There are people around me who are echoing and saying, "Do you think all soldiers will give you their seats like in TV dramas?" .
Five minutes later, after the bus left, they all stood up and offered their seats to those passengers who had no seats.
When many people saw this news, they all said: Soldiers are human beings. Why should they give up their seats for a giant baby like you?
Those passengers are a moral kidnapping for soldiers. They think: since they are soldiers, they should give their seats to us ordinary people.
Morality kidnapped you to do these things, such as respecting the old and loving the young and giving up your seat on the bus. Some old people are obviously physically strong. You just need to let others make way for you, so that you won't be scolded for disrespecting the old people and being a scum in society.
However, there are too many moral kidnappings in reality, which makes people breathless.
Awei grew up in the countryside. Knowing what his parents expected of him, he studied hard and finally got into a good university. He found a good job after graduation.
He didn't want to work for others all his life, so he started his own business with his savings. With his own efforts and knowledge, he succeeded. He bought a car, a house and a wife in a first-tier city.
Awei really wants to live with her parents, but her parents are used to life in the countryside, and they are afraid of going to a big city and don't want to disturb their husband and wife's life.
So awei went back to his hometown to visit his parents every month and gave them enough living expenses. They also had a good life.
But what makes him a little depressed is that his neighbors have a lot of complaints about him, saying that he has the ability to buy a car and a house. Why can't he save money for his parents' pension? If he is rich, he will forget his roots.
Although awei felt a little guilty about not bringing her parents to live with her, she still respected her parents' opinions and planned to wait until her wife gave birth to a child.
Most importantly, buying a car and buying a house is his own expense. He visits his parents every month and gives them living expenses. He feels that he has nothing to owe. Why do these people want moral kidnapping?
In fact, these moral kidnappings reflect a kind of psychology, that is, authoritative personality psychology.
Authoritative personality psychology, also known as authoritarian personality, makes moral kidnappers want to influence and control others more. Under this kind of psychology, they will have a sense of power.
They often lose the ability to empathize and make them overreact.
Some people think that the moral kidnapper is the virgin, but it is actually for the good of the other party, but in the wrong way.
But this is not the case. The Virgin Mary can be a moral kidnapper, but the starting point of moral kidnappers is not the Virgin Mary.
Just like awei, the neighbors are not concerned about his filial piety, but that he can't afford a car or a house, but he does. Since we can't say it directly, we should kidnap morality and interfere in his life with filial piety.
For most moral kidnappers, they still understand, but the reason why they become such people is largely because they are incompetent, poor, failed and psychologically unhealthy.
I believe you should remember that Ma Yun was forced to donate. 20 15 Tianjin Port exploded, and Ma Yun, as the richest man in China, made no donation. So on the internet, he was kidnapped by netizens on a large scale, and his image became a rich man who was heartless to the rich.
However, if someone leaves a message on the Internet saying, "You are so rich, why don't you give me some flowers?" It is estimated that he has been bombarded for a long time and scolded, "Are you poor and reasonable?"
So when this happened somewhere in China, they used so-called morality and justice to carry out moral kidnapping.
And most people are people with low social status. In this moral kidnapping, their position with Ma Yun was reversed.
These people behave unpatriotically. If they are really patriotic, they will find ways to be truly patriotic, instead of using this moral kidnapping to make other countries look at jokes.
The horror of moral kidnapping can be seen in some small things at ordinary times.
For example, in transportation, if there are old people, children and pregnant women, some people will accuse young people of not giving up their seats, or the parties will accuse young people of not knowing how to respect the old and love the young at all.
When they were kidnapped by morality, they never thought about whether the other party was tired after a day's work and whether the other party was uncomfortable before giving up their seats.
There is a cloud in the Book of Songs: "Give me a peach and give me a plum."
It refers to friends, giving answers to each other and reciprocity.
Today's people often don't pay attention to reciprocate, but just like to ask for it blindly. Think about it, do you often hear such words-
Anyway, if you have money, donate more;
Anyway, if you are on the road, you will get on the bus at work;
You should, because you're good.
In married life, if a woman wants a divorce because of a man's infidelity, domestic violence and other behaviors, those women with poor marriages will definitely persuade her not to divorce, and they must endure it for the sake of their children.
Such a woman thinks: Anyway, my life is bad and I can bear it. Why divorce? Suffering for a long time, suffering together.
People who like moral kidnapping think that moral kidnapping is too easy to use. As long as they show morality, they can beat a person.
In fact, after a person has knowledge and achievements, he will not kidnap others morally, because they know what it is like to kidnap morally.
Moral kidnappers are mostly people who have no self and no pursuit. They have neither knowledge nor achievement, and they can only satisfy their psychology by moral kidnapping.
You don't have to be afraid of moral kidnapping. Because of your Excellence, the other party has no choice but to attack you with moral kidnapping.
In society, there are really many incidents of moral kidnapping, which is inevitable. You must learn to be tolerant to make your life more comfortable.
Don't be serious with those moral kidnappers, because if you are serious, you lose. Only by putting up with this can you move towards success faster. There are people as good as you waiting for you not far ahead.
Please don't kidnap morally, it's really tiring.
That's easy to say, but what if you need to move your fingers every day?
I'm sorry, my hand has been raised long enough, and I'm very tired. Please raise your noble hand.