In daily life, honesty is nothing more than keeping promises! However, in modern society, it is difficult to find its figure. Let's say yesterday, my great uncle invited me to decide where to eat, but when I told him where I was going, he gave me all kinds of excuses, so I went somewhere else.
The ancients said well, "Make friends and keep promises". This kind of dishonesty in modern society is very irritating. People who break their promises lose the most important thing between people-honesty without any consciousness, or feel ashamed for their own interests. Just think, what kind of friendship can there be between people if words don't count and people don't have integrity? Then why make friends?
Remember, if you don't keep your word, it will not only reduce others' trust in you, but also make others stop trusting you, even feel disgusted with you, stop interacting with you, and your interpersonal relationship will get worse and worse, and finally take the consequences.
In his masterpiece Li Yu, Liu Ji tells a story: a rich businessman hit a stone while crossing the river and his boat capsized. He shouted in the water, "whoever can save me, I will give him 100 two gold!" " A kind fisherman fished him ashore, but the rich merchant only gave him 80 taels. The fisherman accused the rich businessman of breaking his word, while the rich businessman accused him of being too greedy. The next day, the rich merchant still crossed the river by boat, but unfortunately, he fell into the water again. The rich businessman still shouted in the water, "Who can save me from going ashore, I will give him 100 two gold." The fisherman who once saved it told people around him that the rich businessman had broken his word. As a result, no one saved the rich businessman, and he drowned.
From this perspective, the consequences of bad faith are very serious. Moreover, China has had excellent qualities since ancient times, such as "one thousand yuan guarantee" and "all people have died since ancient times, and the people have no faith." Can we abandon this fine tradition?
How to cultivate an honest character? The key is to start with "small things". For example, when I was a child, I borrowed a comic book from a friend or classmate and promised to return it tomorrow. Then you must return the book tomorrow. This is not just a matter of comics. You may not know how happy another person who wants to borrow this book will be when he gets it back on time! And how disappointed will you be when others don't trust you? Therefore, to have integrity, we must first consider others and think for others.
For the respect and trust between people, let's try to be honest people, do more honest things, and make the society full of integrity!
Failure is the mother of success.
In today's world, scientific and technological progress is changing with each passing day, and the competition of comprehensive national strength is becoming increasingly fierce. In this case, innovation ability and innovation achievements become important factors to determine whether a country and nation can win the competition. Encouraging and promoting innovation has become an urgent need to achieve development and progress.
However, everything has the possibility of success or failure, especially innovation as an exploratory practice. For innovators, success is a test and failure is also a test. Indulge in the glory of success, often may stop the pace of progress; Unable to get out of the shadow of failure, it is easy to miss the opportunity of success. Edison, the inventor at that time, tried many times to find a filament that was not easy to burn out, but failed. When many people sighed for his failure, Edison said: I didn't fail, I just found something that didn't meet the requirements. After unremitting efforts, Edison finally invented the electric light and brought light to mankind with science and technology. This story tells us that never giving up is an important condition to realize innovation.
Innovation does not give up, not to say that all innovation activities can be successful, can be a total victory. Innovation is difficult, it can't be done overnight, and it won't be smooth sailing. Innovation is not giving up, but more refers to a spirit, a quality and a pursuit.
Innovation and never giving up are a kind of spirit. This spirit of not being afraid of failure and daring to win. Failure and success, gains and losses are always relative and dialectical. With great efforts, there will be great gains; Great achievements can only be achieved if there is a great realm. Successful innovators understand the dialectics of success and failure is the mother of success. In the process of innovation, it is common for one thing to fail again and again. In the face of failure, we can neither shrink back nor lose heart. Because of a mistake, it can be a good thing as long as it is slightly adjusted; Repeated setbacks, as long as they persist, can always lead to victory. The real failure is often to be devastated after being frustrated, and all success comes from rising from failure and advancing in development.
Innovation and never giving up are a quality. This quality is to face up to difficulties, never back down. The road to innovation is full of dangers, but the infinite scenery is on the peak of danger. As Wang Anshi said, the transcendent world outlook is often to stay away from danger, and what people lack is difficulty, so where there is a will, there is a way. In the face of difficulties and obstacles, "retreat" has no way out, and "timidity" is difficult to win. Innovators should have the heroic spirit of "water under the bridge, destiny takes a hand", and the more frustrated they are, the more courageous they are. There is no royal road to innovation, and only those who are not afraid to climb along steep mountain roads can hope to reach the peak of glory.
Innovation and never giving up is a pursuit. This pursuit is to work hard and forge ahead. Innovation is the soul of a nation's progress and an inexhaustible motive force for a country's prosperity. To promote the cause of Socialism with Chinese characteristics and realize the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation requires and calls for innovation. Innovation is the pursuit of entrepreneurs, never giving up, and self-confidence and self-improvement is the choice of innovators. Self-confidence can summon up the courage to start again; Self-improvement can stimulate the potential of seeking up and down. Confidence is not conceit. Confident people have self-knowledge, know how to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and will not act rashly. Self-improvement is not being brave. Self-improvement, clear-headed, good at sizing up the situation, and don't stop until you reach your goal.
Innovation is not easy, and victory or defeat is common. Therefore, we should be more understanding and tolerant of those who are committed to innovation and strive to create a social environment and atmosphere conducive to innovation. For successful people, we should present beautiful flowers and give sincere praise; For losers, we should also show full understanding and provide necessary help. Only in this way can the vitality of innovation be generated and the achievements of innovation emerge continuously.