self-confidence, self-esteem and self-improvement can make us live our true selves. Like a brook, like Gu Song, like a drizzle, we will improve ourselves with self-confidence, self-esteem and self-improvement, and the real charm of live high in front of the strong.
7. Please write a narrative composition around self-confidence, independence, self-reliance and self-improvement. I, a confident girl, enjoy the happiness of success and the pain of failure in the ocean of growth. They always knock on my door from time to time, and with them, I have become a confident me, and I have withstood the baptism of wind and rain. The busy mid-term exam has passed, and everything has temporarily returned to its former calm, but my heart is not. I haven't forgotten my nervousness during the exam. I will never forget that day, the first Chinese exam in my life that made my heart beat faster. In retrospect, my hands are still cold and I keep sweating. At eleven o'clock that day, when I finished all the Chinese examination papers, the stone in my heart fell to the ground and I looked up the questions happily. However, when reading the composition, it seems that I was suddenly splashed with a pot of cold water in winter, and my heart was cold. My composition is off topic. Maybe I read it wrong. I'm too nervous. How is that possible? However, my intuition and the facts in front of me tell me that it is really beside the point. Suddenly, I was shocked. What should I do? Rewrite one? However, time must have passed. I didn't look at my watch carefully. It is definitely not enough. How did this happen? I seem to see time slip through my fingers. No, no, come back! Tears filled my eyes. Why is it my turn? My hands keep rubbing against each other. How I wish time could come again! No way! There are still more than half an hour, which is still possible, otherwise I will definitely be anxious for these hours. Who cares? It hurts when it hurts! At that important moment, I felt that I was hovering between writing and not writing. Finally, reason finally made me decide to fight. I firmly believe and feel confident that I can do it. I am a confident person, and what I work hard will surely succeed. Where there is a will, there is a way. 1 1 point 10, there is still half an hour before the end of the exam. I took the composition paper and sat down. As soon as I got the pen, I began to write quickly. Thinking of the failure and success of the English exam, I quickly wrote an article. Slow down, slow down, don't go too fast. I prayed in my heart. My hands are shaking, my heart is shaking, and I feel that I am working hard all over. Finally, this long-awaited article was finally released. Now 1 1 point 37, I really feel great. In such a short time, I succeeded. I think I have created a miracle. I handed in my test paper. Although it is a short-term work, I still believe in it and myself confidently. I won't fail this time. The next week, the score came out, 90 points. Although not the best, I am still in high spirits. At that time, I finished my first composition exam in an extremely tense short time. This proves that my confidence is correct. Witnessed my poor experience. Nothing is impossible in the world. It is impossible to just dare not do it, not impossible. Believe in yourself and do what you dare not do, and we will see success beckoning to us. I am confident to continue my growth journey and still accept the test of wind and rain. However, I have a precious memory in my memory and a confidence in my belief.
8. A political composition with more than 300 words of "self-esteem, self-confidence and a happy life", should China students be self-reliant? The answer is yes-China students should learn to stand on their own feet. However, in real life, some China students are lazy and dependent. They depend on their parents in childhood, their teachers in study and their friends in society.
There is a story about a teenager who once went out to eat with his classmates. When he got the eggs, he said that the eggs here were not delicious and were different from those at home. Asked him why it was different, he said it was too difficult. The eggs at home are white and soft, so they can be eaten with them. It turned out that his parents had been peeling eggs before giving them to him. It's a big joke that a teenager doesn't even know how to peel an egg. However, the fact is that children's self-care ability is too low. Shouldn't we learn to stand on our own feet and do our own thing?
There is such a shocking news in the newspaper: an excellent student of a famous university committed suicide. What caused this college student with excellent academic performance to commit suicide? It turns out that he is troubled by life: he doesn't know how to buy food, wash clothes and tidy his room ... Maybe we will find it funny, but look around, how many children don't know how to wash clothes and cook by themselves? Shouldn't we learn to stand on our own feet and do what we can? Some people live to be eighteen and don't even know how to wash peaches. Some people go to junior high school and get sick and don't even know to buy medicine. Some people have even studied for three or four years, and they don't even know how to tidy up their schoolbags. Some people ... they just extend their hands to make a living. They are like little emperors on high, and their parents are servants who can come and go, pointing east and not west. We can often see these "little emperors" that many foreign children's mothers are "cruel" mothers, and many foreign children's fathers are also "cruel" fathers. Bill Gates, the richest man in the world, however, he donated all his property to the motherland, leaving only a little money for his children to go out to work and make money. Foreign mothers see their sons degenerate; Resolutely do not help him, foreign children borrow money from their parents and write IOUs; Children in foreign countries have to make their own money when traveling, while students in China only need to ask their parents. Isn't this a huge contrast? May parents in the world let their children learn to be self-reliant and self-reliant, and may children in the world learn to be self-reliant and self-reliant.
9. Do I have self-esteem? Confucius said: everyone has self-esteem; Everyone needs self-esteem.
Self-esteem is like a banner, which is impressively above people's life and work. Flying high on the commanding heights of human spirit and soul shows his superior position.
Self-esteem is powerful, and its power is enough to turn troubles into motivation and mountains and rivers into light. Sima Qian was imprisoned and wrote "Historical Records", which was passed down through the ages. Liu Zongyuan was demoted to Yongzhou and wrote Snake Catcher. Hua was born in poverty, studied hard and later became a famous mathematician. The power of self-esteem urges them to go forward bravely on the road of life until they reach the peak of their career.
Self-esteem is an indispensable fulcrum of the human body. The meaning he gave to life. When Rochester, as a rich manor owner, turned to Jane, a low-ranking and unattractive tutor. Love shouts, "I have suggested despising you," Jane. Love resolutely raised the banner of self-esteem: "Do you think I have no self-esteem if I am poor and ugly?" Our spirits are equal, just as you and I will eventually stand before God through the grave. "So she finally won the sincere admiration and love of Rochester. Isn't this the power of self-esteem?
Let's show our self-esteem.