As long as you live well, the author A Fei starts with growth, relationship, love, life and dreams. There's no big reason, just hope that when you are facing the low tide of life, A Fei's outlook on life can give you a little courage and encouragement. "The world will not only give you prosperity without giving you setbacks. It is impossible for this society to have only those who protect you without those who attack you. We can only learn to meet the beautiful in the unsatisfactory life and know how to be satisfied in the unsatisfactory life. 」
We always think that if we want to have a successful life, we must keep pushing forward and climbing up. Work, you have to work hard; If the job is boring, you should find something more meaningful to do; Even in the end, we only see people who are better than ourselves, and others don't like them ... However, can we really get the life we want through such efforts? Is this life really happy?
Sometimes, all we need is a "change of mind"! When you are busy, you can stop to think and challenge the values of success instilled in you by others. By doing so, it will be easier for you to embark on your ideal future. Here are a few examples:
1. Occasionally do something without nutrition and talk nonsense without nutrition. Life is like a rubber band. You can't keep stretching it, and you can't keep trying to stretch it. You must always relax in time to keep your elasticity.
When the work or meeting atmosphere is busy and tense, it may be inappropriate and meaningless to make a small joke, laugh at yourself, be cold or play dumb, but it can make others laugh and relax themselves.
If you can play, how successful you are! In order to find ways to accomplish more work and create better performance, most people are used to arranging their schedules densely, and filling all their time with various visits, meetings and work. There are only three things in life: working, eating and sleeping. Their time for breathing and playing is extremely short. It seems hard, but in the long run, your work performance may not be better, because this way of working not only gives you too much pressure, so that your body and mind can't relax, but also easily leads to the lack of flexibility and creativity in your brain thinking.
Although we often hear elders say, "don't always think about having fun!" However, traveling and having fun can never be a bad thing. When your life is richer, more exciting and your vision is broader, you will be more energetic and have a broader mind.
Besides, life should be made up of several flavors, and work is by no means unique. If you only taste one or several flavors, it will be too boring. Now that we are in this world, we should certainly try our best to taste the thousands of flavors in life. Love, family, study, study tour, food, rest or travel, there are too many people and things worth experiencing, and life can be more colorful.
The more boring the job is, the better you should do it. You may feel that your present job is insignificant, has no future, or even looked down upon. However, every industry, every occupation and every job exists for a certain purpose and mission, and it is needed only when it has certain value. No fool will pay you to do meaningless things for no reason.
If you think your job has no future, should you ask yourself what a promising job is? If your ability is not enough for those so-called promising jobs, please do something within your current ability first.
Every job has its unique experience and value, so we can learn something from it. Every job has its specialties and skills, which deserve to be respected and thanked. Every kind of work is the power to run this society. We should not underestimate ourselves. Only by doing a good job can we be responsible for a better job.
4. The more you look down on people, the more you want to learn the concept of class or seniority from them, which will inevitably extend to the differences in attitude and manners, but in terms of mentality, you should show respect to anyone. Everyone must have something that we can learn without being in two places. Know how to respect and ask for advice with an open mind. When you need other people's help or professional knowledge, you can naturally get more help and get solutions.