How to cultivate children's good behavior habits from an early age is the common wish of every parent. Habits cannot be formed overnight. Once bad habits are formed, you will suffer for life. On the contrary, forming a good habit will benefit you for life. We all know that it is very beneficial for children to form good habits, but it is not an easy task to form good habits, because people are not simply dominated by sex, but also restricted by their own inertia of thinking and behavior. Good habits play an important role in children's study and life, and it can even be considered that habits determine fate. Now I will talk about my views on the cultivation of children's good behavior habits. Respect teachers, unite classmates and be a polite child. Parents are children's first teachers, and the life of getting along day and night has long been deeply rooted in children's hearts. Since kindergarten, our children often instill some methods of communication with their children, so that she can tell them all the experiences of the day every day, and then put forward our adult views on a certain problem, exchange their handling methods, and seek answers from children by rhetorical questions, so that she can keep them in mind and solve similar problems easily and independently in her future life and study. In this process, it is also an essential link to cultivate children's polite language. Nowadays, parents attach great importance to children's intellectual development, but in the process of children's growth, it is extremely important to cultivate children's good living habits from an early age. Gorky said: "Language is the clothes of all things and thoughts". As modern parents, in the process of raising children, we should pay attention to educating children to learn polite language from the stage of learning English. Parents should let their children learn to speak kindly, behave gracefully, be lively and generous, and develop good habits of sincerity and generosity. Children's earliest education is to imitate the people who have the most contact in their living environment. Imitation is the earliest way for children to learn. How parents treat people, how to do things and how to learn are vivid textbooks for children. Therefore, parents' good habits are the main prerequisite for cultivating children to develop good habits. Parents' daily behavior habits are the best example of educating their children. Parents should be cautious in their daily behavior and influence and infect their children with their own role models. Respecting elders is a traditional virtue. To educate children to respect their elders, parents should first respect the elderly and influence their young minds. Let children learn to respect others from an early age. Teach children to say "good teacher" or "hello" when they meet teachers or classmates at school, and at the same time smile back; Smile and thank others for their help; When others accidentally offend you, smile to show understanding; Respect, love and care for the elderly, respect foreigners, people in trouble or disabled people, be polite to them, and give them help and convenience as much as possible. (2) Develop the habit of self-conscious and independent study to lay a good foundation for future study. As the old saying goes, "If you don't teach, it's your father's fault, if you don't teach carefully, your teacher is lazy", which makes me understand a lot, so if you think about it carefully, it will have a different meaning. Experts' research and observation show that if children's learning ability is not fully developed in the pre-school stage, then children are likely to have low learning ability and can't keep up with the progress of school learning in the future. Parents should not only attach importance to their children's early education, but also stimulate their children's interest in learning and reading, which is very beneficial to cultivate their good study habits. The first and second grades of primary school are the formative stage, so children should gradually develop the habit of resting on time, getting up on time and studying on time to meet the tense learning needs in the future. The role of parents as role models should not be underestimated. Parents are children's first teachers and the first role models for children to imitate. Parents' words and deeds, ideas, and cultural qualities influence children all the time. It can be said that we can always find the shadow of parents from our children. Parents should like learning, be good at learning, read books and read newspapers. We should lead by example, start with our own behavior habits, and then set practical learning goals according to children's age characteristics, so that they can form a good habit of loving reading and learning through bit by bit cultivation, which will have an impact on children's life. Children's good behavior habits are consciously cultivated by adults. Once the habits are formed, they are not easy to change. Therefore, parents should fully realize that good behavior habits are an important part of children's education. We should start with the simplest and most basic behaviors in life and cultivate children's good habits. "World affairs, will be fine; The world is difficult and easy. " Let children start small and grow into an independent, confident, responsible, willing to learn and good at getting along with others. (3) Develop a good habit of winning without arrogance and losing with grace, and overcome arrogance and charm. Whether studying or living, we must overcome the arrogance and femininity of children. Good academic performance should not be complacent, but should be modest, aware of their own shortcomings and constantly improve themselves. In life, we should pay attention to let children do what they can, overcome the pampering of the only child, and strongly oppose the bad habits of mouth-to-mouth and clothes reaching out, so that she can know what she can do and do it herself from an early age. Gradually adapt to the environment, cultivate the habit of living independently, and lay the necessary foundation for future life. (4) To cultivate honesty, be a man first, then do things. Honesty is particularly important in today's social life. The so-called "it's a deal" and "a promise is a promise" all reflect the importance of honesty. Because it is not uncommon to be cheated now, parents should set up a banner of honesty and trustworthiness in their children's hearts. From an early age, she realized that if she wants to do something, she must be a man first, and her words and deeds must be consistent. No lies should be told, but should be severely criticized and corrected. Good habits are the capital stored in people's nervous system, which keeps increasing in value, and people enjoy its interest all their lives. Bad habits are morally unpayable debts that can torment people with ever-increasing interest.