On Family Education and Success
Success Today is an era where opportunities and challenges coexist, and it is a society with unprecedented fierce competition. To be a success in such a society, your own efforts and persistence play a decisive role, and only you can control your own destiny. However, we should also see that family education is a factor that cannot be ignored in a person's success, and good family education is a booster for children's success. Good family education is conducive to cultivating children's lofty aspirations. If parents are people who love life, children will also love life. If parents live a gloomy life, their children's sky will not be clear. Parents' firm pursuit, dedication and sense of responsibility have set an example for their children. As Dreiser said in Sister Carrie, "Harmonious family air is a kind of flower in the world. Nothing is gentler than it, nothing is more beautiful than it, and nothing is more suitable for cultivating a family's natural strength and integrity. " Meng Mu's three tricks, under her correct guidance, will have the eloquence of a generation of wizards Mencius; Mother-in-law tattooed, with her ardent expectation, there will be Yue Fei of Megatron Land Rover; Su Xun is determined that under his diligent demonstration, there will be a beautiful talk of "one father and three sons are great writers". Good family education can make children fly higher and farther. Good family education is conducive to the formation of children's cheerful personality. Character determines fate. An optimistic, cheerful, enthusiastic and brave person will always feel energetic in his work, while an introverted, lonely and timid person will only feel timid in his work, and the effect of his work can be imagined. And a good personality needs parents to shape it with love: encouragement, praise, affirmation and support will definitely make children full of confidence; Criticism, accusation, abuse and denial will only make children at a loss. Didn't Helen Keller gain an optimistic attitude towards life in the sunshine of her family? Didn't Shi Tiesheng realize the value of life in his mother's silent patience? Didn't the Bronte sisters' interest in writing form under the influence of their parents' literature? Family education is an important part of shaping children's character. Good family education is conducive to the formation of children's healthy mind. At present, there are many reports about the cruelty of young people or teenagers, such as throwing acid at bears, hitting children on the head with wooden sticks, ganging up to attack disabled people and so on. However, the actual investigation found that most of these behaviors were related to their lack of parental love or long-term abuse. Their hearts are seriously distorted because of the lack of love from their parents, and they hate everything. Therefore, a good tutor is a fertile ground for the formation of a child's healthy mind. With it, it is more conducive to the growth of a healthy mind; With it, it is convenient for children to take the first step to become talents. Good family education is conducive to the formation of children's correct outlook on life and world view. Outlook on life and world outlook determine a person's life value orientation, and parents have a subtle influence on their children's outlook on life and world outlook. Although some of them will change in their future study and work, their initial influence is far-reaching. If they form the concept of leisure, cheating and money first from an early age, their lives will be in danger. And a good tutor is to cultivate children's correct world outlook and outlook on life from an early age. "If the child doesn't teach, the father will make a mistake." Parents have an unshirkable responsibility here. Therefore, we have to say that a good tutor is like a compass, always guiding children in the right direction; Just like a fertile soil, it always breeds a healthy personality; Like a booster, send the child to the take-off runway. How can children grow up without you-tutoring! Comments: This paper is rigorous in argumentation, and uses the word "beneficial" for positive argumentation, which accurately explains the dialectical relationship between the two concepts of the topic. In writing, we also pay great attention to the discretion of speech. For example, the first paragraph emphasizes that success depends on oneself first, and then puts forward "factors that cannot be ignored", which is strictly logical. Secondly, the thinking is clear and fully discussed. The full text clearly discusses the benefits of family education to children's success from four aspects: it is conducive to cultivating children's lofty aspirations, forming children's cheerful personality, forming children's healthy mind, forming children's correct outlook on life and world outlook, and strongly supporting their own views.