A person's success often comes from insisting on being himself. However, in this era when genetic characteristics can be replicated, everything seems to have a fixed standard. From every commodity at hand to the growth of every child in every family, it is produced according to a fixed standard year after year. Will excessively fixed standards really bring success and happiness to a person?
As we all know, there is an insurmountable peak in China's classical literature-A Dream of Red Mansions, which has been praised and commented not only by literary masters such as Lu Xun, Hu Shi and Zhang Ailing, but also in academic circles for 300 years.
The world has produced a special knowledge called A Dream of Red Mansions. A novel has been studied to this extent, and the most important point is that the author shows it in the book by describing a series of tragedies under feudal bondage.
Deep humanistic care. All kinds of excessive feudal standards in the book can only bring tragedy to each character's own life, which is the greatest value in the book.
If a dream of red mansions is only literature and art
A work of art, then there are still vivid examples in reality. Bill Gates, who has been the richest man in the world for many years in a row, realized that his life goals and studies were in conflict when he was a sophomore, so he voluntarily quit.
Learning, he started his entrepreneurial journey, and finally achieved a Microsoft empire and himself. If you put it in the exam-oriented education in China, parents will surely exclaim: Why can't you wait until you finish reading?
Industry? However, Bill Gates didn't wait, because what he wanted to do was himself, so he was Bill Gates, and all the students produced according to the standards were probably able to enter Gates' enterprise as employees, which was already very satisfying.
It can be seen that when a person really realizes his own value, being able to persist in being himself is the most valuable.
Mao Zedong, the founding leader of our country, has been Chiang Kai-shek since the Jinggangshan period.
When all kinds of regular troops invaded with military standards, he was far-sighted and tried his best to survive by guerrilla warfare again and again. He won four counter-campaigns, and the fifth time was because of military standardization.
France lost the Jinggangshan base area. So Mao led the Red Army to the north, and the 25,000-mile long March reached northern Shaanxi, which preserved the revolutionary strength and finally won the revolutionary victory. This is not because he insists on being himself, but for the masses.
Did the people get a brand-new China?
Therefore, to become a butterfly needs to break the cocoon, and success does not depend on people. When each of us is in the right direction, can stick to ourselves and be unmoved by the outside world, success and happiness must be waiting for you not far away.